Wednesday, 11 August 2021

Marriage based on pity

By Evang OkeChi
Marriages based on pity won't succeed.
It's hard to believe that someone would actually marry a person out of pity, unless someone paid him or held a gun to his head, how would you force him to marry you.
Marrying someone out of pity will never make your life as good as you would wish it to be.
It can be a huge challenge when you eventually meet someone you honestly feel love for, you care about and want to be with.
Only geniune love sustains a marriage.
Pity has nothing to do with a healthy marriage.
What is paramount in all this is "mutual happiness and love".
Most people marry for many reasons, pity being one of them.
Some even marry because they are bored.
Some because their soothsayer have told them that they've had 'visions' of their husbands, others marry because their mothers put too much pressure on them, while for others, they marry for status and security.
In short, we ALL have our reasons for marrying whom we marry.
Nobody owes the world an explanation as to why they married anyone.
You are responsible for any decision taken.
Prayer is powerful.
It can go where you cannot.
It reaches inside your spouse head and heart.
Tell God to teach him/her spiritual discipline
U will not fail in marriage in Jesus name

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