WHY SHOULD A MAN GO FOR A SECOND WIFE WHEN THE FIRST WIFE IS STILL ALIVE, HEALTHY?
Second marriages are tricky business, the baggage can be major and multilayered
It's cimplicated and sometimes frustrating.
I am totally against polygamy, i don't know about you.
Some men who have two wives said that, their first wife pushed them into marrying a second wife.
They said, their first wife had no care for their home.
Based on Religion (doctrines/teachings) like the Muslim Counterpart, all i advice is that, a man who has chosen to have a second wife must take care of them.
He must not favour one wife and neglect the other.
He also must not show that he loves one more than the other.
If he begin to show that he prefers one to the other, he has sown a wrong seed in the mind of his wives.
They wives may begin to hate themselves.
Overtime, i have come to realise the one reason men take a second wife.
It is because they are bored with their first wife, (boredom)
Any woman who wants to stop her husband from taking a second wife should do so in a calm, smart way.
If a man's decision to marry a second wife is not based on his religion, his wife can convince him not to take a second wife.
However, wives should wake up to their roles as mothers.
It is possible for a woman to convince her husband not to marry a second wife.
The affected woman should begin to pay attention to her dressing, cooking and other things that would make her husband happy in his home.
It is so easy for a woman to win her husband's heart if she knows the right button to press.
*Almost all men wants to be loved and cared for*
A woman must not be a grandmother to her husband.
She should be his wife and dress like his wife.
She should constantly do things that make the husband happy.
God Bless You.
Your Happiness Is Most Paramount.
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