MARRIAGE REMAINS THE BEST METHOD FOR PEACEFUL HUMAN DEVELOPMENT.

MARRIAGE REMAINS THE BEST METHOD 

FOR  PEACEFUL HUMAN DEVELOPMENT. 

Marriage remains the best form of expression of love; the best platform for decent child upbringing, and the best way of raising a peaceful society.

A child raised in whoredom or outside patriarchy cannot have a fair view of humankind and cannot develop a better conscience. 

God designed mankind different from other animals because humans are equipped with intellect  which must be developed by no other means than education. Animals need no patriarchy or a  balanced education because they are equipped with instincts. 

When humans reject the WILL of God for mankind by living like animals, then the society can no longer be a human society but a jungle of animal society where there is no patriarchy or family and where any female can lay with any male even if the male is her offspring. Such is the agenda of feminism.

NOT ALL MARRIED MEN ARE HUSBANDS

NOT ALL MARRIED MEN ARE HUSBANDS 

                                    and

NOT ALL MARRIED WOMEN ARE WIVES.

There is a wide difference between a man's WIFE and a man's WOMAN; and there is much difference between a woman's MAN and a woman's HUSBAND. 

A WIFE sees marriage(union, combination, fusion, tag, team etc) whereas a WOMAN sees a MALE  and a FEMALE living together in order to exploit and manipulate each other.

A HUSBAND sees marriage, i.e. family.

A MAN sees, a male and a female  who came together in search of personal happiness at the expense of one another.

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THE NATURE OF A MARRIAGE

THE NATURE OF A MARRIAGE 

ONE MALE  + ONE FEMALE =2 genders = 2 persons =2 characters. 

ONE HUSBAND + ONE WIFE = 1 MARRIAGE. 

Therefore; Marriage is A (spiritual) PERSON who must function through the 2 physical persons according to their individual abilities; thus DUAL capabilities. 

 It cannot function with MONO abilities or same abilities in two persons. Like electricity which produces energy through a negative+positive connection.

If one adult male and one adult female are living together and breeding children without a deliberate performance of proper marriage rites, then that one is not a spousal union. Thus, it is not a marriage. 

IF IT LOOKS LIKE A MARRIAGE;

THEN IT IS NOT.

RELOADED FEELINGS OF DESIRES 💞

RELOADED FEELINGS OF DESIRES 💞

1 💘---- Be a Lover, not a Fighter. But always Fight for what you Love.

2 -👩‍❤️‍👨---  You can't buy Love becoz when it's Real, it's Priceless.

3 🛳️----  RelationSHIP sink when they have too many Passengers.

4 🤦----  Being Single sucks When you know exactly who you Want.

5 🤷---- Don't Promise When you're Happy. Don't Reply When you're Angry. And Don't Decide When you're Sad.

6 🤵----  An intelligent Man will open your Mind. A Handsome Man will open your Eyes. A Gentleman will open your Heart.

-7 ☺️---  The most Beautiful Smile is the 1st Real one after Tears.

HOW TO APOLOGISE TO YOUR SPOUSE...✍🏾

HOW TO APOLOGISE TO YOUR SPOUSE...✍🏾

1. Don't justify why you did wrong. Accept it was wrong.

2. Don't seduce your spouse into sex hoping that sex will make your spouse forget the wrong you did and you can escape humbling yourself to say sorry.

3. Don't blame your spouse for making you do something wrong. Be an adult. Take responsibility for your actions.

4. Don't send friends, family, or siblings to apologize on your behalf. It shows cowardice. Face the one you have wronged.

5. Don't belittle the wrong you did as if showing your spouse he/she is overreacting. If it is a big deal to your spouse, take it as a big deal.

6. Don't start listing your spouse's past wrongs when your spouse confronts you on your current wrong. Love doesn't keep a record of wrongs.

7. Don't apologise on social media or put a post on Facebook or WhatsApp status hoping your spouse will see it without saying anything in private. Make your apology personal and heartfelt.

8. Don't brush it off and move on as if nothing happened just because you know your spouse loves you. Don't sweep things under the carpet.

9. Don't throw money and gifts at your spouse and do good deeds without addressing the hurt you have caused and the issue. You can't buy your way into healing. Healing is emotional, not material.

10. Don't apologize rudely and casually saying "Aah,  OK then, I am sorry then if that will make you stop complaining" just because your spouse has asked for an apology. Show genuine remorse. 

11. Don't wait for when your spouse has decided to divorce you or to break up with you to let go of your ego and say sorry. You might be too late.

12. Apologise as soon as possible, sincerely, acknowledging your fault, recognizing how it hurts your spouse, and assuring him/her of your love and commitment to do better.

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5 Lessons ALL MEN Should Take from Kaka’s MARRIAGE

5 Lessons ALL MEN Should Take from Kaka’s MARRIAGE

Kaka is a Brazilian Footballer and a Real Madrid star who was married for 10years. 

1. He got married to his childhood sweetheart in 2005 and got divorced in 2015. Some people are in relationships or marriage today and are still stucked in their past and always thinking they are missing something and maybe their love life would have been happily ever after if only they married their first love or childhood sweetheart 

2. The ex wife was a stunning model married to a superstar. Marrying the most beautiful woman or a rich man will not spear you from eating breakfast 

The Ex wife as revealed the reason he divorced Kaka. She said:

“I was not happy but felt something was missing, Kaka betray£d me, he treated me well, he gave me a wonderful family but I wasn’t happy, something was missing”

What was missing? He was not a bahdt boy, he was too perfect for me. She said

Now there’s a popular saying that good men finish last. And the issue is that both the women and the good men would not agree but the badddt guys knows it’s true. 

Majority of women are attracted to bahdt boiz

There a reason Burna Boy ranked one of the most sexi£st men on earth, it’s not because he’s cuter than Wizkid but he has this bahdt boy look

Being a Bahdt boy is not about mishandling the ladies or being mean to them. 

3. It’s in the way you dress, most women are attracted to certain kind of appearance. In the US, you need a rough curl or dread lock. Find what works in your area

4. The way you communicate. Some of y’all are too predictable. You should know when to go hard and be soft in the same breath. Don’t let them twist you,  women don’t like soft men. I have never seen any soft man who has a happy home. The only exception are those who have surrendered their leadership to the wife. They have become the wife and the wife became the husband.

And finally, being a good man for most women means, someone they can easily control and twist. 

Don’t get it twisted, being soft is not a virtue but a quality to have on the side to strike the balance as required for the relationship to thrive

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