THE SIMPLE THINGS A WOMAN WANTS FROM HER HUSBAND

1. Give her your time. Don't make her beg for your attention. Women equate love with time. If she means a lot to you, she should see that expressed by how much time you give her. Come home early. Take her out on dates

2. Compliment her efforts to look good; her new hairstyle, her body, her clothes, her sexiness, her cooking. It is your opinion that matters most to her. Appreciate her and she'll do anything for you 

3. Say sorry when you wrong her. Do so quickly. Don't move on without addressing the hurt you've caused her. This shows you are responsible with her heart

4. Randomly buy her gifts: Jewellery, chocolates, flowers, a dress, perfume. It is not the gift that excites her, but that she is constantly on your mind leading to you buying her things as a manifestation of your love

5. Ask for her advice and perspective on issues. This shows her that you are a team and she is not a pretty escort in your life

6. Publicly show her love. Speak your love for her online, in public, to your friends, parents. This makes her feel secure. Defend her from attacks from your family, friends and the public. A secure woman will love you with no restrictions

7. Kiss her without warning, touch her like you know she is all yours, gently grab her bum the way she likes it, make her wet because you can, pin her to the wall and caress her lovingly. Make her feel wanted. She has preserved her sexy body for only you

8. Answer her phone calls lovingly, "Hi my love". End phone conversations with her on a high note, let her hang up smiling. Phone communication with you are very special to her. Call her just to say "I love you", be her number one chat mate

9. Don't just tell her "I love you", tell her why you love her, do this often. It gives her facts of love to hold on to. She wants to know

10. Treat her well outside of sex, when sex is not the agenda. And when it comes to making love, she will ride your hardness so good.

WHAT DOES YOUR WIFE THINK OF WHEN SHE THINKS ABOUT YOU?

WHAT DOES YOUR WIFE THINK OF WHEN SHE THINKS ABOUT YOU? 

1. "I miss him so much, I can't wait to be home with him" OR "I hope he doesn't show up early, when he is around, my mood just gets worse"

2. "I am such a blessed woman to be married to such an amazing man" OR "What was I thinking to get married to such a fella? I know more of pain than joy with him"

3. "Last night was amazing! He made love to me so good I think I am still wet" OR "What is a woman supposed to do in this marriage to get good loving? This man I have makes sex all about him, nkt"

4. "Our children have such a great dad! Look at him, the way he handles them. I am so glad I am doing parenting with him" OR "I feel like I am raising these kids alone, doesn't he love them? God I pray my children don't turn out like their father"

5. "Whoever said good men don't exist, never met my husband" OR "Marriage is a scam. This man made me believe in a lie, why did I get married?"

6. "God, teach me to love my husband better, I want to be the best wife to him" OR "God, save me from my husband"

 7. "Dad and mom, if you see how my husband treats me in our home you would be so proud of your daughter" OR "Mom, dad; I am sorry for failing you and choosing a husband who has brought shame and stress"

8. "Look at this silly husband of mine, he is so funny, such a clown. I can't stop laughing" OR "I can't even remember the last time I laughed. When did I become such a sad wife?"

9. "I can't believe that with my aging, my sagging boobs, stretch marks and child bearing; my husband still finds me sexy" OR "I don't feel beautiful anymore. Look at him sleeping next to me after insulting my body. He is making me lose my self esteem and I hate it"

10. "I need to share this video with my husband, he will love this" OR "I wonder who is that my husband chats with online, he is always looking at his screen smiling. I envy that person, I wish that was me"

THINGS YOU COULD BE DOING THAT MAKE YOUR SPOUSE FEEL DISRESPECTED

THINGS YOU COULD BE DOING THAT MAKE YOUR SPOUSE FEEL DISRESPECTED

1. Shouting at him/her in public. If you want to correct your spouse, pull him/her aside

2. Failing to introduce your spouse in public. Always affirm your spouse's position in public, say "This is my wife/husband"

3. Coming home full when your spouse invested time and effort to cook for you. If you know you are eating out, let your spouse know in advance

4. Treating other people better than you treat your spouse. Your spouse is the special one deserving of your best

5. Gossiping about your spouse to others. Preserve the dignity of your spouse

6. Slapping or physically abusing your spouse. No matter how angry you are, do not harm

7. Insulting your spouse. No matter how angry you are control your tongue

8. Belittling a gift your spouse gave you. Never make your spouse feel you don't appreciate his/her efforts

9. Flirting with others. This shows disrespect to your marriage

10. Badmouthing your spouse to the child/children. Never project a negative image of dad/mom to the child/children

11. Treating your spouse like a slave. Love does not humiliate

12. Talking badly about your spouse's body. You are responsible for making your spouse feel good about his/her body

13. Not appreciating your spouse's contribution just because you do more because you have greater capacity. Love does not keep a score sheet 

14. Praising another above your spouse. Don't become too familiar with your spouse

15. Comparing your spouse with your ex. There is a reason why that person is your ex and you're with your spouse

16. Failing to see the progress your spouse is making and his/her success. If you will not celebrate your spouse, who will?

17. Sneering, banging doors or walking away when your spouse is talking to you. Never make your spouse feel looked down upon or not listened to

18. Rudely hanging up on your spouse's phone call or deliberately ignoring your spouse when your spouse is calling.

HUMANITY of a friend indeed

FROM ACTRESS DAYO AMUSA: Before you go on about how a friend in need is a friend indeed, Please pause to consider the possibility of your friend also being in need.

That you are not aware of their situation and needs is not justification for you to feel entitled to their support. We all have our individual challenges in life even if it doesn’t make it to SM. Some of us are so good in wearing masks 🎭 covering our struggles. We can do better as humans.

I understand HUMANITY is of high importance but if it’s not happening when expected doesn’t make your friend a mean person. He that wears the shoes knows where it’s hurting 

It’s time we thought outside of ourselves and allow love lead our thoughts and actions. It’s time we reconsidered the cancel culture and let go of any sense of entitlement🙄

We are the architects of our own individual lives  No one owes you anything

🎤"THIS ILLNESS WILL NOT END IN DEATH; RATHER IT IS FOR GOD'S GLORY (John 11:4)

Wednesday of the Third Week of Easter (17 April 2024)

📕Acts 8:1b-8; Ps 66:1-3a, 4-5, 6-7a (R.v.1); John 6:35-40

🎤"THIS ILLNESS WILL NOT END IN DEATH; RATHER IT IS FOR GOD'S GLORY (John 11:4)

Beloved in Christ, sometimes, God allows us to face some challenges because through them, a greater good will come up for us. It was through the persecution of Christians that the Good News was able to leave Jerusalem to the ends of the earth (see Acts 8:1-8), so that others may also believe in Jesus, the Bread of life and be saved (cf. John 6:35-40).

Don't get this point wrongly! Some people may now begin to argue that if God allows evil for the sake of the good that would come from it, then we can do evil if we expect it to yield a good end. No, in Christian morality, both the process and the end must be intended good. Notice that the point here is that God ALLOWS evil; he does not DO evil.

Having tried to clarify that, I wish to encourage you to be steadfast in following Christ. Don't worry about that cross you are carrying right now. Remember that the pains of the journey to Calvary brought us the joys of Easter.

Just trust God and follow him faithfully. He is ready to grant eternal life to those who do so (cf John 6:40).

Speak with faith upon that your challenge, "This my condition will not lead to disaster in my life; rather, it is for God's glory. Amen."

May God never allow your cross to weigh you down nor make you lose your faith. May he grant you the grace of perseverance and make you victorious with eternal life in the end. Amen.

Have a Spirit-filled and victorious day ahead. Peace be with you.

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Relationships and Social Media.

Relationships and Social Media.

  Temptation is all over our phones these days and we have been programmed to “swipe left” because we believe there is always someone better. 

  The constant need to look elsewhere will leave people in a never ending circle of unhappiness with their significant other. 

  I honestly think the opposite gender is way to accessible in the 21st century to each other within our mobile devices and men and women talk way too freely where boundaries are crossed blurring the lines of inappropriateness. 

 

  So unfortunately the inappropriate conversations lead to affairs and they cheat on the one they supposedly love.

  People need to take a step back, put their phones down and focus on what’s in front of them, because some people don’t realise how lucky they truly are, to have what they currently have in a relationship. 

  We should stop giving people the attention who don't deserve it and start focusing on the ones that do. 

 Do me a favor, and appreciate what you have before it becomes what you had.

~ Cody Bret