See, if you have no money to do the three types of wedding, just say so, pray about it and let God bless you instead of hiding behind "Traditional marriage is the best...", "Our fore fathers didn't do church wedding and have no problem..." bla...bla...bla...! What about those whose fore fathers and ancestors did church wedding and have no problem? Go and sit down!
Traditional marriage is basically to pay the bride price, both families to get to know each other and do what custom and tradition expect you to do. (Christians should avoid anything idolatry).
Church wedding is to get God's blessings on a holy ground with brethren as witnesses.
Court wedding! Now, let's talk!
Unless you want to remain in your country for life and have no dream of travelling out at least to enjoy some life with your partner (not everyone travels to USA to wash plate at McDonald's), you must do that court wedding!
As a lady who wants to change her maiden name to married name, the bank needs your court wedding certificate to do that. You hear? The newspaper needs your court wedding certificate. There are some businesses you can't properly transact if your bank details do not bear your current name.
You can't get some jobs too!
The name on your NIN must tally with all your official names especially the one at the bank. This apply more to ladies so ladies, you better drag that guy down to court and do the needful before you start singing a new song few years after marriage!
God will bless you ooo!
Your husband will acquire properties. You will build business conglomerates, you will be known around the world!
Stay safe and get your official name boldly printed and approved by the government of the land on a certified sheet of paper, you hear?
Ladies, you hear?
Thank you!
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