DEAR YOUNG GUYS AT THE AGE OF 25 TO 30

Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made.

Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow with them. 

Grow with your kids and succeed with

your wife. You will never finish making money or achieving your plans. 

You might still not succeed at your target year. So start your life early, with consistency you will grow.

My father said this to me: _When i was 25, i was talking about making billions before i marry.

Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of my life very early, But my fear was, can i really take care of her? But right now She's married with Four grown up children. 

The guy that married her was still schooling then, but had the courage. They worked hard and succeeded together. I failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry early, don't wait.

Don't make our mistakes, I see

my childhood friends play with their kids.. 

Most of them are not doing as well as me.. But they are happier with their families..

Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your

happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With

a well planned life they are happier.

Trust me it

isn't money, What is our problem? 

Build mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still we don't have those things we dreamt of, and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_

Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at that age? Their grand father.

Please young men, take my advice seriously.

Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many fault in has many good qualities if you look well.

Don't think you will get every thing before you

settle down. God can change your life in a blink, with a good and Focus#Copied

SEX IS SWEET BUT CAN DESTROY YOUR DESTINY.

sex is sweet but there is poison in between the legs" (A Must Read)

Most downfalls of men are caused by MULTIPLE girlfriends.

Sex is a spiritual encounter I stand to be corrected, not every girl has a good spirit,some are demon, some has

poison in between their legs.

Some are killers and destiny destroyers, be careful. Worst is a man who can't control his sexual urge.

A man who can control his sexual urge is a man who can live many years on earth.

1. Having many girlfriends does not make you a man. It only makes you a womanizer, a cheat, sinner and a boy.

2. A real man has only one woman(wife) in his life.

3. For the fact that you are good in bed does not make you a man. A real man is the man who does not run away from his responsibility but faces it squarely.

4. You don't need to sag your trousers and walk round the street before girls will love you.

Infact it is only small boys that sag trousers and it is premature little girls that fall in love with men who sag trousers.

5. Don't use and dump women. Remember the law of karma. Whatever you do, you will receive the reward.

6. If you cannot make her your wife, don't make her a mother. If she can't be your wife don't sleep with her.

7. Do not obey your erection at all times. Most times your erections mislead you to the wrong direction.

Control your erection. Don't let your erection control you. If you don't you will have few days on earth with much poverty on you.

You may insult me but it doesn't matter to me now, because am done telling you this.

8. It is not everything you see under skirt that you should hustle to eat, some skirts contain snakes that will bite you and leave you uncomfortable. Control your sexual urge. Self control and abstinence in most cases pays a lot.

9. Do not date a lady because she has sexy curves, boobs and shapes. Those things are just packaging; and

packaging can be very deceptive avoid such, don't fall for what's called the irony of Social Media

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20 WAYS TO BEFRIEND YOUR PARTNER:

" How can I be a friend to my Lover?"

A friend is someone who understands you and adds value to your life.

The popular saying says" Marry your friend or Befriend anyone you marry".

1. Speak to her softly instead of shouting.

2. ‍Always make her smile and crack jokes for her. Stare at her face and Smile, if she asks why smiling. Tell her she's beautiful;  laugh when she cracks jokes or says something funny. Frowning always is not spiritual.

3. Walk a distance together.

4. Hang out together at eateries.

5. Watch movies( wrestling, football, and Christian films) and play games together.

6. Fulfill purpose by going into ministration together.

7. Write love letters to each other.

8. Read books together.

9. Read the Bible together.

10. Pray together.

11. Sing praises and worship together.

12. Shop for her.

13. Speak your dialect.

15. Call her sweet names ( Honey, Gem, Gold, my heartbeat, my sugar...)😂😂😂

16. Coauthor a book.

17. Cook for her.

18.  Seek her advice and follow it as the spirit leads.

19.  Discuss your plans with her.

20.  Keep your money with her. Support him financially.

Above all thy getting, befriend her, and watch things work for you in your relationship. 

Marriage is too long for you to journey with your boss, not a friend.

It's absurd for you to be in a relationship and still have opposite sex Bestie somewhere else.

A relationship thrives when you start with friendship!

Marry your friend!

Befriend your Lover!

Marry your talking mate!

Marry your purpose mate!

Marry your spiritual mate!

Marry your genotype mate! (You should marry someone your genotype is compatible with. )

Marry your playmate!

#Too_late_for_your_Relationship_to_fail

#Be_friend_your_lover

#Be_his_or_her_closest_friend

FOR ALL MARRIED COUPLES ~

I told my wife to follow me to somewhere and I drove off to SPAR on Azikiwe road. I did not even tell her that we are going to SPAR When we got there, she exploded

"Do you have money? What are we doing here? I said "just follow me and pick anything you want."

Right inside SPAR, I picked a cart and wheeled it behind her. "Pick anything you want baby."

See women o! Na so she dey pick, pick, pick.

The cart was full. Then she picked her own cart too, and in minutes, her cart was full too. I picked the bill, almost N86,000. As we were going out of the mall, something struck her ... "You did not buy yourself anything! she wondered" "Ah, I have no cash left i said. Let us go home ..."

"No, I have some money she said. Let's go back and pick what you want. So we went back. My wife picked a bill of N42k for me alone.

Now, you know I never knew my wife had money on her? But she brought it out and spent it on me because I had impressed her. My man, Impress your wife, she will spring surprises on you.

Now look at this again: when I scrutinised all we bought with my N86k, hardly was there anything strictly for her. Almost everything we bought were things we used at home and for the children. But when it was her turn to buy for me, I bought things for MYSELF! Shaving cream, boxers, stockings, slippers, DVDs, singlets, my kind of wine, (understand?) etc. Things me alone use!

It taught me a great lesson: 

Most women are good. Most women are not greedy when they are in love. All they want is show them you love them, and they will surprise you.

 

You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name

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DIRIMENT IMPEDIMENTS TO MARRIAGE IN THE CATHOLIC CHURCH, CHAPTER II

A diriment impediment renders a person unqualified to contract marriage validly. Diriment originates from Latin, dirimere to hinder, to stop, or to eliminate.

Public and Occult Impediments:

An impediment is public if there are witnesses who are aware of the facts and are ready to testify to it or there are documents to prove its existence.  Hence, if an impediment is not public it will be occult.

IMPEDIMENTS IN THE CHURCH, SECTION B

ABDUCTION:

No marriage can exist between a man and a woman who has been abducted or at least detained with a view of contraction marriage with her unless the woman choose marriage of her own accord after she has been separated from the captor and established in a safe and free place.

The essential elements that lead to impediments are: the person abducted must be a woman, the abduction is done against the will of the person, and the motive is for marriage

CRIME:

Anyone who with a view to entering marriage with a certain person has brought about the death of that person’s spouse or of one’s own spouse invalidly attempts this marriage

CONSANQUINITY:

Consanguinity is about true blood relationship between persons. A marriage is never permitted to exist here

AFFINITY:

Affinity is based on valid marriage and exists between a spouse and the blood relations of the other spouse. Marriage cannot validly exist between the man and blood relation of the woman or between the woman and blood relation of the man because they are related by affinity

Note that brothers and sisters of the man are not related to the brothers and sisters of the woman by affinity. It is only the married party who is related to the blood relatives of one he or she marries.

PUBLIC PROPRIETY:

Impediment arises from an invalid marriage established from notorious public concubinage. Marriage is prohibited in the direct line and only in the first degree which means that a man will not marry the daughter of his spouse (whether married or not) born to her in her previous marriage/union  

LEGAL RELATIONSHIP:

Once a legal relationship has taken place according to civil law, an impediment to canonical valid marriage arises between the adopted persons. It prohibits marriage between a person and his or her adopted parent and between adopted brothers and sisters.

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DIRIMENT IMPEDIMENT TO MARRIAGE IN THE CHURCH: CHAPTER 1

A diriment impediment renders a person unqualified to contract marriage validly. Diriment originates from Latin, dirimere to hinder, to stop, or to eliminate.

Public and Occult Impediments:

An impediment is public if there are witnesses who are aware of the facts and are ready to testify to it or there are documents to prove its existence.  Hence, if an impediment is not public it will be occult.

IMPEDIMENTS IN THE CHURCH:

1. AGE:

Though generally acceptable age in most countries is 18; according to cannon law 1083: a man before he has completed his sixteenth year of age and a woman before she has completed her fourteen year of age cannot enter into a valid marriage, these ages are subject to law governing a particular diocese or even a particular state

2. PHYSICAL IMPOTENCE:

To constitute an impediment, impotence must be antecedent (before) marriage and perpetual (permanent/lasting forever).

Antecedent and perpetual impotence to have intercour** whether on the part of the man or the woman, whether absolute or relative nullifies the marriage

The impediment of impotence consists in the inability of a man or a woman to complete normally a sexu** intercour**. 

The counterpart of impotence is potency, which is the capacity to perform an act for the generation of offspring. Potency consists of erection of the peni*, penetration of vagin*, and ejaculation. For the woman, she has to possess the vagin* and the capacity to receive peni*.

3. PREVIOUS MARRIAGE:

A person bound by the bond of a prior marriage, even if it was not consummated, cannot validly contract another marriage/invalidly attempt marriage

4. DISPARITY OF RELIGION:

A marriage between two persons, one of whom has been baptized in the Catholic Church or received into it and the other of whom is not baptized is invalid. An impediment exists here because it touches the ability of the Catholic party to practice the faith with devotion and to raise the children according to Catholic doctrines.

5. SACRED ORDERS:

Impediment flows from the law of celibacy and holds for bishops, priests, and deacons.

6. PUBLIC PERPETUAL VOW:

Persons who have taken a public perpetual vow of chastity in a religious institute invalidly attempts marriage

7. ABDUCTION:

No marriage can exist between a man and a woman who has been abducted or at least detained with a view of contraction marriage with her unless the woman choose marriage of her own accord after she has been separated from the captor and established in a safe and free place.

The essential elements that lead to impediments are: the person abducted must be a woman, the abduction is done against the will of the person, and the motive is for marriage

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