Johnson moved to US with his wife after he won American visa lottery in 2009. Things turned around for him as he secured a well paid job in Tennessee while his wife also got a good job as a Nurse.
4 years later, God blessed them with a baby and they quickly arranged a visa for Johnson's mother to come to America for babysitting. The baby is 8yrs old now and the babysitter is not yet back to her husband.
Johnson's father was forced by circumstances to marry a 32yr old lady after waiting endlessly for her wife to return from US. The poor man became a polygamist, ready to rear another set of children from his new wife in his 60's.
The man said and I quote "sending my wife to US for babysitting is a grave mistake I will never forget; the decision took a downturn on my life. I will never forgive Johnson for taking my wife from me while he enjoy his"
There are countless dad suffering like Johnson's father; all in the name of traveling for babysitting, fathers becomes bachelors who now eat outside or forced to marry or date another woman. Some of them sleeps around just because the absence of their wife set a big vacuum and emptiness into their lives.
Before you invite your mother for babysitting, think about her husband. It is a sin against God and mankind if u separate what God had joined together.
Remember your mum was your dad's wife before u were born, she was all your dad had before u. U should be a home builder and not a destroyer. Remember that one day, it shall be your turn to step into that grandpa shoes; what goes around will then come around.
Stop taking another man's wife all in the name of babysitting, as soon as your wife is strong enough to take care of the baby, return your mum back to her husband. You can't deprive your dad of the pleasure of togetherness while u enjoy yours, life doesn't go like that.
This piece sound trivial and unpopular but believe me, it is one of the leading pain grandpas go through.
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