Guys comes up with all sorts of stories these days about marriage when truely they want to do damage.
As a lady you should be smart to read between the lines and see the the vivid signs.
But it all lies in your hands to act and take the needed decision.
It is not about dragging the horse to the water, it's whether the horse really wants to drink.
*These sure signs will help you detect the time waster from afar*
1#. HE SAYS IT.
If your guy asks you how you want your dream wedding to be, your preferred wedding colours, ring size or likes to raise some important aspect of the wedding, he is particular about them, he's definitely planning to settle down with you.
2#. HE PLANS WITH YOU IN MIND.
Men naturally are wired to know the details and intrcacies of every project they want to get involved in.
Yes! Project.
A wedding is like a project to a man, and factors such as accommodation, career development, finances etc are considered.
The interesting thing about this is that to plan all these with you in mind.
He is genuinely concerned about how these details will affect your life.
3#. HE DELIGHTS IN YOUR HAPPINESS.
If a guy goes out of his way consistently and genuinely to do tasks or go on events he normally would not go to, just to make you happy, he is definitely gearing to pop the marriage question.
4#. HE HELPS YOU BECOME BETTER.
A guy who is really to get married to a lady genuinely wants her to make progress.
Guys wants their woman to represent them in a good way, so they want to help their woman become better.
5#.HE ENTRUSTS YOU WITH HIS LIFE.
Hey! Ladies, this is not to say if your gut is not telling you things, he is not ready to get married.
One thing you have to understand is that, trust is earned.
A guy who wants to get married to you will eventually be open to you when he finds out you are genuinely concerned about his welfare.
We call it 'wife material' he opens his inner thoughts, fears and deep feelings.
#6. FAMILY LINK.
If your guy wants you to meet his family, be around him at family events, meet his siblings and people he loves, he really wants to settle down with you.
He has seen you as a member of his family.
7#.HE WANTS YOU.
He's not ashamed to tell you how much you mean to him.
He is always telling you how special you are to him.
8#. KIDS.
When your guy jokingly asks about the names of your kids, or the number of kids you want to have, he is actually considering the motherly side of the woman he wants to spend his life with.
You have to understand that it takes commitment to raise kids, and for a guy to talk or joke about them often, he really means to spend his life with you.
*You Are A Fountain Of Goodwill, You Will Not Run Dry In Every Aspect Of Your Lives*
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