MARRIAGE, NOT YOUR FINAL DESTINATION.

I saw you when you were crying to God to give you what He gave to Kathryn Kulman or He should kill you...

I was there when you used to shout "GIVE ME FIRE OR I DIE"

I was there when you used to fast for days without food and water...

You were so serious with Prayer meetings...

The money you were supposed to use and buy clothes and make your hair, like your mates, you used it to buy books on how to grow in Christ and manifest God to your generation...

BUT THE MOMENT YOU said "I DO", the story CHANGED...

Right now, all we can see is your beautiful pictures with your husband...

All we can hear from you are testimonies of holidays in Paris and Dubai...

Your GENERATION said I should ask you if this is all we are going to see from you?...

The people awaiting your manifestation said I should ask you, IF THIS IS THE BEST YOU CAN BE?

Does it mean we will never again see that Kathryn Kulman the Holyghost was incubating inside you for our generation?

We cannot believe that small handcuff called wedding ring will become your FINAL Destination?...

Sister, Are you saying that all you were praying and fasting for, was for you to get married?

We have seen your beautiful children...

We have seen your family pictures...

We have seen your wedding anniversaries...

We have heard church members calling you our church maama..

But IS THAT ALL YOU ARE MADE FOR?

But when are we going to see you with the Holyghost again?

Does it mean that you will no more do that which you prayed and fasted for?

Chaiiii.....It was not so from the beginning

I am praying for those ladies who have been crying day and night for God to give them the little portion of what He gave to Kathryn Kulman...

May you not get that anointing and marriage will take it away from you...

May we not look for you when we need that prophetic, healing and Revival grace God gave you and we will see you on Facebook celebrating only birthdays, new houses,new shoes, and wedding anniversaries...

May we not look for you in your choir seat and you are no more because of marriage..

Marriage will not be your last destination...

This generation must eat out of all that God has deposited in you...OK

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MARRY YOUR BEST FRIEND

One sure sign your relationship is sick is having nothing to talk about whenever you are with your partner. If you must always have sex to feel close to your partner, you need to end the relationship fast and get your bearing!

Marriage is more than sex! A successful marriage is about friendship. You are not going to spend the rest of your life rolling in sheets unless you have very serious spiritual problems.

Successful people have more to think about than concocting sexual images and looking for who to dump their passion on! You marry to fulfil destiny and your partner is to help you attain your highest dream. Most people are pathetic failures because they have nothing else in their head except grope, masturbate and roll in the dark!

Marry your best friend! Someone who believes in you and is ready to do all in their capacity to help you be all you wanna be. Marry someone who believes in you. Marry someone you enjoy talking to. Marry someone you can freely be yourself around. Marry someone who needs you, values you, respects you and adores you. Marry someone who sees beyond sex anytime you are together.

Marry someone you can reveal your fears, weaknesses, flaws and pains to without feeling awkward or ashamed -marry your best friend. If you cannot feel close unless you have sex, you have prepared yourself for divorce! You sooner or later discover in marriage that your sex life has gone stale and you need real intimacy -the communication, the acceptance, the sharing of your deepest feelings, dreams and goals to really feel loved and cherished. Premarital sex kills your chance of having a great marriage.

I’m married to the greatest husband in the world. My husband is the deepest, most intimate friend I have. We talk about everything under heaven and understand each other so much. Someone once asked him whether his wife goes out he said NO. Goes out as in visit friends and all the likes, he shook his head. Whenever I’m through with the day’s business, I spend my time in the company of my best friend, my husband. She further queried out of surprise, “doesn’t she get bored?” He smiled heartily and still said NO. When he related the conversation with me, I laughed.

Bored? 24 hours is not enough! We talk so much we pray for more hours to fill the day! Life with hubby is so exciting! Waking up and seeing him makes me come alive, full of confidence, happiness, peace and the readiness to tackle the day’s challenge!

When people find it difficult communicating their deepest feelings to their spouse, it sounds abnormal to me. I’m not used to that. I don’t know how to hide anything from my husband and same for him. We are always, emotionally, spiritually, mentally, psychologically, physically and financially naked and not ashamed.

Prepare for a life time of bliss with your spouse. Marry your best friend, it makes marriage so exciting, blissful, peaceful, rapturous and sweet. You will not miss it in marriage in Jesus name. God bless you. Cheers!

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ANGER MANAGEMENT IN MARRIAGE

When you or your spouse are angry, learn to keep quiet or walk away. Refrain from talking lest you say something hard to take back.

*Even as you walk away, keep the communication open. Don't turn off your phone or run away with no way to reach you.

*Never hurt your spouse because you feel hurt by your spouse. Revenge leads to more mess, hurt and deterioration. Be the bigger and wiser person.

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Never run faster than your husband, he's your head.

*Husband:* Honey I will buy a new mattress on my way home. The one we are using is no longer comfortable.

*Wife:* That's my Love ! But wait o, where will you get the money?

*Husband:* I heard that Mr. B will pay our arrears today.

*Wife:* I always know that man will perform. Please Darling, don't forget the wristwatch you promised me o.

*Husband:* With all pleasure My Love.

5 hours later, the man arrived home in his car. Pin... Pin... Pin he blared his horn. The woman ran out to meet her husband.

*Wife:* Honey welcome (collecting her husband's briefcase, leading him into their sitting room).

*Husband:* You are always wonderful.

*Wife:* Where is the mattress and my wristwatch?

*Husband:* Which mattress? Abeg gimme my food. I never see alert o, the thing na rumour o.

The woman broke down weeping profusely.

*Wife:* Honey please forgive me......huuu huuu .

*Husband:* (loosing his patience) Dear what's all these now, what happened?

*Wife:* Honey please forgive me oooooo..... I I I I...

*Husband:* (perceiving some odour, and looking out of the window). What's smelling like this, where is this smoke coming from?

*Wife:* (still weeping) Huuu, I have burnt our mattress, I thought you would buy a new one truly, you know it is no longer good.

*Husband:* (furious, with a changed countenance). What ! You did what? You must be joking.. You will go back to your father's house today if this is true. You burnt the #500,000 my contribution money I hid in the mattress for us to roof our house.

*Wife:* Yepa ! You mean you have such huge amount in this house and you didn't tell me?

*Husband:* If I get you today, I will show you who I am. (With this, he ran to the backyard where the smoke was coming from. Seeing the ashes of the burnt mattress, he fainted.

*Lesson 1:* Never hide anything from your wife, she's your better-half.

*Lesson 3:* Don't rely on arrears or unpaid income to plan your home.

*Please forward to all married men and women on your list.*

And to those who plan to *Marry* in future

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WILL MARRIAGE SOLVE ALL YOUR PROBLEMS

God created love and has placed the desire to be loved unconditionally in each of our hearts . Marriage is a natural overflow of that desire. Yet within this scared and natural pursuit of marriage. It's easy to fall into the lie that finding a spouse will be the ultimate road to happiness and great satisfaction. That all problems , fears , and deficit will fade away in the presence of true love . it's isn't true in the world of marriage.

No perfect marriage , relying on your partner to fulfill your insatiable needs is a recipe for disaster because no human being has the capacity to offer you what is needed for true value and self worth.

*Don't marry for the following reasons or you will blame yourself.*

✓ Don't marry because for sex you won't be satisfied, if you have high sexual it's better to go for therapy than to think Marriage is the solution.

✓ Don't marry because everyone is getting married, marry because you have found someone destined by God

✓ Don't marry because you want to exploit your partner financially. You will end up becoming a slave in marriage, men who run after wealthy women end up as slaves, their expectations are never met and they blame themselves

✓ Don't marry because your family members are pushing you to marry . Don't let anyone push you into wrong marriage

✓ Don't marry because you think you should get married or you watched a movie scene and you are inspired with the romantic affairs and you want to feel it as well. You will be disappointed because 70% of nigerian men are not romantic and won't tend to your feelings .

✓ Don't marry because you love someone and you have to confirm whether he loves you back . It's possible to get married to someone who doesn't love you.

✓ Don't marry if you are financially bouyant or your income is not enough to care for yourself, don't let any lady push you into marriage as a result of desperation. At the end of the day , she will blame you for everything. Think twice

✓ Don't marry because of beauty or handsome, Beauty will fade , you will dislike your partner if he or she looses beauty or good appearance. So many men are running after good looking women , they marry because of beauty and later cheat in marriage, beauty fades as we get older.

✓ Don't marry out of ignorance, if you don't know your partner too well. So many things you will find out in marriage and will be difficult for you to bear ... Find out more about him or her , so you don't make serious mistakes

✓ Don't Marry out of pity , don't marry anyone you feel pity for . The marriage won't last .

✓ Don't marry because you sees your partner as an opportunity to cling on to( eg. You come across a beautiful lady , and you got enticed and then decided to rush marriage without understanding her motive . You will blame yourself

There are many ways to avoid troubles in marriage

*Marry because*

✓ Marry because you are in love and you are convinced

✓ Marry because you have prayed and God has blessed your Union

✓ Marry because you are financially, emotionally, physically ready for marriage

The heart breaking thing in life is placing your happiness in hands of human beings.

Marriage doesn't guarantee happiness, there will ups and downs, dissappointment, conflicts and so on .... Human being can never make you happy. Only God can .

Seek Gods face while making choice of partner.

Thanks for reading

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I WILL MARRY YOU

I WILL MARRY U!!

Sister i will marry you is not marriage, give me your mummy's number is not marriage. I just spoke with everyone in your family even your ancestor is not marriage.

I sent some stuff to your parents is still not marriage. Haven't you seen my people? Is still not marriage.

My mum is fond of you, is not marriage, i love the way you cook, you will make a good wife, is still not marriage.

My parent and siblings can't stop talking about you, my dear that is still not marriage. I have engaged you, so you have nothing to worry about, that is not marriage.

Until he comes and pays your bride price, i repeat until he comes and pays your bride price and I repeat again until he come and pay your bride price, perfect the wedding plans and take you home, that is when you are assured to be his wife, I repeat that is when you are assured to be his wife.

Till then, you leave your heart opened, be wise in all you do and remember not to engrossed in wifey shit for who is not worth it.

Don't place your mind on anybody who is not yet married to you and stop bragging that he's yours yet. Also having keys to his apartment is not marriage.

Don't let them deceive u into their temporary lust.!!!!Be wise!!!

Good afternoon .

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