Friday, 3 May 2024

When Hypocrisy Jam Propaganda

Umahi Vs Obi When Hypocrisy Jam Propaganda..

Umahi said Peter Obi is inciting the Igbo,s against the FG, Umahi is not being fair to Obi.

Obi criticised the FGs destruction of properties and peoples businesses standing along the coastal highway that the FG is constructing from lagos to calabar

Obi did not single out Igbos in his criticism, he is a national figure and should not be reduced to a tribal champion.

But Umahi is vexed by Obi,s hypocrisy

he has dug up videos of Peter Obi as governor in Anambra destroying people's businesses and homes standing on the way of a road he was constructing at the time.

He knocked down part of Premier Breweries in Onitsha, a company that was feeding many Nigerians at the time and arrogantly told those affected that he won't be paying anybody any compensation.

Truth be told, Obi has been sensational in his criticisms of late, he seems to enjoy the chorus of an ignorant choir than engage in measured criticism.

Ohhh yes, he understands media manipulation and he has his targetted mob  

But on this one Dave Umahi no wan gree for anybody,

He understands Obi's kindergarten tricks, he knows that Obi is using his scathing criticism to remain relevant and he is ready to give it to  him iko onu for iko onu  

But rather than describe him as a tribal warrior he could have reminded Obi, that when Abia, an LP state destroyed peoples homes,  knocked down industries and rendered people homeless and jobs were lost along Ossa Road because the state government wants to expand the road, that he Obi refused to talk about it or was his keyboard on sabbatical?

FG is paying compensation and from the list, there are Hausas, Yorubas and also Igbos, so it's not about a particular tribe but Umahi intentionally want to keep Obi on the defence just like the YES DADDY audio.

He want make Obi explain explain tire, no evidence 

But give it to Peter Obi, he has been very active in his criticism since he lost the election but he needs to be more objective, and tone down on sycophancy since 2027 is still a bit far.

Uche Aguoru

Wednesday, 1 May 2024

๐ŸŽคSTRIVE TO REMAIN WITH JESUS

⏰Wednesday of the Fifth Week of Easter (1 May 2024 - Memorial of St. Joseph the Worker)

๐Ÿ“–Acts 15:1-6; Ps 122:1-2, 3-4ab, 4cd-5 (R.v.1); John 15:1-8

๐ŸŽคSTRIVE TO REMAIN WITH JESUS

Today is the first day of the month of May, and in the Church, this is one of the two months of special devotion to our Mother Mary, our great intercessor. It is also the memorial of St. Joseph the Worker, and the Workers Day.

Over time, our workers are not well treated all over the world. Considered from the Nigerian perspective, one can view the situation as one of near hopelessness. In the midst of all this, is our faith built upon Christ the cornerstone or based on our selfish interests?

In truth, the devil is not happy when the children of God thrive in faith and  great peace. Consider that in the light of the contributions of the Jews towards the building of the early Christian community (Acts 15:1). They know that their insistence on circumcision would hinder more gentiles from embracing the faith. Remember that for an average Jew, salvation is prerogative of the Jews only (cf. Acts 11:2-3 – Peter was accused of feasting with the gentiles).

Today, that same devil plays different pranks on the children of God through many difficulties, especially in relation to our faith. He wants to drag us away from our source of life, that is, Christ. With regards to the workers, the pranks can come up in terms of different policies that aim at enriching the leaders and leaving the workers more impoverished.

Even in the midst of all these, we must all remember that we are just branches of the major stem, which is Christ. If we remain in him, despite the difficulties, we shall bear much fruit (John 15:5) and then gain the attention of the Father (John 15:2).

So, "Be calm but vigilant because your enemy, the devil is prowling round like a roaring lion looking for someone to eat. Stand up to him, strong in faith, knowing that our brothers all over the world are suffering the same thing" (1Pet 5:8-9). Just know that none of your difficult situations shall last forever. It shall come to pass, but in the latter days (cf. Isa 2:2). So, you need to be patient with God. 

As we begin this month with God, we pray that the Holy Spirit may enable us to be present to Jesus through faith, to rely on him, and to obey him in all things. Amen.

Happy workers' day to all workers. Have a consoling and grace-filled month ahead. Peace be with you.

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IN A RELATIONSHIP/ MARRIED?DO THESE TO AVOID STORIES THAT TOUCH

IN A RELATIONSHIP/ MARRIED?
DO THESE TO AVOID STORIES THAT TOUCH

1) GIVE YOUR EX HOLY SPACE 

 Especially the Ex that still loves You. 

To Avoid "I don't know how it happened?" 

Thw ex that keeps sending you flirty messages, showing up where you are, when your partner is not around. 

He or she will tell you different things.

"I just want us to hang out, nothing will happen". Lori Iro

"I won't bite, just a peck, for old times sake". Lori Iro

Run oh....

Before your X becomes Y your Relationship or Marriage crashed. 

2) AVOID "BESTIE" OF THE OPPOSITE GENDER OTHER THAN YOUR PARTNER

Your Partner is alive, breathing and kicking, you're doing bestie with somebody else from the opposite gender, your Fiance/fiancee/Husband/Wife is not bestie material?

You are looking for trouble.

"He's just my Prayer Partner." Oshei oh,

Prayer Partner kor, Black Panther ni 

"She's just my Confidant". 

"We are just hangout buddies." 

Egungun be kaiful.. Express is not far oh. 

3) DON'T ALLOW YOUR HEART CATCH FEELINGS.

The moment you notice that you are getting attracted physically/Sexually/emotionally to someone else other than your partner,

You can't wait to see them, hear them, hang out with them, touch them and vice versa, Withdraw from such an individual.. Before your Relationship/Marriage will withdraw from you.

(c) Musa Gift
#MG 
#MARRYWELL
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ANGER MANAGEMENT RULES FOR COUPLES

ANGER MANAGEMENT RULES FOR COUPLES

1. Know that anger is a normal and human emotion

2. Know the temperament of your spouse and yourself. Are you or your spouse hot tempered, or slow to anger? This will equip you on how to better handle yourself and your spouse

3. Do not get comfortable using curse words and insults; if you do, most likely you will use those hurtful words when you are angry. Decide that your tongue will be clean even when aggravated. It is so painful to have a spouse who tells you "F*ck you", "Stupid", "Whore"; such cursing and insults are hard to heal from when they are coming from your spouse

4. When you or your spouse are angry, learn to keep quiet or walk away. Refrain from talking lest you say something hard to take back 

5. Even as you walk away, keep the channel of communication open. Don't turn off your phone or run away with no way to reach you

6. Never hurt your spouse because you feel hurt by spouse. Revenge leads to more mess, hurt and deterioration. Be the bigger person

7. Resolve issues quickly. Sit down and have a candid talk no matter how painful it is

8. Develop a culture of touch. Touching each other: A hug, a gentle rub on the hand or back, a hold at the waist; this warms up your loving spouse to you

9. Pray. In the midst of your anger, pray. In the midst of your spouse's anger, pray. Prayer moves people

10. Play worship music. Worship God. A spirit that loves God will be calmed down in an environment of worship

11. Remember the bigger picture. When you are angry, it is easy to focus on the current emotion; but don't forget just how far you and your spouse have come from. Don't throw away a love so good out of a moment of anger

12. Double, triple check the decisions you make when angry. In fact, refrain from making decisions when anger. Angry decisions often lead to regret

13. Go out of your way to please your spouse. Do a gesture to your spouse that shows care and affection; cook, serve your spouse.

MEN STOP DATING A LIABILITY!

MEN STOP DATING A LIABILITY!

1. A girl who doesn't have transport fare to visit someone that she claims she love. (liability) 

2.  A lady who can't get you birthday or valentine gift but expect you to bring down the world for her during hers.(liability) 

3. Someone who can't comfortably call you on phone for 5 minutes.
Always flashing, complaining and requesting for data and airtime...(liability) 

4. I wonder how some Men cope with ladies that think relationship is an occupation where she's supposed to be paid and taken care of??
(S*x is not a benefit to only men.). She might not even allow you have the s*x, yet you keep spending on her like government. (liability) 

5. Stop dating a liability no matter how beautiful she is. Beauty is a bonus, focus on her content!
Date a lady who can add something meaningful to your life.
Things like: financial intelligence, emotional intelligence, spiritual intelligence.

6. Date someone who's capable of managing multiplying whatever she has and the ones you give to her, your soul will be at peace!
Not someone that will always be at the receiving end.

7. We're not saying she must be rich.
But let her have something doing no matter how little it is, because no matter how much money you make, she must be able to assist you during the rainy days...

Some of you boys just see nyash and be willing to sell everything you have just to make it work,  you might give her 100K today she'll say "thanks" but when you call her tomorrow and tell her to visit you she will say "send TPT" (liability) 

Two good heads are better than one๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ. .

2 THINGS NOT TO DO EARLY ON IN A RELATIONSHIP


1) BECOME TOO POSSESSIVE

A Relationship is on the verge of beginning, or it has just begun,

You can't believe your eyes and ears,

You: 1
Village people: 0

 You are in a relationship, wow, you made it, you now have someone to tell all the sweet nonsense you have been rehearsing since. 

Hey, calm down..

If you don't, you will spoil something.

Relax.., take it slow,

Don't become so possessive too soon, calling them 7 times a day, texting them all day, following them bumper to bumper, showing up at their place as if you don't have work again, are you a sta.lker abi serial kรญ.ller?

Asking them to go out with you everyday, as if they don't have a life of their own again. 

Give them breathing space.

Be busy

Let them miss you. Scarcity drives up demand (and vice versa) 

Don't abandon your friends and focus on them, don't stop reading, writing, working on your own life just because you want to give them attention...

Stop canceling all your appointments and schedules just to rush to their side.

You'll come out as desperate and needy and your desirability will reduce. 

2) DIVULGE TOO MUCH

It's still early, you're still getting to know them, and their capacity,

Be careful what you say early on in a relationship, it could backfire and chase them away.

Don't dump everything about your exes, your family, your sufferings, your baggage all on them in the first few weeks of being In the relationship,

If they ask, no problem..
You can even say "don't worry, I'll tell you at the right time" 

Learn to keep some information till later.

Certain informations can spook and scare people away before they have had a chance to get to know the real you.
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Be Wise

For every single/dating/courting person out there, I pray you find the Relationship that will lead to the Marriage of your dreams.

#Musa Gift 
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