18 TRUTHS ABOUT THE WIFE'S CLITORIS

1. The clitoris is a God-created organ, created only for sexual pleasure. Don't be shy about it

2. Alot of men ignore the clitoris not knowing how powerful a woman's clitoris is

3. The clitoris is more sexually sensitive than the vagina. Ignoring it is missing out on a lot 

4. The husband's tongue and the wife's clitoris make a perfect match 

5. The husband's tongue is suitable because it is naturally lubricated and can bend and do acrobatics on her throbbing clitoris. The lubrication is good because the clitoris is senstive 

6. The fingers of the husband can also be used to rub and please the clitoris as he kisses her 

7. The husband can also rub his hardened penis on her clitoris for pleasure 

8. Playing with the clitoris is good foreplay, it makes your wife sufficiently wet to receive your hardened commando 

9. Dear wives, do not be self conscious about your clitoris. Spread your legs and let your husband see you in all your glory to play with that sweet centre of yours. A rigid and closed up wife will not enjoy love making. Confidence and freedom is attractive to your husband 

10. Dear husbands, give clit jobs as much as you request for blow jobs

11. Pleasing your spouse sexually and creatively is not ungodly as long as both of you are comfortable and enjoy it

12. Most loving husbands get turned on by sexually pleasing their spouse. If your husband loves licking you and rubbing your clitoris, don't refuse him 

13. A lot of wives wish their husbands licked them more and for longer. If your wife likes it, give it to her generously 

14. For your husband to enjoy licking you, maintain good hygiene and shave often

15. For your wife to enjoy being licked by you, maintain good hygiene, especially oral hygiene 

16. Most women climax more through clit jobs than penetration 

17. Dear husbands, if after pumping and penetration you ejaculate but your wife is yet to reach her climax, consider licking or rubbing her clit till she screams your name as she reaches orgasm 

18. Love making in marriage doesn't have to be boring

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MY SPOUSE LET ME MAKE YOUR SEXUAL FANTASIES COME TRUE

1. Tell me your favourite sex position; it's not just about me

2. Tell me which places on your body you want me to play with. I am your student 

3. Tell me your naughtiest desire, I will not judge you. I will serve you as you want it

4. If something is missing in our sex life, don't look for it outside; bring it here in our marriage

5. If there is something I do that turns you off, tell me. I will stop it immediately

6. If ever you are horny and you want to get some, let me know. You will never be sexually frustrated in our marriage

7. If ever we have arguments. I promise to keep our sex-life sacred and not allow it to be affected

8. Don't turn to pornography or self-pleasure. Keep your focus on me. I will feed you well

9. People make time for what they value. I value making love to you, in fact, I enjoy it so I will make time for it

10. Do not be ashamed to be dirty and kinky with me. I am your naughty partner in crime

11. Sex has a shelf life, our libido will not last forever. Let's enjoy it while we can. Let's make use of our organs and pleasure 

12. I give you permission to desire me in any way you want. Grab me, touch me, kiss me without permission; my body is yours 

13. Boring will never be used to describe our sex-life, no matter how many years we will be in marriage 

© Dayan Masinde 

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19 ROMANTIC THINGS TO DO THAT DON'T INVOLVE SEX

When romance is often mentioned, many think it is all about sex. But romance is actually anything you do to your partner that communicate and show that him/her is special to you. Here are a few examples. 

1. Calling your partner a special name that you wouldn't call any other person such "Honey", "Sweetheart"

2. Cooking together. This activity actually gives you two a chance to bond closer 

3. Going out on dates to intimate places (not clubs) where you can look into each other's eyes and have heart to heart conversations

4. Pulling up her seat or holding her hand when she climbs up a stair case.  Even though she can do this on her own, this makes her feel like you are mindful of her 

5. Singing love songs together.  This warms the heart 

6. Covering each other in prayer. The most romantic thing is taking care of each other's spirit 

7. Holding each other's hand as you walk.

8. Going out for walks, picnics and plays

9. If you have children, planning dates just for you two as you make plans for someone to take care of the kids. Children tend to kill romance if you are not deliberate about maintaining the fire

10. Talking on the phone till late about heart matters if you two are far from each other. If all you talk about till late is sex then you are missing out on depth 

11. Writing each other love letters.  Yes, there is something special about reading each other's handwriting in this digital age. Leave a note for your partner on the pillow or post a letter if your partner is far away 

12. Making him a warm drink as he works or going to see him with packed lunch. This shows that you have him in mind 

13. Sending a parcel. There is something special about opening up a physical gift from the one you love 

14. Praising each other publicly, whether in front of your friends, on social media or in social gatherings. But do this only when you love your partner well in private, otherwise it is just pretense 

15. Writing each other poems, love songs or warm messages of how much you mean to each other 

16. Sitting next to each other in church services as you read from the same Bible

17. Talking with your child/children about how you two met. Children love those stories of mom and dad. This reminds you two of how far your love has come 

18. Wishing each other a good night and a good morning. Simple words but they mean alot 

19. Having pillow talks on your marriage bed as you cuddle and be vulnerable with each other 

Remember that is your life partner. Do and say things that communicate love. If you two are dating and your coming together is because of sex, then you are missing out on a chance to build on a strong foundation on which your future will be built.

 If you two are married and you stopped making each other feel special especially since the children came, or the only time you pay attention to each other is when you want sex then you are weakening your marriage. 

Bring true romance back.

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DON'T WAIT...

1. Don't wait until your spouse is sick, for you to serve him/her

2. Don't wait until your wife is pregnant, for you to help her in the home 

3. Don't wait until your husband is rich, for you to appreciate his contribution 

4. Don't wait until you are caught, for you to stop having an affair 

5. Don't wait until your spouse serves you divorce papers, for you to start fighting for your marriage 

6. Don't wait for your to lose your spouse, for you to start valuing your spouse

7. Don't wait for others to praise your spouse, for you to notice how amazing your spouse is 

8. Don't wait to have an accident, for you to start listening to your spouse's warning about driving while drunk 

9. Don't wait until you get into a huge mess, for you to finally seek for advice and help from your spouse 

10. Don't wait for your parents and spouse's parents to sit you down and lecture you, for you to start taking your marriage seriously 

11. Don't wait until someone else starts to give your spouse attention, for you to start treating your spouse special 

12. Don't wait for the pastor to preach hundreds of sermons of rebuke, for you to love your spouse right 

13. Don't wait until your children move out as adults, for you to remember your spouse 

14. Don't wait until the people you are having an affair with dump you, for you to go back to your spouse 

15. Don't wait for your spouse to die, for you to wish he/she was still alive for you to love better 

16. Don't wait till it's too late, to be the best spouse 

Choose to love from your personal and internal conviction, not due to external pressure 

© Dayan Masinde

12 LESSONS FROM PSYCHOLOGY OF MONEY

1. Spending money to show people how much money you have is the fastest way to have less money.

2. Getting money is one thing. Keeping it is another.

3. Be nicer and less flashy. No one is impressed with your possessions as much as you are.

4. You might think you want a fancy car or a nice watch. But what you probably want is respect and admiration.

5. Saving is the gap between your ego and your income.

6. Use money to gain control over your time.

7. The freedom to do what you want, when you want, with whom you want, for as long as yo want, is true freedom.

8. Warren Buffett’s net worth is $84.5 billion. Of that, $84.2 billion was accumulated after his 50th birthday.

9. Independence, to me, doesn’t mean you’ll stop working. It means you only do the work you like with people you like at the times you want for as long as you want.

10. Happiness is just results minus expectations.

11. Doing well with money has a little to do with how smart you are and a lot to do with how you behave

12. A genius who loses control of their emotions can be a financial disaster.

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Don't treat your partner's family like they are nothing to you.

*READ IT CAREFULLY!*

*A husband said to his wife: I miss my family, I hope you will prepare lunch tomorrow, so I can invite them, it's been a while.*

*The wife said with a sigh: God willing, it will be good.*

*The husband said: OK, I will invite them.*

*The next morning, the husband went to work and at one o'clock he came home, and said to his wife: Did you cook lunch? My family will come in an hour.*

*And the wife said: No, I did not cook, because your family are not strangers, they can eat what is in the house.*

*The husband said: God forgive you! Why didn't you tell me yesterday that you won't cook and they will soon be arriving, what will I do?😒*

*The wife said: Call them and apologize to them, after all, they are not strangers.*

*The husband left the house upset and after a few minutes, there was a knock on the door. The wife got up, opened the door and was surprised to see her family, brothers, sisters and children!*

*Her father asked her, "Where is your husband?"*

*She said to him: He left a while ago.*

*HER FATHER SAID,* *"Yesterday, your husband invited us for lunch. Is it possible for him to invite us and leave the house?"*

*The wife was stunned by the news, and began rubbing her hands, puzzled that the food in the house was not befitting for her family. She called her husband and said to him: Why didn't you tell me that you intended to invite my family for lunch?*

*He said to her: My family is your family, and yours is mine. There's no difference.*

*She said to him: Please bring ready-made food with you when coming, there is no food at home.*

*The husband said: I am very far from home and your family are not strangers, feed them from the food in the house as you wanted to feed my family.*

*MORAL LESSONS*

*1. Support your partner's well-being and happiness it will definitely return back to you.*

*2. Don't treat your partner's family like they are nothing to you. You have exchanged families immediately you get married.*

*3. Do unto others what you want them to do to you. This is the greatest humanitarian aid human relationship blueprint in the scriptures.*

*4. Love and treat others  as much as you love yourself.*

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