WHAT HAPPENS WHEN WE KISS

THE TONGUE 👅 AND WHAT HAPPENS WHEN WE KISS TONGUE TO TONGUE 🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️

You may not understand the meaning of kissing ""tongue to tongue""  but its similar to taking oats 😪🙆‍♀️

Sharing spit and exchanging breathe together is a strong bond 💪 that should be well handled ✔️✔️✅️✅️

Kissing is an act that has been around for thousands of years, and it is not a behavior specific to humans alone, as mammals and  animals  have all been witnessed displaying similar behaviors..✅️

 Kissing definitely carries with it many benefits, and is probably why mother nature bestowed its gift upon us humans... 

Let’s take a look at some of the many reasons why people kiss:

1. KISSING FOR HAPPINESS 

Kissing is a way for 2 people to show their love for one another, and can also be between relatives or close friends.....

 When we kiss, the body produces endorphins, or happiness hormones leaving both parties in a loving relationship feeling warm, fuzzy, happy and carefree....✔️ Additionally, kissing can reduce the body’s cortisol levels, making it a miraculous remedy for stress....✅️✅️✅️

2. KISSING TO EXCITE AND SATISFY 

One other hormone which cannot go unmentioned is dopamine as this type of hormone is associated with the brain’s reward system.... Dopamine is produced when we encounter something we like, such as a great meal, so when we kiss someone we like, dopamine is responsible for us feeling happy, content and excited.... Moreover, research has found that dopamine levels rise incrementally until we reach a sexual climax, 🫣🫣😁  before gradually ebbing away again to be replaced by prolactin, in order to extinguish our sensual fire.😘  

(Prolactin is more prevalent in females due to its role in milk production, and it has been found that when breastfeeding,  women’s sexual desire is severely limited. In males, the hormone works alongside other sex hormones to aid sperm production.)

3. KISSING FOR A STRONGER BOND 

It has been found that when couples  kiss, gently entwining their tongues with one another, there is an increase in the production of oxytocin, which is a hormone associated with building bonds with someone special to us.... This hormone is also commonly of use to the body in other ways, such as easing the breastfeeding process and helping mothers give birth more easily...✅️✅️💯

4. KISSING TO BURN CALORIES 

Kissing mainly involves the use of the orbicularis oris muscle group surrounding the mouth, along with up to 33 other muscle groups utilized when kissing.. 🙆‍♀️

 Kissing also triggers at least 5 pairs of nerves, including the olfactory nerve, used when smelling; the trigeminal nerve, triggered by touches to the mouth, tongue, cheeks, chin and jaw; the facial nerve, used to control facial muscles, such as the lips; the glossopharyngeal and vagus nerves, responsible for voice control; and the hypoglossal nerve, which controls the tongue....With so much involved, it has been found that kissing for one minute can burn up to 26 calories.....🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🫣🫣🫣✔️ (To ensure that both parties are ready to kiss for any length of time, be sure to take care of your oral health.)🙄🙄

5. KISSING TO AROUSE 

While it is certainly true that kissing stimulates the nerve endings and helps to produce the assorted happiness hormones previously mentioned, one of the most talked about results of kissing is the transmission of testosterone from men to women, or from men to other men.... This is because testosterone is a type of hormone found in males in large amounts as it is the main hormone involved with growth, cell repair and increased libido, meaning it is the most common hormone found in male blood or saliva. French kissing is therefore a great way to arouse both parties, and for best results in this regard, the kissing should be carried out alongside hugging and other forms of bodily contact...✅️✅️✅️🥰

Although kissing has numerous benefits, if one party is not in good health, kissing could place them at risk of contracting various health disorders, such as the common cold, hepatitis B, herpes and warts....🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️😪😪😪😪

Therefore, avoid kissing if you are suffering from any of these conditions in order to maintain the health and safety of the ones you love....🙏🙏🙏

May the Lord help us to kiss wisely in Jesus name 🙏 🙌 ✨️ ❤️ 💖 💕 🙏 🙌 ✨️

Relationships can be complex and dynamic, but here are the common stages of a romantic relationship:

Stage 1: Infatuation (0-3 months)

1. Intense attraction and excitement

2. Getting to know each other

3. Idealization and romanticization

4. Frequent communication and dates

Stage 2: Romance (3-6 months)

1. Deepening emotional connection

2. Increased intimacy and affection

3. Shared experiences and memories

4. Feeling of being "in love"

Stage 3: Reality Check (6-12 months)

1. Seeing each other's flaws and imperfections

2. Conflict and disagreements arise

3. Communication and problem-solving skills tested

4. Relationship becomes more realistic

Stage 4: Intimacy and Trust (1-2 years)

1. Deeper emotional intimacy and connection

2. Building trust and vulnerability

3. Shared goals and values

4. Feeling of security and stability

Stage 5: Commitment (1-5 years)

1. Long-term commitment and loyalty

2. Shared responsibilities and decisions

3. Building a life together

4. Feeling of permanence

Stage 6: Growth and Evolution (5+ years)

1. Continuous growth and self-improvement

2. Adaptation to changes and challenges

3. Deepening emotional connection

4. Feeling of companionship and partnership

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TIMING AND SEX

1. Not every time is time to have sex. Find out the state of your spouse first.

2. If you are a man who climaxes too quickly, study your timing to stop pumping and come out of her when you feel you are about to climax. This will delay your ejaculation.

3. Don't spend too much time doing one sexual thing whilst making love. Your spouse might get bored. Good timing is when you transition to the next sexual act after adequate exploration. For example, don't kiss for too long, don't lick for too long, don't play with the nipples for too long, don't do one sex position for too long.

4. Don’t transition to the next sexual act too quickly before your spouse even enjoys what you were doing. Don't rush the kissing, the foreplay.

5. Don't approach your spouse for love making when you know very well his/her mind is somewhere else; perhaps rushing to finish a deadline, rushing to leave for work, preoccupied with the children. Don't take offense if your spouse turns you down. It is not that your spouse doesn't want you, it's just not the right time.

6. Gentleman, as you pump inside your wife and you realize she is about to climax; that is not the time to stop or slow down. That is the time to pump harder or faster as she wants it. She is about to climax. If you mess up when almost there, it might take her a while to get there again.

7. During love making is the wrong time to talk about domestics, chores, work, responsibilities and duties. Everything else can wait, focus on pleasure.

8. Lady, when your husband is horny for you and you are in a position to give it to him, don't make him wait for too long. Strike while the iron is hot.

9. After the husband has ejaculated. Give the penis time before the next episode so that it can rejuvenate. If you rush it, it might erect but lose hardness mid-way because it hasn't adequately breathed.

10. Withdrawal method is all about timing. The man must master the precise time to come out of her when he feels the ejaculation is almost. This works best with all sexual positions besides the one where she is on top of him. When the wife is on top, the husband has less control of his penis.

11. When life gets busy, you two might have to resort to intentionally creating time for love making or else you will end up having a sexless marriage.

Quotes from Some "Wise Thinkers"

1. True evil comes from someone who was once kind.

Cesare Pavese

2. I don’t mind losing those who don’t want me, for I’ve lost those I wanted, and I’m still alive.

Karl May

3. One conversation with a wise man is better than ten years of studying books.

Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

4. The corruption of justice leads to the downfall of nations.

Ibn Khaldun

5. If you want to conquer anxiety and start living, count your blessings instead of your troubles.

Dale Carnegie

6. If you want to fail, try to please everyone.

Erwin Rommel

7. No one harmed me except those I knew; may God bless everyone I don’t know!

Abu Al-Alaa Al-Ma’arri

8. This world crushes justice with disgrace every single day.

Ghassan Kanafani

9. If you see the lion's fangs bared, don’t assume the lion is smiling!

Al-Mutanabbi

10. To be honest is to be an enemy to all.

Gibran Khalil Gibran

11. The first obstacle to an individual’s development is the family.

Leo Tolstoy

12. Increased awareness intensifies pain, and most sufferers of psychological depression are intellectuals.

Adel Sadeq

13. When you respect me well and treat me with courtesy, it’s not a feather in my cap; instead, you’ll be the crown on my head!

Ibrahim El-Fiky

14. You need to have wished for death to truly value life.

Winston Churchill

15. Kindness in words creates confidence, kindness in thinking solves every difficulty, and kindness in giving creates love.

Lao Tzu

16. I know no greater sin than oppressing an innocent person in the name of religion.

Mahatma Gandhi

17. Sadness is a psychological state that allows awareness to reflect on oneself and society.

Jean-Jacques Rousseau

18. Often, the words you fear to say are the ones that most need to be spoken.

George Bernard Shaw

19. Try staying away from the internet for a while, and you’ll realize you missed nothing online, but a lot outside it—like your mothers aging unnoticed!

Abdullah Al-Mughlooth

20. Life is hope; without hope, life is lost.

Plato

21. A day without laughter is a day wasted!

Charlie Chaplin

22. No one can ambush you except those who know your moves well. Don’t share your thoughts with anyone to reach your destination safely!

Htr

23. I will never respect the world as long as there’s a child with broken eyes.

Che Guevara

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VIRGINS AND MASTURBATION: 🔞 ⚠️

I get lots of questions on masturbation most especially from ladies -yes, ladies masturbate a lot, especially virgins. Guys also masturbate. 

There is no debate on that. I'm not here to argue about who masturbates most, I need to deal with a serious issue. Sexual urge for virgins is strong. What makes it stronger is the novelty, newness, the mystery and the hear says about sex. 

Masturbation is fondling your genitals consistently to achieve orgasm. Ladies may stroke their clitoris while guys rub, massage or caress their penis. I decided to give explicit explanation because some ask me what masturbation is. 

Some ladies especially non-virgins use candles, banana, small bottles, sticks, dildos or whatever represents a penis and do solo sex (having sex by yourself).

From teenage upward, you will have a strong desire for sex. It's a sure sign you are normal and capable of having and enjoying sex in Marriage. In your 20s it will be stronger and intense! 

You may wake up feeling horny for no single reason in the world or go hot on spotting a curvy lady! You may start noticing shapes and curves and you have to shake your head several times to keep the image off.

 You may get worked up on watching a romantic movie and discharge something. You check up and discover you are wet. All these are normal, you haven't committed any sin.

So what then do you do when you get hot and horny? Have sex? I know you know my answer and some singles will never be caught dead sleeping around, so what do they do? 

They masturbate! They give themselves release and pleasure through solo sex while claiming virginity at metatheses time. Masturbation is completely wrong and not the way out. Let me explain:

1. Masturbation is not done in isolation. It is done with the image of someone in mind. It can be a lover, an EX, a celebrity, a married person, a crush, someone you like but incapable of having. You imagine having sex with them while masturbating. That is MENTAL FORNICATION

2. For ladies, while inserting all manner of objects, you may mistakenly deflower yourself and also introduce infection into your genitals and womb. It will be very difficult to convince your future partner that you never had sex with man except objects during your solo sex.

3. You kill your ability to enjoy sex in future. Millions of women don't enjoy sex in Marriage which leads to sexual frustration, adultery, lesbianism and feminism. 

If you are used to getting orgasm by yourself, you won't be able to get it from your husband. If you are used to objects in your private part, you won't have feelings for your husband's penis. 

You will always think of something harder, bigger, longer, larger and completely unrealistic! Women who complain their husbands' penis are too small didn't Marry as virgins. They must have been promiscuous as singles.

4. You will not have a good sex life as a man. You will experience pre-mature ejaculation and your wife won't enjoy you leading to acute sexual frustration in Marriage. 

You need self control to fully enjoy sex and give your wife maximum sexual pleasure. A woman enjoys sex when the man can go on for at least 7 minutes before ejaculating. 

Because you are used to instant release from masturbation, you may not be able to go more than a minute before exploding leaving your wife completely unsatisfied and frustrated. 

She may close up, become frigid and stop having sex altogether which may lead to you having an affair, she having an affair or both of you having an affair. 

Self control before Marriage helps you enjoy sex to the maximum. You are able to delay ejaculation, go on for a long time and have excellent orgasm while giving your wife pleasure too. That is why total virginity pays!

5. If you do not suffer premature ejaculation, you may have serious problem with delayed/ retarded ejaculation. A situation where you get erection for several hours without ejaculation or orgasm. 

What is the benefit of sex without orgasm? Rough masturbation with your hands kills your ability to feel/enjoy sex with your wife. It is hell for a woman to be under a man who thrusts in for hours unable to ejaculate. 

How will the woman get pregnant? It's the reason some women are seemingly "barren" and can't talk to anybody out of embarrassment. Thrusting hard for so long leaves the woman sore, frustrated and hating sex altogether. 

You have so much to lose sexually when you masturbate. Abstaining from this degrading act helps you feel relaxed, confident, have normal sexual intercourse and enjoy the pleasures that comes with sex IN MARRIAGE!

6. You start having sex in the dream with a known or unknown person (demonic entities other wise known as spiritual spouse).

7. You feel drained, dirty, empty, useless and powerless after each act.

8. You start getting unsatisfied and wants the real thing. You fantasize more about sex and start longing for the real act.

9. You get a warped view of the opposite sex. You see them as sexual objects and start having sex with anything in skirt or trousers -you become promiscuous.

10. You get damaged, hurt and broken.

These and more are the consequences of masturbation. 

They damage you and shatter you to pieces!  What then should you do with your sexual urge? How do you handle the constant hunger for sex?

1. Avoid all dirty pictures, pornography videos, pictures and hot, romantic movies -they are powerful sexual triggers!

2. Avoid friends who say dirty, lewd and obscene things. Stop all sexy banters with friends and say only things that are pure, holy, needful and helpful.

3. Get busy with your life, education and career, there is more to life than sex.

4. Transmute your sexual energy: Channel your sexual energy into something great. 

5.Avoid pornography and romantic movies.

Masturbation is wrong, bad, demonic, destructive and sinful. Avoid it and end it with speed if you are deeply involved in it. God bless you.

6. Balance your life with the word of God and prayer.

©️ Mrs. Seun Oladele 

📸)): Deborah Joseph 

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THE 48 LAWS OF POWER.

A Book written by Robert Greene that offers a Series of Strategies for Obtaining and Maintaining Power in various situations. Here I leave you a summary of the 48 Laws:

1. Don't Outshine the Boss: Make your Superiors feel Superior. Don't expose your Talent too much or you might Trigger their Insecurity.

2.Don't Trust friends too much, use your Enemies: Friends Betray you more easily, but if you Manage to WIN an Enemy, they will be more Loyal.

3. Hide your Intentions: Keep People Off Balance so they can't anticipate your Actions.

4. Always say Less than Necessary: Silence Breeds Power, and Talking too much Reveals your Plans.

5. Protect your Reputation at all Costs: Reputation is the Cornerstone of Power.

6. Call Attention at all Costs: Be Visible to be Relevant.

7. Make others Work for you and Attribute it: Take Advantage of the Work and Effort of others to your Advantage.

8. Make others come to you: Don't Run after Others, make them Look for you.

9. Win with Actions, Never Arguments: Prove your Point through Actions, Not Words.

10. Avoid Losers and Unhappy: The Misfortune of others is Contagious; stay away from those who Bring you Down.

11. Make People Depend on you: If others Depend on you, you're in Control.

12. Disarm with Sincerity and Selective Generosity: Emotional Disarmament will give you an Edge.

13. When you ask for Help, Appeal to the Interests of Others: Appeal to what Benefits Others, not Gratitude or Compassion.

14. Introduce yourself as a Friend, act as a Spy: Learn to Extract Valuable Information from others without them Noticing.

15. Crush your Enemy Completely: Do not let your Enemy Recover, or he will seek Revenge.

16. Use Absence to Increase Respect: The Value of something Increases with Scarcity..

17. Keep Others in Suspense: Be Unpredictable, you will Confuse Others and Gain Power.

18. Do Not Isolate yourself: Loneliness Weakens you; Engage yourself in the Web of Influence.

19. Know Who You’re Dealing With: Choose Your Opponents And Partners Wisely.

20. Don't compromise with anyone: Maintain your Independence so you don't get Caught up in other People's Affairs.

21. Pretend to be a Fool to Catch the Sly: Let others think they have an Advantage over you.

22. Use the Surrender Tactic: Sometimes giving in at the Right Time gives you the Advantage.

23. Focus your Forces: Keep your Energy Focused on what really Matters.

24. Be a Master at Simulation and Disguise: Don't reveal all your cards.

25. Recreate your own identity: Be the architect of your own destiny.

26. Keep your hands clean: Make sure the responsibility for the problems falls on others.

27. Play with people's needs to create devotion: Satisfy their deep desires to earn you their loyalty.

28. Be bold in acting: Timidity is dangerous, boldness is powerful.

29. Plan everything to the end: Having a detailed plan allows you to avoid unpleasant surprises.

30. Make your accomplishments look easy: Minimize the effort you put in to make others think you have innate talent.

31. Control Other People's Options: Guide the decisions of others by giving them limited options.

32. Play with people's fantasy: Appeal to people's emotions and dreams to gain clout.

33. Discover the weaknesses of others: Identify what drives people to manipulate their actions.

34. Be rule in your behavior: Power lies in the appearance of greatness and dignity.

35. Master the art of timing: Don't rush; everything has its right time.

36. Despise what you can’t have: Don’t obsess over things that are out of your reach.

37. Create engaging spectacles: Theatrics and spectacles capture attention.

38. Think as you wish, but behave like everyone else: Do not openly defy social norms.

39. Stir the waters to catch fish: Destabilize others to make mistakes.

40. Despise free: What is free usually comes with a hidden cost.

41. Avoid imitating great men: Forge your own path instead of following in the footsteps of others.

42. Beat the shepherd and the sheep will scatter: He demolishes leaders to weaken his followers.

43. Work on the hearts and minds of others: Conquer the spirit of people to control them.

44. Disarm and anger with mirror effect: Reflect the actions of others to destabilize them.

45. Preach the need for change, but never reform too much: Radical change can generate resistance.

46. Never look too perfect: Perfection breeds envy and haters.

47. Don't exceed your goal: When you achieve what you want, retire on time.

48. Be amorphous: Be adaptable, don't limit yourself to a rigid form.

These laws are designed to handle situations of power, but it's important to consider context and personal ethics when applying them.

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