What a wife desire from her husband

By Evang Okechi Iwunze .

*What WIFE desire from her Husband but unable to say it?*

_1 Peter 3:7 husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers._

She needs attention and unwavering support from her Man bcos it's her driving energy to do better. She wants her Man to openly show to others that she is special & irreplaceable that can't accept competition.

She needs her Man to be considerate with his marital and submission demands as pertaining to her.

She desires her Man to be capable to protect and defend her good interest from third party molestation or criticism from whomever and whatever reasons.

No matter how intelligent, strong-willed independent and confident any woman may be, she desires her Man to stand up as her Guardian Angel that understand her good interests and motives more than anyone else and ever ready to protect it.

She desires to be treated with respect not maltreated with despise or deceits. Above-mentioned are real love making that touched woman's soul as Desired Wife not always about how many Marital sex rounds per night?

Then she will go to any length with compassionate heart to tear gate of hell to destroy Counsel of the enemy and make heaven to be opened for her husband breakthrough because such husband had touched most precious part of her soul.

She looks forward to chat, gist, crack joke and laugh with her husband over everything that happened around her and at home whether it's interesting or not.

Just listening, available and patient husband that cares about what she is about to talk about without making her feel less important.

You as a Woman, does your present disposition, attitudes, marital humility and deeds deserve or inspire attention from your Man.

Do you always respect and honour your husband's headship deeply enough to break down his emotional arrogance that humbly demand for such marital right.

It takes two to tangle in marital love and respect, no matter the excuses. Though some men don't feel comfortable to display such love and affection to their Women yet he loves and faithful to her as his wife.

If any woman is Married to husband that can't give her enough attention though faithful then she must walk in understanding to help him feel comfortable to display love tendencies.

She must learn to use her complete respect and submission as the neck to wisely rotate her headship to understand her inner emotional needs with long patience and understanding not through nagging and ceaseless complaint that do more harm than good in marriage.

Nevertheless, Wife, how appreciative are you of that little attention, little love and respect that you've received so far from your husband to deserve more attention and Love?

Appreciate every little gestures of love, attention and Faithfulness shown by your husband because it's not easy for struggling man in needs to create quality time for such romances due to many distractions here and there.

I pray that more grace shall be added to every Marriage to be worthy of our marital duty in Jesus mighty name.

 

KILLERS OF MARRIAGE

· Laziness kills marriage

· Suspicion kills marriage

· Lack of trust kills marriage

· Lack of mutual respect kills marriage

· Unforgiveness kills marriage (Forgiveness is not optional but mandatory)

· Arguments kills marriage

· Keeping secrets from your spouse kills marriage

· Every form of infidelity kills marriage (financial, emotional, psychological, material, etc)

· Poor communication kills marriage

. Lies easily kills marriage, be sincere to your spouse in every aspect.

· Relating more with your parents than your spouse kills marriage

· Lack of, inadequate or unenjoyable sex kills marriage.

· Nagging kills marriage

· Too much talk and careless talk kills marriage

· Spending less or little time with your spouse kills marriage

· Being too independent minded kills marriage

· Love for party, money and spending/

partying kills marriage

· Exposing the inadequacies of your spouse to your parents or siblings kills marriage

· Not being steadfast/fervent in the spirit kills not only marriage but your life

· Spurning correction and reprimand kills marriage.

· Always wearing a sad face and being moody kills marriage.

· FEMINISM ADVOCACY kills marriage.

· Uncontrolled or hot temperament kills marriage.

· Not understanding your role and position in marriage as instituted by God kills marriage.

· Not being sensitive to the spiritual, emotional and physical needs of your spouse kills marriage

· When anything threatens the position/

security of a wife, her reaction(s) will be detrimental to her marriage.

· Lack of the knowledge of the word of God kills marriage.

FACTS ABOUT LIFE TO PROVE YOU ARE MATURED

Being an adult comes with a lot of responsibilities and acceptance about how unfair life can sometimes be to us. Here are list of truths you have to accept when they happen to you as an adult:

1. Not everything you want will be yours and you have to let go of it.

2. Sometimes not everything you dream of will become a reality.

3. Sometimes you win in what you are doing, other times you learn .

4. Accept the fact that not everyone will be with you forever.

5. Sometimes you might be hurt but then you have to let things be so others can be happy .

6. Not everyone you love will love you back.

7. Don't expect people to be nice to you because you are a nice person.

8. Accept not expecting too much from Someone because humans can be disappointing.

9. Never do good things with the hope of getting something else in return.

10. You will lose more and more friends as you grow up.

11. The only person you can Trust is God And Yourself.

12. Sometimes the person you care about the most is the person that will hurt you the most.

13. Putting in too much effort doesn't guarantee immediate success or results.

14. Rejections and failures will happen to you at one point in life.

15. Accept that there will be a time when you need to start fending for yourself.

16. You will make mistakes and take stupid decisions.

17. Don't expect people to have the level of understanding as you have.

18. There are days it will seem everything is going wrong and downhill.

19. You need to walk away from some people to maintain peace of mind.

20. Without God, you won't go far in Life...

VALUE YOUR WIFE

A wonderful friend of mine once asked me how I knew so much about women and I said to him; "for the past years of my life, I've been studying the creation, the celestial, the terrestrial and the women and I can boldly tell you that the keys to unlock the earth are in the hands of women not men and any man that want to go far in life must learn to humble himself and listen to the woman in his life if not, he is not far from the six feets".

I'm not going to bore you with so much information because you really don't need it. The few things that I know will be of great benefit to you is all I'm just going to share with you.

Now, I'm sure you've read about the Twenty Four Elders in heaven and you are wondering who are they. Well, the Twenty Four Elders in heaven are the Twelve sons of Jacob who later became the Twelve Tribes of Israel and the Twelve Disciples of Jesus Christ who later became the Apostles.

Now, it's not an accident that you have Twenty Four Hours in a day. Each hour is governed by each Terrestrial Forces and these forces are only there to ruin human life if you let them.

While the Terrestrial Forces governed the earth, the Celestial Forces governed the heavens and in-between the earth and the heaven is another space that are governed by another Sixteen Forces.

For efficiency and effectiveness, Terrestrial forces are divided into three, and you have them in Seven, Eight and Nine in each group.

Please, pay attention to this as this I'm sharing with you is going to help you tremendously in life if you can simply follow it through.

I've heard it in science that a man has Nine Ribs and the woman Seven Ribs. Well, in science it is called Ribs, but in the things of the spirit it is called Spiritual Power.

While the man has Nine of these Terrestrial Power, the woman has Seven of the same power. Therefore, when you operate as a single person your success is limited because the forces you are contending with are higher in number.

For example, if you as a man is struggling to make it all by yourself in life and you are not, it is because your spiritual capacity which is Nine are not enough to fight against the remaining Fifteen Terrestrial forces on the earth that are contending against your purpose, success and achievement; you need extra forces to help you.

So also, if you as a woman is struggling and nothing is working, it is because your spiritual capacity which is Seven are not enough to fight against the remaining Seventeen Terrestrial forces that govern the earth, you need extra forces to join forces with you and win.

And this is the very reasons why some people seek for spiritual power by all means and why some people pray and pray and sometimes get the desired results and sometimes they don't. As a matter of fact, some people die trying.

Now, when you are able to get married to a good lady as a wife or to a good man as a husband and you are always in agreement no division of any kind, your Nine Terrestrial Power added to her Seven Terrestrial Power will automatically give you Sixteen Terrestrial Power and with these forces joint together, you can easily fighting against the remaining Eight Terrestrial Forces and win.

Once you and your wife or husband become a team...an unbreakable forces, the Sixteen Forces in-between the earth and the heaven will automatically release the keys that unlock the earth and the heavens to you and you have no other choice than to prosper and be in good health...at that point, your heaven is no longer sealed and your earth is no brass. Anything and everything you do at this point will be an automatic success; you are in.

I've you heard someone having issues with his wife before leaving the house in the morning and he came back in the evening and said, "o God, I had a bad day".

Well, that will surely happen and will always happens because the Seven Terrestrial Power of a woman is to unlock the Celestial Blessings on you as her husband every day, Mondays to Sundays and anytime anyday she become unhappy with you, the blessings for that day will be withhold from you and as long as she remains unhappy your heaven remain sealed.

This is the reason why those that understand spiritual things do tell some men, to go and beg their wife or make the woman happy. But majority of them will misinterpret it and conclude that their wife or mother is against their success and progress in life. Sir, no one is against you, you are the one against yourself...just plead and have your life back.

However, how you treat her each day is what will determine what your day will be like. And how she feels towards you each day of the week is what will determine what your day will turned out to be.

While the Seven Terrestrial Power of a woman is to unlock the Celestial Blessings on her husband, the Nine Terrestrial Power of a man is to work and earn a living for himself, his household and in return take good care of the wife and always make sure that she is happy...because when she is happy, you will definitely be happy too and if she's not, you are on your own.

Check the book of Genesis, God created a man and gave him a job to do, God created the woman and order her to help the man. But unfortunately, some men denied their wives the right and opportunity to help them and some even used it against their wives whenever the woman goes out of her way to. Sir, let your wife help you, it will safe you lots of headache and earns you lots of rewards. Why stressing your life when God had made an help available for you.

Anyway, with or without a job a woman can sustain herself year in year our; eat and live fine; if possible but a house and drive a nice car, no man lives without a job. With a man, it's not work no food. Why, men are physically made, women are spiritually made and the spiritual controls the physical.

Now, imagine as a man, having the support of your wife and mother and always work in agreement with them, can you imagine how far you will go in life?

There is no successful man anywhere on the planet without a full support of a woman either is mother or wife...and check the history, once the woman in their life is no more their life will begin to fall apart.

If it is divorce, it is better for the man to seek for divine connection if not he will suffer and if the woman is dead, it's a question of time before he too will die.

If you will be in total agreement with the woman in your life, and stop quoting Bible verses that had made you a figure head man instead of a real man; your life will be sweeter and smoother. Stop claiming the headship in your home, humble yourself and work / walk with your wife. It will give you a stress free life.

Thank you for reading.

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EXCLUSIVE ROLES OF PARENTS IN CHILDREN UPBRINGING

Parents have four major roles to play in the life of their children.

*1-* INSTRUCTIONAL ROLES.

*2-* REBUKE ROLES.

*3-* EXHORTATION ROLES

*4-* EDUCATIVE ROLES.

* INSTRUCTIONAL ROLES.*

We must instruct our children:

*To behave well in public.

*To rise up early each day.

*To pray first thing as they rise.

*To be the first to greet people.

*To clean up themselves properly.

*To clean their environment.

*To be early and timely to every daily tasks.

*To be orderly.

*To be respectful to people.

*To speak in decent language.

*To organise themselves.

*To plan their schedules.

*To have their daily timetable off hand.

*To comport themselves in quietness.

*To be articulate, reasonable and expectant.

*To ask questions when in doubt.

*To listen carefully with understanding.

*To act with decorum, courtesy and humility always.

*To defend the family name and image at all times.

*To obey elders, set rules and regulations.

*To pray before retiring to bed at night.

* REBUKE ROLES*.

We must rebuke our children:

*When they portray laziness.

*When they are prayerless.

*When they appear dirty.

*When they're insolent.

*When they speak foul languages.

*When they speak improperly.

*When they sit carelessly.

*When they participate in unsolicited discussions.

*When they come late to appointments or tasks.

*When they talk back to elders in anger.

*When you notice pride in them.

*When they become spendthrift.

*When they eat irregularly.

*When they cannot control their appetite.

*When you notice ostentatious lifestyle in them.

*When they think about materialism always.

*When they unnecessarily compare themselves with others.

*When they speak abusively of other parents or elders or mates.

*When you notice the spirit of hatred in them.

*When they make hate speeches.

*When they complain always about others.

*When they move with suspicious characters.

*When they are not extolling learning.

*When they're not proud of academic achievements.

*When they abuse their teachers at home.

*When they discredit their school.

*When they plan to revenge or retaliate against actions.

*When they refuse to obey constituted authority.

*When they fail to pray.

* EXHORTATION ROLES.*

Parents must Praise their children :

*When they do well in assignments and exams.

*When they are properly dressed.

*When they speak well in public.

*When they speak well of their institution and teachers.

*When they speak well of others.

*When their carriage is decent.

*When they express Godly values.

*When they always talk about excellence.

*When they spend less time watching TV.

*When they spend more time studying.

*When they spend less time talking.

*When they spend more time listening.

*When they spend right time praying.

*When they spend less time playing.

*When they know what to do.

*When they know what is right.

*When they refuse to do what is wrong.

*When their ambition is to be the best in good endeavours.

*When they speak of becoming Great People.

*When they take action that meets good vision.

* EDUCATIVE ROLES.*

Parents must Teach their children :

*How to live honest life.

*How to live amongst people.

*How to live in comfort with others.

*How to love and appreciate others.

*How to be fair to all concerned.

*How to love their teachers, school and those in authority over them.

*How to obey rules and regulations.

*How to live in dignity and self esteem.

*How to plan their future.

*How to raise Godly homes.

*How proper education answers to most of life's challenges.

*How to escape from bad friendship.

*How to pick a career.

*How to develop their career.

*How to pass through life successfully by depending on God and not man.

*How to pass examinations without malpractice.

*How to be studious and build their brains.

*How to set academic standards for now and their future.

*How to flaunt Excellent Achievements and not Beauty.

*How to be Intellectual Celebrities.

*How to have a vision.

*That Godliness with contentment is great gain.

*How to love GOD and their neighbor.

*How to live in fear of GOD.

_*When we play these roles, our children by the grace of GOD will come out great and the parents will have a good old age and memorial.*_

EVERY LADY IN THE HOUSE NEED TO READ THIS

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