*"Keep your heart with all diligence, For out of it spring the issues of life. (Proverbs 4:23 NKJV)."*
Sex was not only designed by God for reproduction, it was also designed by God for pleasure. The pleasure that can be derived from sex is astonishing. God designed it this way. However, the pleasure of sex should only be derived from sex with your spouse.
The urge for sex is very high in adolescents. The reason is that at the stage of adolescence, the reproductive organs in a boy or girl develop rapidly. The tendency to want to engage in sexual intercourse is very high at this stage, but a high level of self-control must be exerted to overcome the frequent sexual urges otherwise, sexual sin will occur.
Every act of sex is highly dependent on one word called "pornography". Pornography is any display of material such as a video, photo, audio or a book that can arouse sexual desire or excitement. Many times, pornography opens the gateway to masturbation, fornication, lesbianism, gayism, rape, adultery etc. The aim of pornography is to wet your sexual appetite to the point of desiring to have sex at all cost. Pornagraphy can sexually arouse anyone including children and adolescents.
When a man wants to sexually assault a child, the first thing he does most times is to expose the child to a pornographic material (a pornographic video, picture or book). The child becomes sexually aroused by it, then the man or woman begins to sexually abuse the child. This is a frequent characteristic of men with uncontrolled sexual appetite. They introduce you to pornographic materials to sexually arouse you so that they can easily penetrate you.
It's wrong for a lady to display nude photos of herself online. She's only increasing the urge for sex in men and inviting them to sleep with her. If you're interested in breaking free from the grip of masturbation and fornication, *novels with high romance and sex contents should be discarded, movies and videos with sex contents should be deleted and discarded, pornographic photos should be deleted and indecent dressing should be avoided.*
You can't keep deriving pleasure from watching people kiss and have sex, and not want to engage in it. It's practically impossible. The more your eyes are engaged in viewing pornography, the more likely you are to masturbate or fornicate. As you keep exposing your mind to pornography, the thoughts of sex increases rapidly and the urge to physically engage in sex increases too.
*Sexual urge is a sign that you are healthy but engaging in sex before marriage is a sin. Uncontrolled sexual urge is a product of pornography. You can overcome the urge for sex by the power of the Holy Spirit but first of all make a choice not to engage in sexual intercourse until you're married. Secondly, get rid of all pornographic materials. Further instructions will be stated during the series. Please obey.*
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