REAL REASONS PEOPLE MISS GOD'S WILL

REAL REASONS PEOPLE MISS GOD'S WILL

1) SMALL BREASTS. 

Yes, some guys actually over look Virtuous Sisters with enough wife material yards, because of the size of their chests, I kid you not. Awon Manchester lovers.

Most Men are naturally attracted to ladies with big breasts, even after salvation/sanctification,

and Many brothers intentionally or unintentionally allow this natural instinct to dictate their choice of a life partner. 

Dear Brother in Christ,

You see those things, they can grow.

Yes, even the Bible says "despise not the days of humble beginning, for though your beginning be small, your latter end shall GREATLY INCREASE" so also it is with this things we are talking about 

Marry her if God is bringing her to you Sir. 

Don't reject true love, 

Don't let go a Jewel, a Help Meet for you, a favor bringer because of something as mundane as this. 

If she starts eating and sleeping well growth can happen. 

Haven't you seen ladies who are like 1 before Marriage, after marriage they become like O.

I have

 

They say "Don't judge a book by its cover.

I say 'Don't judge a Woman by her chest"

(Same goes for the Backside, she may be flat, my brother, Marry her, if the size is really bothering you, kuku put it in Prayer, Luke 1:37) 

2) SHAPE.

She's not well shaped.

It's Figure 8 or nothing.

Bros, May you not marry a Woman with shape and figure that will now later disfigure the shape and figure of your destiny.

I say Amen on your behalf.

Now I'm not saying don't seek a woman with shape, I'm saying don't reject God's will if she doesn't have the shape you want.

Because God has given her to you to shape your life, shape generations with you, shape kingdoms, and you are saying she doesn't have shape. Shape fall on you Sir. 

3) COMPLEXION

This one is Self explanatory. 

Initially I used to dream of a fair Jane, but now ehn, as I am, if her color is even the one they cannot see in the night, straight to the altar.

As long as its God's will.

My dear viewers

Good morning, viewers! Rise and shine, it's a brand new day full of possibilities. Wishing you all a day filled with joy, productivity, and positivity!

A prostitute and businesswoman from Enugu-Ezike who later became the only female king in British-Nigeria.

Ahebi Ugbabe was a prostitute and businesswoman from Enugu-Ezike who later became the only female king in British-Nigeria. 

Ugbabe, who was the first and last king of Enugu-Ezike, ruled her people for 30 years until her death in 1948. She was 68.

King Ahebi Ugbabe could speak Igbo, Igala, Nupe, and Pidgin English. Thus, she held court cases in her palace while making money from the services. Women who had also been abused by their husbands escaped to Ugbabe’s palace, who then became their female husband.

Ahebi Ugbabe married wives for herself...by paying their bride price. She then looked for men who had intercourse with these wives and claimed the paternity of the children they bore. She assumed the role of a man and named the children after herself.

With the fear that her people might not accord her a rightful burial, Ahebi Ugbabe performed her own funeral rites in 1946, two years before her death.

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The Hardest Part of Marriage You Won't Be Told

The Hardest Part of Marriage You Won't Be Told

Marriage is sweet when you examine it from a far, of those who have successful marriage or the lovey-dovey of newlyweds, but when you enter into, you will discover that what is behind number six is more than number seven. 

Many prepare so well for the romantic aspects of marriage, but very few groom themselves for the realities in marriage. Do you know that the hardest part of marriage plays a dominant role in marriage than the romantic moments?

However, what breaks marriage isn't the lack of romance, but the couple's inability to withstand the hardest part of marriage. 

There are some hard things about marriage that you are not likely to be told, but I will only share 5 of them with you.

1. Staying faithful

It's easy to abstain from sex as singles if you have not tasted how sweet sex is, but it's very difficult to stay faithful in marriage when you are denied sex for no just reason. 

The temptation to commit adultery is greater than the temptation to fornicate as singles. 

Because you now know how sex taste, seduction would come from those who are willing to give you or have a fling with you. In some cases, when your spouse becomes cold on sex matters, there are several others who want to give you a hot and sizzling sex. 

You need more discipline to stay faithful in marriage to your spouse emotionally, and sexually especially in this age when cheating has become a norm. 

If you have not been faithful to stay sexually pure now that you are single, it will be very difficult for you to master it when you are married. 

Marriage doesn't cure adultery, self control does! 

2. Sexual Issues

See, it is wise that you keep yourself sexually pure till marriage - purity in thoughts, action and word. All those who are deceiving you that who virginity epp only want to destroy you. 

One of the hardest part about marriage which many cannot come by is on the issue of sex. One partner is a novice while the other is an Emeritus professor in lovemaking; one has a high sexual libido while the other can stay for months without it and still feel sane. 

Virginity helps you to be sexually discipline, it prevents you from undue and ungodly exposure to sex that could either make you hate it with perfect hatred or make you a maniac in it. 

3. Money matters

Since it's said that money answers all things, money also destroys many things. As money can spice up love in marriages, it can also ruin it. 

What is your perception about money? 

Can you pull your purse together or separately? 

As a woman, do you have the warped mentality of my money is my money, but your money is our money? 

As a man, are you ready to work and earn a living or you want to live on your wife's income while dictating how the money will be spent without bringing anything to the table? 

Can you open up to your partner about your financial life without secretly building an estate in the village while you feed on his or her money like a parasite? 

Until you two resolve this before marriage and in marriage, it is hard enough to crack the nut of your marital bliss. 

4. Unmet expectations

If you have been dreaming of having her remain a slim shady, but eventually after pregnancy, she became a size 15, how would you cope? 

If he had been the romantic and available man, but after marriage, the quest for green pasture took him miles away, can you survive this? 

It is wise and better to prepare for the toughest part of marriage so that you can cope with them when they come, surely they will come. As much as you prepare for sunshine, don't forget to prepare for storms when they come before rain falls. 

5. Handling differences 

Whether you agree or not, handling differences is one of the leading causes of divorce in marriage. Many marriages fail due to irreconcilable differences. 

How do you plan to reconcile your differences in marriage should they come? 

If he presses the toothpaste from the middle, and she had been raised to be meticulous by pressing it neatly from the base, can you tolerate this? 

If she likes the food cold or warm, and you prefer it hot with steaming heat, can you adjust? 

These and many others are the toughest part of marriage that you must brace up for. Wedding is just a day or two event but marriage is a lifetime journey. 

More than the excitement of the married life, more than the grandeur wedding ceremony, have you been transformed by the renewing of your mind to face any challenge in marriage when they come? 

Delay in child bearing, loss of job, relocation, in law issues, financial crisis, trying times or spiritual issues may come; you need to be prepared for whichever one life throws at you so you don't chicken out when they come. 

Marriage is haaaard, I'm not scaring you; it's just one of those truths you might not likely be told or you don't want to hear. Finding the right person to marry is hard, but staying married is the hardest in the face of life's realities. 

As much as you are preparing for the romantic sides, brew your mind for the hardest part so you can stand having done all when the flood descend, when the rain falls and the wind beats upon your union. 

© Adeniyi Tim Oluwamayowa

OGBANJE

🛑 OGBANJE 🛑

Ogbanje ( the gifted child) is someone with extraordinary spiritual features and power among others with subordinate talents, his or her spiritual purpose of coming to the world is to save souls through spiritual related work and they always sick in their tender age 

Among them some are born with gap teeth ( open teeth) and dreadluck ( Dada), 

Some are born with dreadluck without gap teeth, 

Some are born with gap teeth without dreadluck  

While some are  born without gap teeth and dreadluck with spiritual gift of flying in dream  . 

The word Ogbanje means "OGBA NA NJE", which is not actual true living in physical aspect,

Ogbanje always change in character and behaviour at any given time, most of them die in their young age, while some die in old age depend on his or her spiritual agreement from the spiritual oath of covenant ( iyiuwa )  especially those that refuse to follow up his or her spiritual call always pass through a lot before dying . 

Ogbanje comes from the  lineage that has spiritual call, that is the lineage will neither from the father side, great grand father side or from the mother side, great grand mother side, whoever that is Ogbanje must surely have the spiritual link from somewhere through ancestral lineage, that is, the lineage must have.... 

Ndichie 

Akwali omumu, 

Udo, 

Ogwugwu , 

Ngene, 

Akpụ, 

Ngwu , 

ỌRJỊ , 

Agwu, 

Arobinagu, 

Ndimmiri and....

Ani, 

All these above mentioned deities are the  ancestral lineage of every created Ogbanje on earth . 

Any lineage that has the mentioned spirits is a spiritual lineage and anybody born in that particular lineage has spiritual link with those mentioned ancestral spirits, neither you are... 

Dibia , 

Ezenwanyi , 

Ezenwoke, 

Ezemuo , 

Doctor , 

Nurse, 

Musician, 

Pastor , 

Prophet , 

Prophetess , 

Midwife, 

Phermacist and 

Chemist , 

Or you are into business but spiritually strong with those ancestral spirits through spiritual sacrifice, being in that kind of spiritual lineage family without strong spiritual sacrifice will definitly affect the person spiritually and physically .  

Ogbanje spirit can never be casted out through deliverance, fasting and prayer, casting and binding and shouting holy ghost fire.... because the spirit is inborn, that is it comes with the person right from a particular spiritual lineage, so don't mind anybody that tells you Ogbanje is an evil spirit , 

Why people see Ogbanje as an evil spirit is because, the person in particular fails to be in a good term with his or her Ogbanje spirits and the spirit of Ogbanje will always torment the person. 

Ogbanje spirits are not the kind of spirits that you can easily control anyhow, the spirit is very powerful that it overpowers any other spirits around, the spirits are very powerful that you hardly control it ,  their words always come to pass, they are the mouth piece of the spirits because spirits always manifest through them and evil people always avoid them . 

If you are an Ogbanje and not in a good term with your Ogbanje spirits, my brother and sister the spirits will definitely torment and frustrate you to achieve nothing in life and your existence on earth will always make you to be ashamed of yourself . 

There are two types of Ogbanje in the spiritual world, we have Ogbanje enu ani (Land Ogbanje) and Ogbanje mmiri (Marine Ogbanje) , 

Ogbanje enu ani and Ogbanje mmiri are almost the same in the spiritual sacrifice but different in spiritual power, most of Ogbanje enu ani channels their spiritual section in roots and herbal medicine, while Ogbanje mmiri channels their own section in total Marine spiritual work 

If you are an Ogbanje, try to know the area of your specialization through spiritual consultation (Igba Afa) and be in a strong good term with your Ogbanje spirits to avoid regretting yourself on earth because Ogbanje without spiritual sacrifice always find it very difficult to survive the heavy task.

SECRET ABOUT OGBANJE!!!

Ogbanje is not type of people you joke with, don't ever defraud an Ogbanje who's in good term with his or her Ogbanje spirit except you want to Die... 

Ogbanje has umu okpu.

Ogbanje has ndi ichie nwoke na umu ada.

There are some Ogbanje that own a full community, nation, and the government is under their authority and command in spiritual world.

Ogbanje has ndi uke, Osaka, akaliogheri which if you hurt Ogbanje, they will come after you and deal with you and your life becomes miserable on Earth.

Ogbanje can hit you like Charm.

Ogbanje can do you like Amusu (witchcraft)

Ogbanje is always guilded by their Spiritual Crew 

Ogbanje has Oracles, forces, principalities and powers.

Ogbanje has powerful children that can mess great people down.

Ogbanje has every modernized arsenals for war.

I, Onyinye Chi-ukwu is one of the Ogbanje ji OGU N'OFO wee bia uwa

There are some Ogbanje that it's only during the day they operate while some during the night. 

Like I said....Why some people think Ogbanje is Evil spirit is because the person refuse to acknowledge or be in peace with his or her Ogbanje Spiritual crew, and they will keep tormenting and scattering things for him or her till she do the needful!!!

Ogbanje child are gifted and are guided by their people 

  

They are positivity themselves, so Ogbanje never lack if you make peace with your Ogbanje spirits

If you're an Ogbanje, please avoid Charms or Juju because it cannot work on you

If you're an Ogbanje, you doing charm, you're dimming your Light!!! 

If You Are an Ogbanje And you're not in good terms with them, You Will Face A Lot Of Challenges  in this life and Ogbanje Without Sacrifice Always Face A Lot Of Challenges as well. 

Many Of Ogbanje Who Are Not Care Of Their Spirits Always Regret Their Lives, A Lot Are Unmarried , A Lot Of Them Have Scattered Marriage,  A Lot Of Them Have Broken Relationship, failure in business or whatever you're doing to earn a living and so on...

As an Ogbanje, you have to form the habit of dropping food on the ground before eating  

While doing it you are eating with your ndi Ogbanje gi

As an Ogbanje, make a habit of buying groundnut spray it on main road 

It open doors

Some Ogbanje people will sometimes feel like to stay away from someone or from people without anyone doing anything wrong to them

They can hate you if you didn't do bad to them

An Ogbanje will sometimes feel like  crying😭 without anyone beating him or her

When you notice such, just give her some space for main time 😭

If you don't understand them, you will hardly stay or you will hardly understand their life's and maybe you can't tolerate them if you are not patience

CATEGORIES OF OGBANJE AND THEIR CHARACTERISTICS.

1. OGBANJE UKWU ỤDARA: are those Ogbanje who always at ụdara tree that's where they reincarnated from.

2. OGBANJE OTAA CHEWING GUM: are those set of people always chewing gums.

3. OGBANJE MAKE UP AND MIRROR: are those set of people always making up and looking at the mirror all the time

And lots of them....

LET ME STOP HERE

Sex, romance, and cuddling

Sex, romance, and cuddling are related but distinct aspects of human connection and intimacy. Here's a breakdown of each and their connections:

*Sex*:

- Physical intimacy and sexual activity

- Biological and physiological responses

- Can be driven by desire, attraction, and pleasure

- Can be a one-time encounter or a regular aspect of a relationship

*Romance*:

- Emotional connection and attachment

- Feelings of love, affection, and fondness

- Often involves gestures, surprises, and thoughtful actions

- Can be a short-term infatuation or a long-term commitment

*Cuddling*:

- Physical touch and affectionate contact

- Releases oxytocin, promoting feelings of warmth and bonding

- Can be intimate or platonic (e.g., hugging a friend)

- Can be a way to show affection, comfort, and support

Connections between them:

- Sex and romance often go hand-in-hand, as emotional connection can enhance sexual desire and pleasure.

- Cuddling can be a precursor to sex or a way to maintain intimacy outside of sexual activity.

- Romance can lead to cuddling and physical affection as a way to express love and affection.

- Sex and cuddling can release oxytocin, strengthening emotional bonds and attachment.

Remember, these aspects of human connection can blend together or exist independently, and their meanings and importance can vary across individuals and relationships.