HOW A WOMAN CAN MAKE HER MAN LOVE LOVING HER

1. PRAY FOR HIM
No matter the level of a man's spirituality, prayer is respected and considered sacred. Pray for him, let him hear you pray for him

2. CHALLENGE HIM
Do greater things on your own, inspire him, expose him to greatness, make progress in your life that he feels he needs to pull up his socks. Don't just sit lazy. A man wants a woman who is hungry for her own personal growth. Challenging him doesn't mean looking down on him or asking why can't he be like other men?

3. NEED HIM
Men love feeling needed. Lovingly ask him for help, ask him for advice, "My love, what do you think I should do?". Involve him in your life and when he does help, thank him

4. CORRECT HIM
Men, love it when the woman tells him when he wrongs. The problem is many women don't know how to correct. Correct him with love, "Honey, don't you think it would have been better if..."; don't scold him like he is a little boy. Approach and tone is key. Don't attack

5. PRAISE HIM
The kind of compliments men love are, "You are such a good man", "You make a great dad", "Your mind is incredible", "You have a sexy body", "I love how you touch me", "My honey, I am proud of you". Praise him in private and in public. Don't be that woman who is quick to point out his flaws but rarely highlights what he does right

6. SEXUALLY MAKE ADVANCES
Many women think sex is to be left to the man, so they wait for the man to make advances. They become passive and shy during sex. Lady, your husband will love it sometimes if you are sexually aggressive, ask for his body, reach for his penis. Show him that you know he belongs to you. Make sex an adventure

7. SHOW INTEREST IN HIM
Ask him how his day is, his dreams, if he is OK. Most women want the man to show interest but they don't show interest back

8. TRUST HIM, DON'T MICROMANAGE HIM
Don't be overly possessives, demanding him to spend every second with you. Snooping his phone and doubting him when you find nothing, being suspicious of him, chocking his social life, . Be mature, if you push him away, he will keep things from you then things will get ugly. Most men keep things from their women, not because they are doing something wrong but because their women read too much into everything and pick up fights. This is dangerous. You are his Queen, wear your crown with confidence

9. COMPLAIN LESS
So many women don't even know they complain, they think they are simply expressing their right to speak and get things done properly. But men dislike a complaining woman, if he doesn't do things as you like, if he is not at your level; don't attack and nag. Just simply request him to do things a better way, but as you do so, appreciate the much he has done so far

10. GIVE HIM PEACE
This is what we all want when with a person. Peace. Peace at home. No fights, no frustrations, no stress. If your man is spending less time with you, perhaps you're not giving him peace. Men avoid complicated and draining environments. Lady, you complaining every day to him that he doesn't spend much time with you makes things worse. You think you are putting your point across but he feels pushed away. Attract him to you by giving him peace. Some men stay out there, not looking for a woman, but looking for peace

11. LOOK GOOD
Dress up, look sexy. Don't look good only when you are outside the home, look good also when it's just you two

12. TREAT HIM
Cater to him, cook for him, buy him gifts, treat him like a king, straighten his tie. These simple things mean alot to him, even if not every day, often

13. HAVE GOOD CONVERSATIONS
Men get attracted to good conversations. They want laughter, depth, intelligent conversations. They want to be listened to, to be wowed by a woman's mind. A woman who talks lovey dovey stuff but also about business, investments, social issues, a great vision; that woman is a keeper

14. EAT WITH HIM
Men love a good meal. Make it a habit to eat with him. Food brings people together

15. BE ADMIRABLE
Succeed in your personal life, do great things outside your marriage. Shine as a woman. Make him proud to say "That is my wife". Even the Proverbs 31 husband calls his wife "Blessed"

16. BE FRIENDLY TO HIS FRIENDS
Don't fight his friends. Find out who his friends are, get to have laughs and talks with them. Support his social life, be good to his family and siblings. If you have an issue with one of them, bring it to his attention without starting a war. Allow to also know your friends. When you both do this, it makes both of you secure

17. MAKE AN EFFORT TO UNDERSTAND WHAT HE LIKES
Find out what he likes and spend time with him once in a while doing that thing. If he loves rugby, watch matches with him sometimes; if he wins an award, go cheer him as he receives it; be his fan. You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name.

PITY FOR MY HUSBAND

From Miss Jamah's servant
I got married in 2008 and we have 4children together, but my problem is that my husband is not the bilogical father of my children and the whole thing is affecting me psychologically, each time I look at my husband.. I always feel pity for him.... My conscience has been troubling me for ages now... I have no peace of mind... I was planning on how to confess to him before I meet my doom..
My ex boyfriends who is the father of my children is threatening me to give him his children since his wife is unable to conceive for him...
He asked me to explain things to my HUSBANd before he expose it himself...
I love my husband so much I dont wonna hurt him...
I was carried away by my ex sexual performance, he is more romantic than my husband, not that my husband is impotent... But he has small DICK and he is not handsome, so I was securing the future of my children, I want them to look like my ex.. Cos he is handsome..
My selfishness has landed me in trouble, I don't know how to face the world... especially my husband... How can I tell him that my children are not his, how can I tell everybody this ugly incident....
I feel like comiting suicide cos I cant bear the shame..

Solution:.. …..........

Qcloudcosting

By Dr Okusola Ogunsino
Some professionals see their work as a skill,others see it as a growing body of knowledge. The truth however is that a technology-driven world demands that we see our work as a skill underlined by a dynamic body of knowledge. Our world view of our work matters because it shapes our actions and decisions.
Since skills change very slowly,skill-biased workers do not see the need to reinvent themselves. That posture,however is dangerous since disruptive technology can dekill overnight. How many typists are still working with type writer in your offices?

Unlike skill, knowledge changes and it changes very fast,it becomes absolute rapidly. This awareness is motivating for knowledge workers. It spurs them on to reinvent themselves, investing in real continuous professional development via personal studies,seminars and workshops. It has been a great privilege to work with Moore Gunsin ,the team behind ounsen.com and Costinformatics   Research project.
So dear reader,the learning mindset is the risk management strategy against skill obsolescence in a world where disruptive technologies abound. What will you learn today? Why not join the beta-testing of qcloudcosting?

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MY SELF ESTEEM

She got all dressed, ready to leave for a program. Beholding her reflection on the mirror, came the words; *"Thank you Lord for making me beautiful."*

On getting to the venue of the long expected program, her eyes gazed around in admiration of the well decorated hall creating an ambience of peace. Stilling her eyes was the greeting from an usher whose beaming smile and hand moved directing her to one of the empty seats. She sat feeling all good.

Elating her eyes, she was swept off feet by what was before her-- a perfectly carved bamboo legs well fitted into a stiletto heels, joining an ivory-worked knee well rounded, hips fitting a slim waist which held her upper frame.. _*King Solomon would know how to describe her, for her breast was like a full ripe grape, veiled in a flowery gown, her smile revealed well arranged immaculate white teeth and her natural hair so long and perfectly styled. Truly beauty in perfection. She must be a goddess,*_ Amanda thought.

Amanda who walked in few minutes ago feeling all good about herself, suddenly began feeling uncomfortable -- as she saw nothing good about herself in the light of the "PERFECT LADY".

As she couldn't take it any longer, she excused herself to the restroom and cried her eyes out. *_"Lord,why are you so bias? why didn't you make me fair? Why didn't you make me tall? I can't even pack my hair, 'cause I don't have long hair!"_*

She couldn't wait for the program to end, she left the venue feeling so sad and worthless.

She got home, took out her phone and dialled her mentor's number.

"Hello dear, I thought you told me you were going for a program."...
"Yes ma, but I'm back."
"So soon?"
"Yes ma, I couldn't stay."

"What happened?"

There was silence..........
"Amanda talk to me!"
"What happened?"

With tears.......
"Mom, why is God so bias?  Why? Why?"

"I still don't get you dear, whats going on?"

_*"Mom, I thought I was beautiful, until I met a lady today. Mom you need to see her--  you need to see this lady--she's perfectly beautiful!*_ _*I left the program 'cause I felt so intimidated by her beauty; I saw nothing good about me in her presence."*_

"Wow! Now I understand"
"Do you have your Bible with you?"
"Yes ma."
"Turn to Psalms139:13-18 (NLT) read it aloud."
***
"Hmm, thank you very much ma. I'll call you back ma."

Amanda went down on her knees and reread the passage carefully and meditatively_

_"You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my mother’s womb. Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex! Your workmanship is marvelous— how well I know it._

_"You watched me as I was being formed in utter seclusion, as I was woven together in the dark of the womb. You saw me before I was born._
_Every day of my life was recorded in your book. Every moment was laid out before a single day had passed._

_"How precious are your thoughts about me, O God. They cannot be numbered! I can’t even count them; they outnumber the grains of sand! And when I wake up, you are still with me!."_
...
Amanda with tears......
"Oh Lord, I'm so sorry, I'm sorry for ever comparing myself with someone, and forgetting all you've written concerning me. Please forgive me and restore me.
Help me to see myself as you do; help me to build my confidence in your Word. I am beautiful; I am wonderfully complete in YOU and I carry your presence. Thank you Lord! Amen.

*"You are fearfully and wonderfully made..You are made and handcrafted by God."*

Traditional Herbs

ls there any effect to Take traditional herbs whilst u are on medication 
 
Traditional herbs may contain several substances whose nature and concentration are unknown, unlike allopathic drugs whose chemical compositions and actions are known exactly. There could be unexpected interactions with the allopathic medication you are taking if you consume any other form of medication simultaneously. There could be increase or decrease in action of the allopathic medication, there could be prolonged action, either of the medicines may be removed too quickly from the body, or there could be other unknown interactions. It is preferable _to not_ take any medication without consulting your doctor. You _should always_ inform the doctor about any medication that you are taking so that interactions with any new drugs can be evaluated before prescription.

Cure for the worms that comes out of kids buttocks

 
Intestinal worms is a very common problem in some regions. These worms can cause malnutrition and slow the development of the child. Most worm infestations have simple cures. However, the type of drug given differs according to the kind of worm that is prevalent in your region. Age of the child is also important in deciding the type of drug prescribed. Many regions have national deworming programs where these drugs are available easily. I would advise you to consult a doctor for appropriate treatment.