Tuesday, 28 May 2024

WOMEN YOU MUST AVOID AS A STRUGGLING YOUNG SINGLE MAN


1) Avoid a broke woman who depends on you for money and spend it unnecessarily , She's a financial vampire and parasite, she will ruin you and date another man 
2) Avoid an arrogant woman who doesn't takes instructions, corrections and direction from you. But love so much fake life , that always pressure you to buy any latest expensive trending materials , as a STRUGGLING YOUNG SINGLE MAN you can't go far with such woman 

3) Avoid an angry woman who's always quarreling and fighting with you, who disrespect you and give you no peace.

4) Avoid a woman who's surrounded by many men , who she calls her friends or bestie. Those men are your replacement waiting for your relationship to have problems and then they will move in and replace you.

5) Avoid a woman who doesn't want to listen to your simple explanation but always want what she need from you and doesn't care how you will go about risking your life to get it for her

6) Avoid woman, that's without handwork and she's not ready to learn any , the economic is not favorable, you may not have money always as a husband or boyfriend , most men you see out there, their wife is their backbone financially , having a good plan together with your wife is the secret of most men success 

7 ) Avoid high demanding woman , you can never get or achieve ur dreams with such woman ,as a STRUGGLING YOUNG SINGLE MAN  

8) Avoid woman who doesn't appreciate your little efforts to make her okay , such woman doesn't think of the past sacrifices , if she sees any boy that is doing more better than you she will leave you.

Men, always be guilded...

ROMANTIC THINGS TO DO THAT DON'T INVOLVE SEX

ROMANTIC THINGS TO DO THAT DON'T INVOLVE SEX

When romance is often mentioned, many think it is all about sex. But romance is actually anything you do to your partner that communicate and show that him/her is special to you. Here are a few examples. 
1. Calling your partner a special name that you wouldn't call any other person such "Honey", "Sweetheart"

2. Cooking together. This activity actually gives you two a chance to bond closer 

3. Going out on dates to intimate places (not clubs) where you can look into each other's eyes and have heart to heart conversations

4. Pulling up her seat or holding her hand when she climbs up a stair case.  Even though she can do this on her own, this makes her feel like you are mindful of her 

5. Singing love songs together.  This warms the heart 

6. Covering each other in prayer. The most romantic thing is taking care of each other's spirit 

7. Holding each other's hand as you walk.

8. Going out for walks, picnics and plays

9. If you have children, planning dates just for you two as you make plans for someone to take care of the kids. Children tend to kill romance if you are not deliberate about maintaining the fire

10. Talking on the phone till late about heart matters if you two are far from each other. If all you talk about till late is sex then you are missing out on depth 

11. Writing each other love letters.  Yes, there is something special about reading each other's handwriting in this digital age. Leave a note for your partner on the pillow or post a letter if your partner is far away 

12. Making him a warm drink as he works or going to see him with packed lunch. This shows that you have him in mind 

13. Sending a parcel. There is something special about opening up a physical gift from the one you love 

14. Praising each other publicly, whether in front of your friends, on social media or in social gatherings. But do this only when you love your partner well in private, otherwise it is just pretense

STOP THE LIES IN YOUR MARRIAGE

STOP THE LIES IN YOUR MARRIAGE

1. Wives, stop faking your orgasms and lying that your husband sexually satisfies you. Soon you will get tired of faking. Show your husband how you want him to make love to you. A man feels good when he knows he makes his wife cum real good

2. Husbands, stop lying to your wife that she is the one who makes you orgasm yet each time you have sex with her, you are fantasizing about porn stars, a booty socialite or other women. Stop watching porn, stop lusting after other women. To enjoy making love with your wife, keep your mind pure

3. Stop lying to your spouse that you are OK yet you harbour resentment for him/her for a wrong done or the right he/she didn't do. Stop wearing the plastic smile. Let your spouse know about the matter so that you two resolve it. A plastic smile cannot be worn for long

4. Stop lying to yourself that you are a faithful husband/wife yet on your Facebook inbox and WhatsApp you are flirting with others. Stop lying to yourself that flirting, exchanging nude pictures and sexually turning on other people is just for fun, nothing serious. That is a form of unfaithfulness, focus your energy and attention on your spouse

5. Stop lying to the public that your marriage is OK, yet you and your spouse know how messed up things between you two are. Public opinion doesn't matter, the reality of your marriage does. Clean up your home in private and you will naturally be happy in public

6. Stop lying to yourself that you are loving God and are right with God yet you are hateful, abusive, violent and mistreating your spouse. How can you say you love God that you don't see yet hate and hurt the spouse you do see?

7. Stop lying to your child/children that you are busy working so that you can stay outside home to engage in not so important acts. Your family comes first

8. Stop pretending to your child/children that all is all between you and your spouse. Children can tell when mom and dad are not OK. Work things out.

Signs that indicate that you're a guy's side chick not main.


Mixed signals: His words don't match his actions. He might shower you with affection in private but keep things distant in public. 

You are not his priority: Not always there when you need him, and has never introduce you to family,or invite you to family gathering.
 He only calls you over when he needs something,he’s horny and needs sex.

He dials or receive calls from a particular number : That number might not be saved, but gives attention to the person via call , even when you are around, and give details of his day and every thing.

Hates surprise visits👀

Have you tried to surprise your boyfriend at his house and he gets so cross with you. Now that reason might be because you are the side babe. He never wants you coming unannounced without calling first. He gives you the impression that he hates surprises.

Love is natural

Telling a girl she is a priority. 

Vs 

Treating her like shes a priority.

Are two different things.•

WHEN A 👩 WOMAN 👩 STOPS
          
•caring😙
•being jealous😏
•asking questions😤
•bothering about you😓
•calling as usual😩
•texting you first😒
•going thru your phone😣
•asking about female friends😖
•having sleepless nights😢

And starts replying with
•nah😛
•it's cool😌
•oh okay😏
•Ah fine😃
•I see😙
•oh yh😏
•Am not mad😉
•oh k...😷

~Then know that....
~Her
~Last
~Tears
~Has
~Dropped 
~For 
You and
She no longer
Cares anymore😌😏
Woman have the heart to love but once you break her ,u won't find her the same place u left her❤😌...
So before you question her actions check yourself 🙎‍♀️💔

# Remember Love is Natural ❣️

He will change when you marry abi?

 Sister, 


Shebi you dey see the red flags now but this saviour spirit no go let you rest. To become Mrs no be beans but to stay Mrs dey importanter.


You never marry am e don dey collect all your money, hide phone, threaten you, commot late, drink, no send you.


Make I clear you, for marriage e go beat you neat and nothing go happen. If you try talk please, protest or complain, him go waka for days or weeks and when he come back na you go still beg even when you know say na shawtie e dey follow chat.


He will change when you marry abi? No wahala.


I hear you.


-Shamseddin Giwa