As a guy,
When you are not married to a lady it's not your responsibility to take care of her bills. You don't owe her that.
You do it though, you pay the bills, gift her because you love her, and care about her wellbeing.
Your actions are meant to come from a place of love and not responsibility during the dating season.
So because you love her you won't want her to lack. It is not your responsibility it is just out of love.
Who's responsibility is she?
It's her father's responsibility and hers to taker care of herself. Her father should pay her bills and ensure her daughter is doing well.
She also needs to grow up at some point and reduce the burden on her parents.
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But the moment you get married to her everything shifts from the place of love to responsibility.
In marriage, you now do it out of love and responsibility because her father has given her to you to take care of her. She is now born of your born. She is now your full responsibility. You got to pay the bills bro.
As a lady,
On the flip side, it is irresponsibility on your part to want a man to take care of everything about her. Married or not. It's a sign of selfishness and laziness.
A mature lady should be able to take full care of herself. Everything else a man brings should just be an addition.
Value yourself.
Don't become a liability.
Who knows, that could be why people keep leaving you.
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