Wednesday, 1 September 2021

CLOSE YOUR MOUTH

CLOSE YOUR MOUTH
1. You are getting married and still on planning stage. *Close your mouth*
2. Do you want to travel out of the country? *Close your mouth*
3. You are going for interview, competition or exam. *Close your mouth*
4 Someone came to ask your hand in marriage. *Close your mouth*
5. You are planning for your children's future. *Close your mouth*
6. Your friends wants to know your secret as a couple. *Close your mouth*
7. Your friends wants to know what happens in your home. *Close your mouth*
8. Did you receive news of promotion at work? *Close your mouth*
9. You have a dream about a future project. *Close your mouth*
10. Your neighbors heard you quarrel with your husband or wife and they came calling to help settle the dispute. *Close your mouth*
11. Your child have exceptional gift or came top in his or her class. *Close your mouth*
12. Your husband abroad plans taking you all abroad soon. *Close your mouth*
13. No matter how small or big your salary may be, *close your mouth*
14. Your husband is building a house, so as to make you and the children comfortable. *Close your mouth*
15. Your wife has just been moved into theatre for save delivery. *Close your mouth*
16. You are fortunate to receive N100,000 monthly from your husband, for house-keep, as a wife. *Close your mouth*
17 Your female unmarried boss is showing you signs of going into a relationship with you (single); rather than spreading it around in your office, pray about it and *close your mouth*
18. Your husband is very active, when it has to do with the other side. *Close your mouth*, as it is not meant to be discussed out of your home and marriage.
19. A leaking mouth decided to share his or her personal life with you, or a colleague shared office secret with you; please help their condition by *closing your mouth*
20. Your boss financially appreciate your effort at work more, when compared to how he does to others; *please keep your mouth closed, for GOD sake*
21. She is a witch and the reason things are not going well with you. *Close your mouth and pray to GOD only, for her to change*, as your relatives that you want to report to were not there when you met her and started that lovely relationship.
22. As a mentor to some people, they come around to share their challenges in life with you. *Close your mouth*, and don't be a means of spreading people's challenges
23. A young and a new wife, all of a sudden is facing marital challenges and keeps running to you, as one that has 30 years experience in marriage for advice. Please help build that marriage and home, by *closing your mouth* about all she tells you.
24. lf you are not asked to speak over a certain issue and you know that it doesn't affect anyone negatively; my brother and sister, even if you witnessed it happen, *close your mouth* and walk away.

*SEX (3): FORNICATION AND RAPE*


*"Do you not see and know that your bodies are members (bodily parts) of Christ (the Messiah)? Am I therefore to take the parts of Christ and make [them] parts of a prostitute? Never! Never! Or do you not know and realize that when a man joins himself to a prostitute, he becomes one body with her? The two, it is written, shall become one flesh. [Gen. 2:24.] But the person who is united to the Lord becomes one spirit with Him. (1 Corinthians 6:15-17 AMPC)."*
When you have sex with a person, you lose a part of yourself to the person, and the person loses a part of himself to you. In other words, you lose a part of yourself to the person and receive a part of the person, both good and bad. This mutual transfer continues until the two of you become one.
This is why the Lord confines sex to marriage. It is the only legal place in the realm of the spirit for this transfer. You are to give all of yourself to your spouse, not some stranger.
Loss of your virginity is a loss of a part of yourself. You keep on losing a part of yourself with every man you have sex with, until there's nothing left of you. Your virginity can be lost through two primary ways, namely, fornication and rape.
Fornication means sexual intercourse by people who are not married while rape is the act of forcing sexual intercourse upon another person without their consent or against their will. Any sex act forced by any person upon another person is rape. Fornication is done willingly while rape is carried out on you against your will.
God is against both fornication and rape. He considers fornication a sin and rapists sinners. The more you engage in premarital sex or force people to have sex with you without their consent or against their will, the more exposed you are to the wrath of God. God Himself supervises the destruction of unrepentant fornicators and rapists.
*"Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? (1 Corinthians 6:18-19 KJV)."*
*"If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are. (1 Corinthians 3:17 KJV)."*
The way out of fornication is to *'Run from anything that stimulates...lusts.' (2 Timothy 2:22 NLT).* The Bible sets the scene for us: *'"You're the one I was looking for! I came out to find you, and here you are! My bed is spread with...coloured sheets of Egyptian linen...Come, let's drink our fill of love until morning. Let's enjoy each other's caresses, for my husband is not home. He's away on a long trip...and won't return until later this month"...and enticed him with her flattery. He followed her at once, like an ox going to the slaughter...like a stag caught in a trap, awaiting the arrow that would pierce its heart...like a bird flying into a snare, little knowing it would cost him his life' (Proverbs 7:15-23 NLT)*.
Solomon pleads: *'Listen to me, my sons (daughters)...pay attention to my words. Don't let your hearts stray away towards her (him). Don't wander down her (his) wayward path. For she (he) has been the ruin of many; many men (women) have been her (his) victims... Her bedroom is the den of death' (Proverbs 7:24-27 NLT)*. In other words: remove yourself from harm's way before you get in over your head! *QUIT PRE-MARITAL SEX! QUIT FORNICATION! QUIT RAPE!*
JESUS can restore you today if you repent and turn to Him for help. Kindly message me for more details.

FATHER'S ADVICE TO SON ONSEARCHING FOR A WIFE.


My son, I will be very raw and sincere with
you. Do not worry about the size of a woman
buttock or breast but worry about the size of
her heart and brain. Worry about the size of
her love and endurance. Because after 5 or 10
years, it will not be about the breast or
buttock. As you can see, your mum now has a
flat chest and almost flat buttock but we still
live together happily, I still love her and she
still love me.
Be careful of a woman that loves money. I
mean the woman that talks ‘every time’ about
her hair, clothes, shoes, bags panties and
make-ups. Marriage is not all about these
things. Without makeup, clothes, shoes and
panties a good marriage will still stand but
without love, no marriage can stand.
When I got married to your mum, I didn’t have
a car or house of my own. I was not even
educated, but I had dreams and she
appreciated and supported me. Any woman
that does not support your dream is not worth
thinking-a-minute about. There are women
that will see your dreams better than you, you
are lucky if you find one.
My son, open your ears very well, there is a
kind of woman you should avoid, do not make
a mistake to marry this kind of woman or you
will regret it. I mean a woman that always has
bad things to say about everyone. If you see
this kind of woman, run away. One of the
worst kind of woman you can marry is the one
that complains about everything. If you buy
this, she says you should have bought that, if
you do this, she said you should have done
that. Please stay away! Most women enjoy
talking but the one who talks for two hours
and listen for two minutes is a potential
‘bomb’. Be wise
Be very careful of a pretending partner. A
pretending woman is not hard to know. She
will always know everything about everything,
she will be careful. Just close your eyes and
open your heart and you will see! No woman
is perfect. If you see a woman who believes in
your dream, who respects you, who is
committed, and who is not all about herself
alone then don’t let her go.
But remember, you must not be a wayward
man. I have trained you!
If you find a good woman but you are a bad
man, you won't have a good marriage!
I won’t pick a wife for you but I have given
you my advice. When you find her, bring her
for my blessings.
May you find a woman that will increase you
not decrease you.

Saturday, 28 August 2021

WHO IS A WOMAN??


Having vagina, boobs, and hips doesn't make you a woman.
A woman is the one who feeds a man with encouragement and ideas
A woman is the one who helps a man to save and invest wisely .
A woman does not run her mouth with sarcasm and insult just to prove a point, rather her words are gracious and can heal a broken heart .
A woman is the one that knows when to talk and to keep Quiet.
A woman is the one that doesn't leak secret.
A woman is the one that is content with what she has, and not the one that sells her self for material things.
A woman is a manager, a caretaker,a womb that can nature and birth destinies .
A woman doesn't do trending things, but she is reserved and has a taste of a Queen.
A woman doesn't look down on any man because of his present state of life and financial status, rather she encourages any man to get better.
A woman is the one that does not just bears babies, but bear ideas and inspiration anytime, anywhere.
A woman is the one a man can cry on her shoulders and not feel humiliated for doing so nor lose his value .
A woman is not the one that deceive a man just to eat his money, but the one who is honest and sincere in any relationship.
.A woman. Is not the one that makes men feel terrible, but the one a man can run to for comfort.
A woman is the one that will spoil a man with honour and respect because there lies her strength and integrity .
A woman is an influence, a nation and a helper.
Many are females but only few can be called a woman.
Now, let us ask ourself today this question:
Am I a woman.
God bless us all in Jesus name 

STOP TAKING YOUR DADS WIFE FROM HIM


Johnson moved to US with his wife after he won American visa lottery in 2009. Things turned around for him as he secured a well paid job in Tennessee while his wife also got a good job as a Nurse.
4 years later, God blessed them with a baby and they quickly arranged a visa for Johnson's mother to come to America for babysitting. The baby is 8yrs old now and the babysitter is not yet back to her husband.
Johnson's father was forced by circumstances to marry a 32yr old lady after waiting endlessly for her wife to return from US. The poor man became a polygamist, ready to rear another set of children from his new wife in his 60's.
The man said and I quote "sending my wife to US for babysitting is a grave mistake I will never forget; the decision took a downturn on my life. I will never forgive Johnson for taking my wife from me while he enjoy his"
There are countless dad suffering like Johnson's father; all in the name of traveling for babysitting, fathers becomes bachelors who now eat outside or forced to marry or date another woman. Some of them sleeps around just because the absence of their wife set a big vacuum and emptiness into their lives.
Before you invite your mother for babysitting, think about her husband. It is a sin against God and mankind if u separate what God had joined together.
Remember your mum was your dad's wife before u were born, she was all your dad had before u. U should be a home builder and not a destroyer. Remember that one day, it shall be your turn to step into that grandpa shoes; what goes around will then come around.
Stop taking another man's wife all in the name of babysitting, as soon as your wife is strong enough to take care of the baby, return your mum back to her husband. You can't deprive your dad of the pleasure of togetherness while u enjoy yours, life doesn't go like that.
This piece sound trivial and unpopular but believe me, it is one of the leading pain grandpas go through.

HEALTH BENEFITS OF SLEEPING WITHOUT LIGHT.


1) The body is able to produce a hormone (Melatonin) which fights diseases in the body while asleep at night in the dark only.
2) While asleep in the dark, the brain cells are able to rejuvenate back to their original state ( cells which were damaged due to excessive sunlight and electricity) and function properly.
3) A study shows that Intelligent people all over the world do not sleep at night with lights on. *Take note*
4) Sleeping in the dark or without light at night, helps the body to fight Insomnia (check the meaning)
5) Melatonin decreases in the day time due to the presence of sun light. Hence you should not allow light at night when the body is ready to produce it again.
6) Melatonin tells us its time to sleep. Lack of it causes sleeplessness.
7) Sleeping without light at night, makes an individual look fresh, lives longer and looks younger all the times. (Healthy).
Learn to sleep at night without light for your good. Nothing bad happens to those who practice it. Don't be scared.
*Please dont keep this to yourself* Share!!! Health is Wealth, Someone need to read this!