Saturday, 20 November 2021

SEX IS SWEET


DEAR UNDEFILED ,
Sex is sweet but have you ever wondered why God carefully positioned a membrane of blood in a lady's sexual opening? It is a thiny membrane that partially or completely covers the opening of the vagina. It is called the "HYMEN". Why would God our maker put a breakable tissue full of blood at the very door of the sexual opening of the female? Why is it so carefully placed at that entrance, why is it filled with blood that spills away when it is broken?
It was God who set that blood filled vessel there as a covenant blockage, a sign and a token of a covenant between the bearer and whoever plunges into her opening. Before God, the disvirginity of a lady is not a casual act of fun. It's a serious covenant struck and confirmed by the blood shed on that day. This is God's way of saying, 'whoever plunges into this woman shall only be able to do so by making a blood covenant to be joined to her for the rest of his life, from that point onward. That's why sexual intercourse was designed by God to take place only in marriage.
Sex: yes it's your right but you don't have to steal your dinner for breakfast. God who created the body said the body is not for fornication. There is a spiritual bonding, a supernatural process that takes place in a lady's heart to the first guy that enters into her especially at that particular time when the hymen breaks. Sex is not just sex. It's a covenant and that's why a girl finds it difficult to let go of a guy who deflowered her no matter how badly she's been treated.
There is no covenant without blood: that's why the membrane contains enough of it. The first time a lady has sex is not just sex but an immersion and a bathing of the man with her hymen blood to initiate a covenant that is highly recognized in the spirit realm of both light and darkness!
Many have washed useless boys with that hymen blood. Many have struck irreversible covenants with men that have nothing to do with their destiny. Many have shared their hymen blood with demon possessed men. If only they knew, many girls who carelessly allowed themselves to be deflowered in a bid to be among the so called big girls would never have done so. Do you not know that he who is joined to a harlot through sexual activity is one with her?
This is why many girls are not yet settled & stable. Their spiritual composition is already shattered and imbalanced, because they have mingled their souls with that of different men.
Dear singles, know today that there is a definite proportion of your virtue that leaves you each time a man enters into you and when that man leaves you, he leaves with it. Just imagine how much of yourself would be lost each time a man enters into you without any marriage bond. Sex is a spiritual affair. A giving of yourself to another. All of these things have strong and terrible spiritual implication. A broken hymen opens you up to the spirit of the man that broke it, and any other spirit whatsoever that may have mingled with that man's spirit (vice versa). Sex is a gift for marriage not an audition for dating.
Being a virgin till you're married is not old fashion. It Is called old wisdom, and wisdom last longer than fashion. We are living in a world where people in love are Free to touch each other's private parts but can't have access to each other's phones because they're private. Ladies go into marriage with an already dug well between their legs & that's one of the reasons we have so many failed marriages. Because after allowing boyfriends to dig the well, they will be looking for husbands with big fetching bucket to fetch it well. When a woman is beautiful without sense, her private part suffers the most.
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*RELEVANCE THROUGH IMPACT*


Luke 10:17.
And the seventy returned again with joy, saying, Lord, even the devils are subject unto us through thy name.
You will not understand the joy of living until you understand the joy of impact.
Your relevance in life is tied to your Impact on men.
Joy and fulfillment is a function of your Impact.
Our lives and Impact can influence and motivate others to become impactful in their space thereby building chain actions of Impactful men and women.
This is how to live. You will not understand the joy of living until you understand the joy of impact and influencing others to live for Impact.
The grace to impact other people is released on you in Jesus Name.
1. Make up your mind to lift someone up today.
2. Contribute to the success story of people and motivate others to live for Impact.
*PRAYER*
Father I receive the grace to lift people in life. Help me Lord to impact the lives of people and influence others to live for Impact in Jesus Name!!! Have a glorious weekend!!!
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PROTECT YOUR MARRIAGE!


Even if you are married to the best spouse in the whole world,
if you do not guard your heart, you may end up "falling in love"
with someone aside your spouse and eventually ruin your
marriage.
No one gets married and plans to have affair but lots of
married men and women are into affairs today because they
slept when they should have been wide awake with their five
senses alert.
Don't be too friendly with the opposite sex.
This is where lots of married people land in trouble. Pride will destroy your marriage!
You can't handle close
friendship with the opposite sex as a married person. Your
heart is involved.
Set boundaries.
Be disciplined.
Be cordial.
Be respectful.
Be godly.
Be holy.
Mind the pictures you post on social media.
Stop focusing on your spouse's weaknesses and appreciate their strengths.
If you always see the bad side of your spouse, you will be angry, bitter, critical and look for someone who can "understand" you and make you happy aside your spouse. That is the beginning of an emotional affair. It is the beginning of the end of a once glorious marriage!
What you will not eat, don't bring it to your nose. Don't smell it!
Don't start what you cannot finish!
Avoid all emotional and sexual affairs. They will destroy your
marriage!
May Almighty God will keep our homes, and marriages.
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Wished to be single


In marriage there are days you wish you had remained single. There are moments you look at your spouse and wonder “what was I thinking when I married her/him?” There are times you wish you had married someone different. There are times when you feel that divorce is the only option. There are instances you feel betrayed beyond recovery. There are times you feel that your love is being taken for granted. You are not alone. The truth is that every marriage has its fair share of difficult moments. Every marriage goes through rough times. Every husband & every wife experiences perplexing moments. Remember it's the rough surfaces that sharpen the best. Rough times are meant to build your marriage; not break it. The beauty of marriage is in realizing that difficult seasons are temporary moments. Straight roads don’t make experienced drivers. Keep on, moving on!
SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE
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*Faithfulness to your partner is a conscious decision. Don't forget, you may likewise be tempted.*


I saw this and I decided to share it:
Married man’s inbox messages;
Girl 1; Good evening sir, I am just checking up on you, I hope you are okay?”
Married man; yes, I am fine, and you?”
Girl 1; I am just here, but not really fine, I’m so bored”
Married man; talk to your boyfriend to take you out or watch a movie to keep yourself busy”
Girl 1; I don’t have a boyfriend, sir, and we don’t have light. I feel like going out, but I don’t have anywhere to go”
She has thrown out the ball, expecting the man to pick it up, by inviting her to hang out somewhere with him, which will lead to junior combing her straight bone hair. Official side chick moves, activated.
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This is married man and girl two.
Girl 2; hi.
Married man; hello, how are you?”
Girl 2; I am fine. Have you eaten?”
Married man; why do you ask, abi you want to give me food?”
Girl 2; Aah! I don’t want your wife’s wahala o. I cooked a delicious stew, but you are married ، I would have invited you over”
Another ball has been thrown out. If the man doesn’t have self control, he will give her the green light, side chick mode, activated.
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This is Married man and Girl 3.
Girl 3 goes to a man’s Facebook story and comments; nice outfits. I sell things like this. Please, patronize me. I can gift you one, so that you see I sell original stuff”
Married man; oh, that’s nice. Thank you”
Girl 3; let me know when you are free, so I can bring it for you”
Married man; you can send a delivery guy, you don’t have to stress yourself”
Girl 3; I don’t have a delivery guy for now, I just started this business not long ago. Just tell me where you want me to come, anywhere, I can bring it”
That’s the window of opportunity, wide open. If the married man is cheap, he will take the opportunity and invite her where he wants, the rest will be history.
There are so many other formats, but let me stop here for today. To be continued

Friday, 19 November 2021

7 SIGNS HE/SHE IS A KEEPER AND IS SOMEONE WORTH KEEPING


1) THEY ACCEPT YOU.
They may want you to be better, offer advice, encourage you to DO BETTER, but first, they love and accept you for WHO YOU ARE.
They accept your smile, how you laugh, how you talk, your past (where you are coming from), your present (where you are currently) and your future (where you are going).
2) THEY NOTICE AND REMEMBER THE LITTLE THINGS
KEEPERS usually want to know YOU
PLAYERS usually want to know your BODY and your ATM PIN.
A keeper wants to get into your HEAD (Ideologies) and HEART (Emotions), to know your dreams and aspirations and how that fits into theirs.
While a player wants to get into your PANTS or your WALLET, or both.
Keepers will remember the little details about you that you told them, they'll notice little things about you because they actually pay attention to you.
3) THEY DO THINGS TO MAKE YOU FEEL SPECIAL.
When they go out of their way (sacrifice) to do things for you, they are Keepers and worth keeping
They get you gifts, celebrate your wins, give you their attention whenever you desire it, listen to you, and value your opinion.
4) THEY MAKE EFFORT TO BUILD YOU IN WAYS THAT MATTER
A Player didn't come to BUILD you, they came to USE you.
A player Wants you to go partying with em all the time, wear skimpy clothes, look sexy and have sex with them at their demand.
To act like an harlot, and send them Nudes
To spend on them like an Idiot.
They don't mind even if you are not growing.
A Keeper on the other hand encourages you to be better spiritually and otherwise,
They encourage you to go for seminars, to read, to save, to invest, to know, to aspire to be more financially, spiritually and otherwise.
A person worth keeping is a person that makes your life BETTER.
5) THEY TALK ABOUT THE FUTURE.
Players avoid the "Where is this headed?" question with passion, they'll quarrel each time it's brought up.
Players don't discuss about their future with you because you're not in it, all they want to discuss is your breast, your waist, your nudes, your account balance and when you're sending the money.
Keepers on the other hand, they're interested in your plans for your tomorrow they talk about the deep stuffs.
What type/size of family you want, etc, to see if you are compatible.
6) THEY TREAT YOU AS AN EQUAL.
When they talk down on you, treat you with contempt, abuse you, they walk around you with an air of superiority.
Even if they want to keep you, don't keep them.
7) THEY LOVE GOD
Anybody who has no interest in God and the things of God, miss them oh. Miss them.
Even if they want to keep you, they are not worth keeping,
Anybody that doesn't fear God, who are you that they will fear? Please miss them and let them miss you.
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You'll come across many People in your life time
It's your job in conjunction with the Holy Spirit to determine who should be in it.
By Musa Gift