WHAT DID YOU DO?

I was at home and we had some visitors, so I decided to go upstairs to my mother's room to pray and study since she was busy with cooking in the kitchen. As I laid on the bed, I saw on the platform where she keeps things, a small quantity of sugar wrapped in nylon but engrossed by some tiny ants. Immediately, I took the sugar and dropped it on the floor where the rays of light coming from the sun can penetrate it. Then, I continued my prayers.
Suddenly, I heard the voice of God saying to me, *'Son, what did you do to the sugar?'*
I replied, I exposed it to sunlight! Then, God spoke again, *why didn't you start killing the ants one by one?*

I said, because I will be wasting time and of course no matter the number of ants, when the sugar is exposed to light, they will all disappear.
Then, God said, *Son, expose your life to light of the word when the 'ants' of worry, lack, pains, trials come to you. Don't attack the problem, just expose your life to the word of God, and the problem will be solved (disappear)*
Brothers and Sisters, what are the 'ants' surrounding your 'sugar' right now? Is it lack, delay, joblessness, barrenness, dryness, failure, disappointment, all manner of sinful habits and the vicissitudes of life? Simply, expose your life to the 'light of the word'.
Have you read the temptation of Jesus? I mean did you study it? What did you see? For me, I saw the exact illustration above in that context. Jesus had exposed Himself to the light of the scriptures and the enemy was unable to have a free run.
Do you know what would have happened to that small quantity of sugar? Little by little, the ants would have sucked it up and left nothing there. That is exactly the enemies' agenda for you and me but we are able to stop them when we are exposed to light, not by 'killing' them

Quick Lesson for ladies

I just want to teach some of the ladies out there a quick lesson.
It is no longer news that a lot of ladies move in with men that are not legally their husbands.
The guy promises them marriage and invites them to come to live with him. For some, it was just introduction. Aunty introduction is not marriage as long as he as not either put an official ring on that finger or paid your complete bride price depending on your tradition.

So, Aunty, you move in and start performing wife duties. You wash plate, sweep the house, wash his clothes, sleep with him on the same bed, have sex with him, some get pregnant, some abort while some keep the baby. You automatically turn baby mama.
Funny enough, uncle is not even saying a word about coming to see your parents, some times you ask him baba what's up and he tells you to relax that soon he will do something about it that you should try to understand.
Wait first, if uncle can take care of you while cohabiting with him, please what is preventing him from paying your bride price since he can take care of you and himself.

Uncle is busy enjoying wife privileges without paying your bride price. Aunty you too, you are busy enjoying husband privileges without any price paid on your head.
Few years down the line you are wondering why the marriage promised years ago is still just a promise and not yet a reality.
Sister listens very carefully.
Let me let you in on a secret about guys, once a guy starts getting from you everything he should get from his wife, he becomes lazy towards marrying you. He will keep putting other needs ahead of you. To him, what's the point of marring you legally when he is getting everything that a husband gets from his wife.
Aunty wife trainee, you need to understand that the distance you give a man and his desire to always have you around him is the force that will push and motivate him to do everything necessary to make you his wife. As long as you are always available the desire to put in the necessary action to tire you down to himself forever is lost.
You know yourself. As you are still reading this, start packing your bags and everything that belongs to you in his house. It's time to either go back to your parent's house or look for a female friend to stay with. I know you have been thinking about this, so now is time do make up your mind. Don't allow any man brainwash you that you no longer have value for yourself and the principal guiding your life.
Some of you will claim hardship as an excuse, aunty wife in training, let's be honest, you are not the only one in a difficult position. Many people have found themselves in a worse situation but didn't even consider the option of moving into the house of a man that is not legally their husband no matter what was promised. So receive sense now. Don't be lazy.
Living with him is not a guarantee that the uncle will end up marrying you. So many have tried and ended up shocked as to how uncle moved on to marry another sister that values herself.
If you move out and he is not rushing to pay your bride price to bring you back, then my sister you have wasted your life on a man that never wanted you.

LADIES: FOUR WAYS TO BOND WITH YOUR HUSBAND DURING PREGNANCY

LADIES: FOUR WAYS TO BOND WITH YOUR HUSBAND DURING PREGNANCY
Pregnancy can affect our relationships in different ways. Pregnant women are advised to work on their relationships with their partners in order to make their love life stronger. There are different ways you can make your bond with your partner stronger while pregnant. Here are four ways to bond with your husband while you’re pregnant.

1. KEEP HIM IN THE LOOP: It is important to maintain a close relationship with your man while you're pregnant. Having regular discussions about the pregnancy and the baby's development will help him know what kind of support you require. You can create time to read different books or watch videos about pregnancy together. This will help you both in preparing for the baby.
2. LISTEN TO HIM: Always listen to your man. Allow him to talk about his feelings and tell you how the pregnancy has affected him. Also, let him know that you appreciate his support during this period and laud him for the little things he does for you to ensure you're comfortable.
3. LET HIM KNOW HE’S YOUR PILLAR OF STRENGTH: Always remind your man that he is the best and he means the world to you. Let him know that his support and care makes you stronger. A man will feel great when you appreciate the support he gives you while you are pregnant.
4. HAVE REALISTIC EXPECTATIONS: Do you have expectations? Make sure they are realistic. Do not expect too much from your man. Have expectations that your man will meet without straining

Extreme Faith

One man from Ayetoro Ekiti in Ido Osi Local Govt of Ekiti State in Nigeria and he does carpentry work. This man, every morning, passes in front of a Church on his way to work. One day he took a decision that he must go into the Church at the chapel to greet JESUS before going to his work. So each day he passes the Church he will go to the chapel and say "JESU mo ya ki o ni o " meaning "JESUS l ‘m here to greet you" he did this for many years and it became part of hm. One day he went to work as usual and fell down from the roof where he was working and had a spinal cord injury, he was taken to many hospitals and there was no remedy to his health and he became paralyzed. One day at the hospital where he was on his sick bed without hope, his wife left him alone in the room to bring something from the house. A man who dressed in white walked into the room and greeted him saying, " awe mi mo ya ki o " meaning my friend l have come to greet you. JESUS came to visit him since he couldn't come to visit Him as usual. And the sick man said Thank You, the visitor left and this man started to notice changes on his body, and to his greatest surprise, he got up and sat down on the bed still thinking if it was a dream when his wife came and saw him sitting down she thought it was a Ghost and raised alarm ran out from the room. The Doctor and Nurses rushed to the room thinking the sick man is dead, when the Doctor first entered and saw the man sitting comfortably, he also ran back, before he decided to ask him what happened and the healed man told him all that happened, the hospital was full of praises. He was visiting JESUS daily for many years but one singular visit by JESUS changed his hopelessness to joy!

INTIMATE THINGS TO DO BESIDES SEX

So, you want to get intimate with your honey. Guess it’s time to strip down and play with each other’s naughty bits. WRONG! Okay, so sex is intimate (at least great sex with someone you like is intimate), but believe it or not, there are other things to do that can build as strong of a connection with your partner. They make you feel even closer, and if you do them right, they’ll probably lead to even better sex. Don’t be scared of deeper intimacy than just doing the horizontal (or vertical, if you’re up for a change) tango. Try some of these today and see just how incredible they make you feel. 1. SPEND SOME TIME CUDDLING: Skip the sex and go straight to cuddling. Put on some background noise like a movie you’ve both seen a hundred times or some music. Just wrap yourselves up in each other and listen to the gentle rhythm of his heart beat and breathing. It’s sweet and more intimate than you might think. 2. TALK ABOUT WHAT’S REALLY IMPORTANT: You say you’re fine, he grunts that his day was good too. You might share some meaningless celebrity gossip and he’ll share how proud he was of some bodily gas he excreted earlier. That’s not enough. Have a deeper conversation. You don’t have to do it everyday, but talk about hopes, fears, dreams and even about the relationship itself. 3. OFFER TO HELP YOUR PARTNER WITH SOMETHING: Nothing is quite as sexy as a man that’s not afraid to help with the dishes or any other chores for that matter. Helping your partner with some random task gives you the two of you extra time together and shows you care. It’s amazing how close you feel when you wash and he dries. 4. PLAY TRUTH OR DARE: Add a bit of risk into the equation with some old school Truth or Dare. I know it might sound childish, but why should couples have to be mature 24/7? Sit down in the middle of the living room floor and have fun. You’ll be laughing and opening up in no time. If you play it right, one intimate thing might just lead into another. 5. TRY SOMETHING NEW TOGETHER: Trying something new together makes both of you more vulnerable. Neither one of you know what to expect. This means you share the entire experience for the first time together. It’s simple, but deeply intimate.

MISSED CALL

I met a lady on Facebook early last week and we chatted for about three days before we agreed that I should visit her first. We both live in Lagos and the distance from my place to her house is not that far. So on the early hours of that day I called her and she told me the bus stop where I will alight and that I should call her when I gets there to direct me on how to get to her house, so I left my house well dressed and walked into a restaurant and bought some good foods and drinks for her because she asked me to bring something for her when coming, but on getting to the said bus stop I put a call to her, but lo and behold, her phone was switched off. I called and called for over an hour yet it wasn't connecting and out of anger I went back to my house and still kept calling, but it never went through so I had to delete her number from my phone. Later that day at about 6pm a call came in and I picked and she began to beg giving all sorts of excuses why her phone was off and asked me to give her my address let her come over and spend the night in my house but I refused because I don't know her plans. Please should I still continue with her or find my way?