14 Most Needed Quiz in A Relationship

14 Most Needed Quiz in A Relationship 

It's necessary you take this quiz serious.

1.       Marriage Expectations 

a.     Till death do us part

b.    I plan on the long haul, but we have options if it something terrible happens

c.     We should only stay in this relationship as long as we are happy

2.       Communication

a.     I try not to say things that will make my partner mad

b.    Sometimes I’m not sure my partner understands what I'm trying to say

c.     We have a hard time listening to each other on hot-button issues

d.    I feel comfortable expressing my feelings and being vulnerable with my partner

3.       Trust 

a.     I trust wholeheartedly until you do something to break my trust

b.    You have to earn my trust; I don’t give it out to just anyone

4.       Fidelity

a.     Don’t say or do anything away from me that you can’t do in my presence

b.    I don’t mind a little flirting, but no touching

c.     We can have an open relationship as long as we agree on the boundaries

d.    My idea of fidelity is not described here

5.       Work 

a.     Both partners should work – I believe in shared responsibility

b.    I’m okay being the breadwinner if partner wants to pursue non-income interests

c.     I prefer not to work outside the home once I’m married

d.    We should both work until we have children

6.    Budgeting

a.     I‘m a saver – you never know when you might need it

b.    I like to live in the moment and enjoy the fruits of my labor – you can’t take it with you

7.    Finances

a.     I prefer to manage bills, bank accounts, etc.

b.    I prefer my partner to manage the bills, bank accounts, etc.

c.     We should manage our finances as a team

8.       Family of Origin

a.     I like to see my parents and siblings on a weekly basis

b.    A little bit of family time goes a LONG way

c.     I see my family on holidays

9.    Future Family

a.     I want to have biological children with my partner

b.    I’d like to adopt to share our love and resources with a child in need

c.     If we can’t have children naturally, I’d like to explore every option available to us to become parents

d.    I don’t want children

10.   Spiritual Beliefs and Practices

a.     My faith is the foundation of wellbeing – I practice my faith regularly

b.    I believe in a higher power, but I’m not actively involved in practices

c.     I believe in the goodness of humanity; no need for a higher power

d.    Spirituality is not an integral part of my life

11.   Conflict Resolution

a.     I don’t like to fight; I prefer to avoid confrontation to keep the peace

b.    Arguments are uncomfortable, but it’s important to work out our differences 

c.     Fighting it out is the only way to deal with our issues – I won’t stop till we reach a resolution

d.    My partner and I don’t argue

12.   Sexuality / Intimacy / Affection

a.     Sex is the key to a healthy romantic relationship – it’s how I show love

b.    Sex is an important component of the big picture of our relationship; it deserve our time and attention

c.     Sex is not important to me; I show my love in other ways

d.    I need physical touch to feel loved

e.     I do not feel comfortable with sexual intimacy

f.      My views on sex and intimacy are not reflected here

13.   Leisure Time (circle all that apply)

a.     I need to decompress by myself at the end of a long day at work

b.    When we’re not working, I like to spend the majority of my time with my partner

c.     I have several hobbies and lots of good friends; I love my partner, but I definitely need “me” time

d.    I like to take at least one to two big vacations each year

e.     I like to stay close to home and relax in my free time

14.   Roles, Responsibilities, and Decision Making

a.     I’ll take care of the inside of the house; my partner can take care of the outside

b.    I’ll take care of the outside of the house; my partner can take care of the inside

c.     I prefer to work together on both the inside and outside care of our home

d.    I don’t do work – let’s hire people

15.   Goals and Dreams

a.     I have big dreams for myself; I hope my partner won’t stand in the way of them

b.    I believe partners should create shared dreams

c.     Both A and B are important to me

Are you surprised by yours or your partner’s responses? Are you more aligned or less aligned than you expected? This quiz is a snapshot of some key issues that arise in long-term relationships. It is by no means a predictor of the overall health of your relationship. It is simply a guide for opening discussions and gaining a deeper understanding of each other. If you’ve uncovered some areas of sensitivity, it may be wise to find a professional marriage counselor to help you navigate these conversations and build a stronger foundation of insight and trust.

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Ignorance is NOT bliss, but knowing oneself and one’s partner on a deeper level can be.

The meaning of true love from a man.

The meaning of true love from a man. 

I hate to say this but most women will go their entire lifetime and never experience the meaning of actual true love. 

It's even slightly depressing to think that most people will never understand how powerful this picture actually is. 

This gentleman is a prime example of how men should be treating their partner with everyday that passes. 

We unfortunately live in a generation with men who have no idea what it takes to be a real man. 

Let me give you a couple examples of a real man ...... 

A real man asks about your day and genuinely cares about the answer. 

A real man respects your boundaries and never forces you to anything you're not ready to do. 

He makes time for you, and takes that time to learn and understand who you are as a person. 

A real man consistently shows you the definition of effort with every day that passes.

He will call you randomly throughout the day just to check on you and your mental health. 

A real man is undeniably committed to you and looks for new ways to fall in love with you with every day that passes. 

He makes protecting your heart a number one priority.

A real man never makes permanent decisions based on temporary emotions.

He never confuses you on where you stand in his life.

A real man apologizes when he is wrong and stays true to his character. 

He doesn't mind hurting other people's feeling to protect yours.

A real man gives you affection without sexual expectation. 

A real man refuses to entertain any women that isn't you. 

He has genuine intentions with you from day one and shows you how it truly feels to be a priority rather an option. 

A real man will help you heal from the trauma that nobody apologized for.

A real man values you and would never put themselves in a position to lose you. 

Take my advice and wait for the man that never let's you fall asleep at night questioning your own self worth. 

~ Cody Bret

SHOULD JNR POPE BE BURIED AT THE BANK OF THE RIVER NIGERIA?

SHOULD JNR POPE BE BURIED AT THE BANK OF THE RIVER NIGERIA?

According to the customs of some communities, especially those living around riverine areas, especially in Nigeria, those drowned by the water are buried somewhere around the water. According to them, if that is not done, the spirits of the water will haunt the living. 

In some areas, the person who drowns stays beneath the rivers for certain hours or days before he or she floats. In Urhobo custom, it is believed that the bodies of drowned people would surface about 24 hours after drowning.

Since the death of Jnr. Pope has been reported, there are pressures that he must be buried beside the river. Hmmmm! I do not know what the family would do, but if it were me, I would bury him at home and wait for the wrath of the gods.

We are in the 21st century, for goodness sake! The fact that we should not throw away our traditions does not mean not allowing them to grow and evolve. Any tradition that does not grow with society is harmful.

Every European society used to have various customs of burial in order to appease one spirit or another, but most of these disappeared with enlightenment, scientific advancement, and technological advancement. 

Do we really know the physical or health consequences of burying one at the bank of the river or sea, or are we only afraid of the spiritual consequences?

Mr. George Okoye carried out research recently on this matter. He discovered how seaside burials poison water sources and endanger riverside residents’ lives.

According to his research findings published in the Nigerian Punch Newspaper on January 6, 2024, "it is customary in many riverine communities in the Niger Delta region to bury people who drowned or were killed at sea or in any water by the seaside or in the mangrove." 

Godfrey George, who visited such communities in Rivers State and took water samples for laboratory investigation, writes that "this practice contaminates the water sources in the area, exposing residents who drink and use the polluted water for their daily needs to deadly diseases.

Speaking on the matter, an environmental engineer, Maryam Ijaiya, said, “Decomposition [of bodies] releases organic matter and potentially harmful substances, impacting water quality."

Any cultural practice or belief in the world that poses any danger to health, peace, or progress has outlived its importance. In line with this, many customs have been revised or updated without any spirit raising an eyebrow. Culture is made for man, not man for culture.

Fr Angelo Chidi Unegbu [12.04.2024]

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SO SAD💔‼️LEGEND RISE & FALL - DO YOU KNOW THIS ENTERTAINER BACKDAYS ⁉️😱

SO SAD💔‼️LEGEND RISE & FALL - DO YOU KNOW THIS ENTERTAINER BACKDAYS ⁉️😱

Obinna Kelvin Anyanwu (born in Port Harcourt, Rivers State, Nigeria), better known by stage name Waconzy, is a singer, songwriter, record producer and philanthropist with family roots in Umuahia, Abia State. 

He rose to prominence in 2010 with his song "I Celebrate" which appeared on the I Celebrate album. His second album Money Back Guarantee was released in 2013.

Do you know that "I Celebrate by  Waconzy’s" was one of his hottest hit track from his album that brought him to fame?

This anthemic track is an instant feel-good hit, with its catchy and buoyant beats, uplifting lyrics, and unique melody. 

It’s a song that encourages listeners to revel in the joys of life, and to celebrate all of their successes, no matter how big or small. 

The song starts off with a light and bouncy beat, setting the tone for the rest of the track. Waconzy’s captivating vocals are smooth and melodic, and the lyrics are both inspiring and positive. 

The chorus is especially motivating, with Waconzy singing “I celebrate, I celebrate my life, I celebrate my dreams, I celebrate my goals.” 

It’s sure to become an instant favorite. Waconzy’s uplifting lyrics are sure to resonate with listeners. 

He sings about believing in yourself and striving for success, no matter the obstacles. He also encourages listeners to show gratitude for their successes and to make the most out of every day. 

I celebrate by Waconzy’s is an old song but evergreen, this dude should have be in the same level with Timaya as for now but thing's changed automatically during this new generation of entertainer's.

Let's do well to check on him by always supporting his crafts with no regrets. ❤️

📛When last did you listen to Waconzy music ⁉️

No Offense ‼️

© Richard Kingsley (Dr)

The proper name

Do you know ? 

The proper name of Akwaibom is Akaigbo which means branch of Igbo 

The proper name for Niger

Delta is Anaoma.

The proper name of Port Harcourt is Igweocha.

The proper name of Ibibio is Igbonta.

The proper name of Benin is Igodomigodo.

The proper name of River Niger is Olimiri Ogbaru.

Oyimgbo is called Obi Igbo.

Rumuora is Umuora.

Rumuokoro is Umuokoro.

Ibuzi or Ibuzo is Igbo bina uzo.

Awka is Oka.

Onitsha is Onicha.

Enugu is Enugwu.

Ufuma is Uvume.

Ajali is Ujali.

Umuahia is Omaahia.

Umuneri is Umueri.

Anambra is Omabara.

Owerri is Owenke eri

Oreri is Oranke eri.

Awkuzu is Okauzu

Asaba is Ahaba.

We are one people. We are one blood. We are one family.

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NOT ALL MARRIED MEN ARE HUSBANDS andNOT ALL MARRIED WOMEN ARE WIVES.

NOT ALL MARRIED MEN ARE HUSBANDS 

                                    and

NOT ALL MARRIED WOMEN ARE WIVES.

There is a wide difference between a man's WIFE and a man's WOMAN; and there is much difference between a woman's MAN and a woman's HUSBAND. 

A WIFE sees marriage(union, combination, fusion, tag, team etc) whereas a WOMAN sees a MALE  and a FEMALE living together in order to exploit and manipulate each other.

A HUSBAND sees marriage, i.e. family.

A MAN sees, a male and a female  who came together in search of personal happiness at the expense of one another.

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