Saturday, 13 April 2024

Sex is not all about making children

Sex is not all about making children. You must be a different woman to your husband every time. Seduce your husband, don't always allow your husband to ask for Sex, there must be no timetable for sex. Be creative, don't be predictable. Give him what he wants. If you loose influence over your husband, you have lost womanhood. Be part of your husband plans.
Don't have too many children, you wanna sell them ? Allow your husband to check in and out anytime.
When a man is sexually satisfied, he is emotionally stable. Stop saying, is it food ? Yes, sex is food !!!

As a wife, try to invest in yourself spiritually so you can adequately support him. Build yourself as his prayer warrior so that you will not be forced to pray at the end of your life. Don't allow your husband to provide all your needs, he is not a money making machine. Iron sharpens iron, try to reciprocate.
You are meant to support each other spiritually, financially, physically and morally through thick and thin. You are a builder....Wise woman buildeth her home. Women need wisdom to build their homes. Do not be too outspoken, know when to talk, when to listen and when to be quiet.

Love your husband with all your heart, never tell him, if not because of my children, remember you've known him before the arrival of those children.
Pamper your husband, put his head on your chest and pray for him. Give him unannounced kiss from the back.... mwahhhhhh, don't be too holy to kiss in the public. He is your husband for God sake. Be romantic too, it is good for the heart. Some people are not happy that you're happy in that marriage, proof them wrong that you love him and he is your crown, always feel good when you hold him. Don't look 50 while you're still under 40, it drives men crazy. Always keep fit regardless of your age or body.

To men:
Do not take a woman who does all these for granted!
Pamper her, pray for her, cherish her, love her, support her financially, make her feel like your woman! God bless you and your marriages.

5 THINGS EVERY COUPLE SHOULD KNOW

5 THINGS EVERY COUPLE SHOULD KNOW

1. Women are naturally intuitive while men are rational. Everything has to make logical sense to men. Intuition may not always be right, your wife may not be able to logically explain why she is recommending or suggesting certain things to you, but do not discard what she says. So learn to LISTEN to your wife.

2. You have to protect your territory as a man. Men are territorial in nature and in this context, your territory is your wife. Protect her, don't leave her unguarded and tend to her needs.

3. If you are a lady, your husband is not "another lady". If you are a man, your wife is not "another man". Don't relate with your spouse like you are talking with your fellow gender. Your wife is not "your guy". 

4. When your wife is speaking, sometimes she's not asking for your solution. She just wants to talk. So don't cut her off while she's conversing with you, just enjoy the conversation. 

5. If you are a man and you are not spiritual, you are in a dangerous place. Don't leave all the praying and 'spirituality' to your wives alone. You would make more progress in your family when both of you prioritize the precepts of God in your home.

Stay blessed ❣️

BEST SLEEPING HABITS FOR MARRIED COUPLES

BEST SLEEPING HABITS FOR MARRIED COUPLES

1. Wear something easy to remove, comfortable and sexy. Make the work of your partner easy to peel off your clothes to reveal the naked you. Yummy lingerie, loose boxer. Sleep naked for best results.

2. Brush your teeth to encourage kissing.

3. Don't carry work to bed.

4. Minimize the use of phones or laptops. Your partner needs attention, the bedroom is sacred.

5. Move the baby to a separate room (if your finances allow you to and you have a home of more than one bedroom) when the baby is of age. The child might have been conceived in the bedroom but is not meant to live in your bedroom that is an exclusive island for two.

6. Gentleman have that one spot besides her lips you kiss each night; whether it's her forehead, fingers, shoulders, back or butt. Lady, stroke him with your gentle touch, your fingers speaking love

7. Make a habit of praising each other's body, it makes you both comfortable and relax. Talk those bedroom matters.

8. Pray together before you sleep, and when you wake up.

9. Apologize and forgive if any wrong was done during the day. Don't sleep with a grudge or anger.

10. Read your partner's body language. If you or your partner desires to make love, then rise to the occasion or wet up to the occasion; whether night or morning glory.

11. Have pillow talks, open your heart and lips and talk intimate stuff. Say how you feel; are you troubled, grateful, broken?

12. Cuddle up when you feel sleep is fast approaching, drown into sleep as your bodies intertwine.

13. Tell each other how much you mean to each other. Your partner never gets enough of your affirmation.

14. Incase one of you farts, laugh about it (some farts are unstoppable)

15. Cover your partner incase you wake up in the middle of the night and find your partner outside the duvet/ blanket.

16. Kiss your partner when you come back from peeing in the middle of the night

17. Hold your partner close and pray when your partner wakes up terrified by a nightmare.

18. Give a goodnight and goodmorning kiss.

19. Spend some few minutes of love in bed even when the alarm wakes you up.

20. Carry the love you have for each other even when you leave the bed.
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Class dismissed πŸ₯‚

Umu nwanyi

Women .....πŸ’

1- When a woman is angry, she doesn't mean more than half of what she says...Always hug her to calm her down if possible.

2- The most difficult time for a woman is to be away from the man she truly loves. It stresses her out.

3- It takes time for a woman to trust a man, and when she does it's hard to change her mind.

4- A woman is a school you never graduate from.

5- Your marriage certificate with her is not a “Driver's License”, it is only a “Learner's Permit”.

6- She becomes a demon or an angel because of what you say. It is all within your reach.

7- A woman never forgets things, she remembers what hurts her more. Avoid negative words.

8- A woman can be very secretive... often when they prove to men that they are strong, they go without you and share their sorrows with their friends. Make your woman your best friend.

9- All women like to ask for things they like. Men often miss this. Help them behave like babies whenever they want.

10- All women have a unique character, their presence may not be noticed but their absence makes everything interesting.

10- If she loves you, she can do everything you ask her as long as it makes you happy, so don't force her to love you.

11- If you don't take care of her, she will find someone who will. They are always there because she chose you.

12- If a woman really loves you, she will be shy to even ask you for money, but don't wait to ask like a gentleman.

If you have a good woman in your life, protect her...stay close. Give her your love generously... πŸ’“πŸŒΉ

* ISSUE OF THE NIGHT*

* ISSUE OF THE NIGHT*

My man and I are getting married coming this Saturday, and we are both virgins. As part of our plans for our wedding night on what every couple do... my man is saying we should call off our plans of having sex on our wedding night because he's travelling on the Monday: U*SA for further studies, this study plans occurred during the courtship period and he doesn't want us to have s*x because he says it will affect him when he travels outside. But he prefers to continue as a virgin and since he hasn't tasted it before, it will be more easy for him to survive and live as he did when he was single. 

His fear is that when he has s*x and knows how it is, he might crave more for it when he travels outside, and he doesn't want to cheat on me because he wants s*x but can't have it because he's in U*S and I'm in Gh*ana. 

I don't know what to do, should I agree to my husband and refuse to have s*x on our wedding night since he's travelling in two days time?

From Akua

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The Origin of wealth and Poverty.

The Origin of wealth and Poverty.

Long before the bible and  any other religious book were written, our hominin ancestors lived, survived, relatively thrived without anyone being rich or poor. In fact,  wealth and poverty were inexistent in their consciousness and experience. 

As hunter- gatherers, they were always on the move, descending the trees to fill their bellies and ascending back for safety.

Long story short, the last ice age which ended about 15000 years ago, gave  rise to a more favorable weather and climatic conditions that was conducive for them to stay in a place. This means they could think more. They discovered or invented agriculture, started building houses and the rest is history.

With all these came the idea of owning land or farm. This is the origin of wealth and Poverty. Jean Jacques Rousseau puts it this way: " the first man, who, after enclosing a piece of ground, took it into his head to say, "this is mine"- that's where it all started to go wrong". (Pg 102,  Human Kind by Rutger Bregman)

With private ownership came wealth, Poverty, inequality and other attendant issues.
Our hominin ancestors were neither rich nor poor, they simply lived. The next set of people to live without wealth and poverty woild be our ancestors in the faith. 

Acts 4:32, 34-35:" The whole group of believers was united, heart and soul; no one claimed PRIVATE ownership of any possessions, as everything they owned was held in common. None of their members was ever in want as all those who owned land or house would sell them ....it was then distributed to any who might be in need."

It was not by prayers, fasting,  anointing service and crusades that the apostles solved the economic needs of the first church, it was by mercy, charity, unity, selflessness and hard work.

Like our hominin ancestors, our Christian ancestors lived without the consciousness of wealth and Poverty, or better put, they killed the consciousness of wealth and Poverty. Like our hominin hunter-gatherer ancestors, our Christian ancestors were hunter-gatherers too. They were on the move, hunting for souls and gathering believers from one territory to the other. The thought of building houses as placesnof worship would take place hundreds of years later.

And once it came, it brought with it wealth and poverty, inequality and gap in the body of Christ. Ironically,  a more civilized and advanced human society created wealth and poverty simultaneously. The regrettable thing is that people learnt to define themselves and be defined by them. Worse still, the good things of life became affordable only to some, unlike before when everyone had access to everything. 

Fr Kevin Ugwu says: " The solution to poverty is not wealth, it is contentment". This is exactly what 1Tim 6:6-10 has said. At such,  one cannot but wonder why some Christian ministers would leave CONTENTMENT and be preaching WEALTH,  it's absurd. Both the rich and poor need it. 

Three points: 
1. Wealth and poverty are not spiritual matters, they are the necessary outcomes of human civilization and advancement. There are countries that have eliminated poverty. Countries where the poorest citizens enjoy all the things we consider luxury here, and their government is responsible. In other words, their government officials allowed God to use them.

2. You don't solve the problem of poverty by charity. Charity is absolutely necessary as intervention against hunger, sickness etc. Where people are hungry, a worshipping community must do what the first church did. No catholic or Christian who belong to any church should beg for food, clothes and basic medication. Yet,  they must be told that charity doesn't cure poverty. 

3. Prayer, anointing services, deliverance and the likes do not solve the problem of poverty. We are not more anointed than the apostles, and we've seen how they tackled this issue.  

The only persons getting rich by prayers, anointing services and other spiritual things you do for financial breakthrough are the ministers selling those products to you. 

Don't come here telling me to balance this statement,  I'll not balance it because the bible didn't balance it. If you like interpret it to mean that fada oluoma says "God cannot make anyone wealthy by miracle" that's your business.

 In fact, I'm in my  house like this, if you don't like this message, come and beat me.😎😎