NOTES FOR THE SINGLES AND MARRIED

SINGLE AND MARRIED LADIES IN THE HOUSE....

KNOW THIS

1. A first class degree won't make you a first

class wife rather your submission and respect

will.

2. The woman who respects her husband is the

best wife anyone would ever have.

3. Your character and attitude will go a long way

in determining if your husband will wish he never

Regret getting married to you..

4. To be a great wife, you need more anger

management skills than nagging skills.

5. Be a leader at work, or anywhere else but be a

companion at home.. It's wisdom!

6. Don't compete with your husband; compliment

him.

7. Your strength is in humility and submission,

not in strife and contention.

8. Be tender, every man respects a tender

woman but firm.

9. Never try to punish your husband by starving

him of food or Sex, he maybe forced to get it

outside.

10. There is nothing wrong in accepting that you

are wrong when you are wrong.

11. Prepare to forgive your husband if he wrongs

you.. For a forgiving wife is better than a

vengeful one.

12. Make a decision to be a good wife, you will

need it in the long run..

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Never give anyone else the responsibility to control your happiness.

What every wife needs to read, understand and live in her marriage if she wants to build her home.

During a class at Fresno Pacific University, a speaker asked one of the spouses in the audience:

"Does your husband make you happy?"

At this moment, the husband stood up straighter, showing complete confidence. He knew his wife would say yes, because she had never complained about anything during their marriage.

However, his wife answered the question with a resounding "No."

"No, my husband does not make me happy."

The husband was baffled, but his wife continued:

"My husband never made me happy and does not make me happy. I am happy."

"Whether I am happy or not is not dependent on him, but on me. I am the only person on whom my happiness depends.

I choose to be happy in every situation and every moment of my life, for if my happiness depended on another person, thing or circumstance on the face of the Earth, I would be in serious trouble.

Everything that exists in this life constantly changes: the human being, the riches, my body, the climate, my boss, the pleasures, the friends, and my physical and mental health. I could quote an endless list.

I need to decide to be happy regardless of anything else that happens. Whether I own a lot or a little, I am happy! Whether I'm going out or staying home alone, ​​I'm happy! Whether I am rich or poor, I am happy!

I am married but I was already happy when I was single.

I'm happy for myself.

Other things, people, moments or situations are experiences that might cause joy or sadness. When someone I love dies, I am a happy person in an inevitable moment of sadness.

I learn from past experiences and I live those that are eternal like loving, forgiving, helping, understanding, accepting and consoling.

There are people who say: Today I cannot be happy because I am sick, because I have no money, because it is very hot, because it is very cold, because someone insulted me, because someone stopped loving me, because I don't know how to love myself, because my husband changed, because my children do not make me happy, because my friends do not make me happy, because my job is mediocre and so on.

I love my life not because my life is easier than anyone else's, but because I have decided to be happy as an individual. I am responsible for my happiness.

When I take this obligation from my husband and anyone else, I free them from the burden of carrying me on their shoulders. It makes everyone's life much lighter.

And that's how I've had a successful marriage for so many years."

Never give anyone else the responsibility to control your happiness. Be happy, even if it's hot, even if you're sick, even if you do not have money, even if someone has hurt you, even if someone does not love you and even if you do not value yourself.

THINGS YOU MUST NOT DO AS A PASTOR'S WIFE

MANY SEEKING TO BE A PASTOR'S WIFE

- Being a pastor's wife is not easy, you don't just marry pastor because you want to be addressed as mummy, first lady, or spiritual mother. Marrying a pastor is a calling with brutal responsibilities. All eyes are on you, people want you to fail, some want to take your place, even when you are right they will condemn you. You are always afraid of losing your husband to the church especially NOWADAYS that ladies are fighting to be pastor's favorites. To avoid all these, mummy follow my advice below!

1. DON'T BORROW MONEY FROM YOUR CHURCH MEMBERS

2. DON'T GOSSIP YOUR MEMBERS OR WITH YOUR MEMBERS

3. DON'T DISCUSS YOUR HUSBAND'S SECRETS WITH MEMBERS

4. DON'T BE EXTRAVAGANT IN SPENDING

5. DON'T BE JEALOUS WHEN LADIES COMES AROUND YOUR HUSBAND

6. DON'T BE A DIRTY MOTHER IN THE LORD

7. DON'T COMMAND RESPECT, BECAUSE IT'S EARNED

8. DON'T ATTACK OR RAISE YOUR VOICE AT YOUR HUSBAND PUBLICLY

9. DON'T SPEND CHURCH MONEY WITHOUT ASKING QUESTIONS

10. DON'T QUARREL OR FIGHT WITH CHURCH MEMBERS

11. DON'T HAVE FAVORITES IN YOUR CHURCH, EVEN IF YOU DO, PLEASE DON'T SHOW IT

12. DON'T ALLOW TRIBALISM AROUND YOU, BECAUSE IT WILL KILL YOUR HUSBAND'S MINISTRY

13. DON'T LET LADIES DO YOUR DOMESTIC JOB, EXCEPT YOU ARE TIRED OF MARRIAGE

14. DON'T BE TOO CLOSE TO BROTHERS IN YOUR CHURCH, ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN MUMMY.

15. YOUR HUSBAND'S FRIENDS SHOULD NOT BE YOUR CLOSE FRIENDS, BECAUSE THEY MAY USE YOU AGAINST YOUR HUSBAND

16. PRAY FOR YOUR HUSBAND MORE THAN YOU GOSSIP HIM

17. LOOK FOR SOMETHING TO DO MUMMY, BECAUSE TITHE AND OFFERING IS NOT FOR SHAWARMA AND ICE CREAM

18. DEFEND YOUR HUSBAND NO MATTER THE SCANDAL, MISTAKES AND WEAKNESS BUT REBUKE HIM AT HOME

19. PACKAGE YOUR HUSBAND, OR DO YOU LIKE THE WAY YOUR HUSBAND DRESSES LIKE AREA BOYS? HELP HIM TO LOOK LIKE A SPIRITUAL LEADER AND NOT A YAHOO BOY

20. DEVELOP YOURSELF, A PASTOR'S WIFE MUST LEARN HOW TO LEAD PRAYER, PREACH/TEACH, SEE SMALL VISIONS, LEAD SERVICE, BLESS THE OFFERING AND TITHES, BECAUSE MEMBERS ARE WATCHING YOU MUMMY.

These are few tips for pastor's wives, Please accept it as my contribution to the body of christ and not a criticism, because to be a pastor's wife is not easy.

GOD BLESS ALL PASTOR'S WIVES IN JESUS NAME.

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MARRIAGE, NOT YOUR FINAL DESTINATION.

I saw you when you were crying to God to give you what He gave to Kathryn Kulman or He should kill you...

I was there when you used to shout "GIVE ME FIRE OR I DIE"

I was there when you used to fast for days without food and water...

You were so serious with Prayer meetings...

The money you were supposed to use and buy clothes and make your hair, like your mates, you used it to buy books on how to grow in Christ and manifest God to your generation...

BUT THE MOMENT YOU said "I DO", the story CHANGED...

Right now, all we can see is your beautiful pictures with your husband...

All we can hear from you are testimonies of holidays in Paris and Dubai...

Your GENERATION said I should ask you if this is all we are going to see from you?...

The people awaiting your manifestation said I should ask you, IF THIS IS THE BEST YOU CAN BE?

Does it mean we will never again see that Kathryn Kulman the Holyghost was incubating inside you for our generation?

We cannot believe that small handcuff called wedding ring will become your FINAL Destination?...

Sister, Are you saying that all you were praying and fasting for, was for you to get married?

We have seen your beautiful children...

We have seen your family pictures...

We have seen your wedding anniversaries...

We have heard church members calling you our church maama..

But IS THAT ALL YOU ARE MADE FOR?

But when are we going to see you with the Holyghost again?

Does it mean that you will no more do that which you prayed and fasted for?

Chaiiii.....It was not so from the beginning

I am praying for those ladies who have been crying day and night for God to give them the little portion of what He gave to Kathryn Kulman...

May you not get that anointing and marriage will take it away from you...

May we not look for you when we need that prophetic, healing and Revival grace God gave you and we will see you on Facebook celebrating only birthdays, new houses,new shoes, and wedding anniversaries...

May we not look for you in your choir seat and you are no more because of marriage..

Marriage will not be your last destination...

This generation must eat out of all that God has deposited in you...OK

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MARRY YOUR BEST FRIEND

One sure sign your relationship is sick is having nothing to talk about whenever you are with your partner. If you must always have sex to feel close to your partner, you need to end the relationship fast and get your bearing!

Marriage is more than sex! A successful marriage is about friendship. You are not going to spend the rest of your life rolling in sheets unless you have very serious spiritual problems.

Successful people have more to think about than concocting sexual images and looking for who to dump their passion on! You marry to fulfil destiny and your partner is to help you attain your highest dream. Most people are pathetic failures because they have nothing else in their head except grope, masturbate and roll in the dark!

Marry your best friend! Someone who believes in you and is ready to do all in their capacity to help you be all you wanna be. Marry someone who believes in you. Marry someone you enjoy talking to. Marry someone you can freely be yourself around. Marry someone who needs you, values you, respects you and adores you. Marry someone who sees beyond sex anytime you are together.

Marry someone you can reveal your fears, weaknesses, flaws and pains to without feeling awkward or ashamed -marry your best friend. If you cannot feel close unless you have sex, you have prepared yourself for divorce! You sooner or later discover in marriage that your sex life has gone stale and you need real intimacy -the communication, the acceptance, the sharing of your deepest feelings, dreams and goals to really feel loved and cherished. Premarital sex kills your chance of having a great marriage.

I’m married to the greatest husband in the world. My husband is the deepest, most intimate friend I have. We talk about everything under heaven and understand each other so much. Someone once asked him whether his wife goes out he said NO. Goes out as in visit friends and all the likes, he shook his head. Whenever I’m through with the day’s business, I spend my time in the company of my best friend, my husband. She further queried out of surprise, “doesn’t she get bored?” He smiled heartily and still said NO. When he related the conversation with me, I laughed.

Bored? 24 hours is not enough! We talk so much we pray for more hours to fill the day! Life with hubby is so exciting! Waking up and seeing him makes me come alive, full of confidence, happiness, peace and the readiness to tackle the day’s challenge!

When people find it difficult communicating their deepest feelings to their spouse, it sounds abnormal to me. I’m not used to that. I don’t know how to hide anything from my husband and same for him. We are always, emotionally, spiritually, mentally, psychologically, physically and financially naked and not ashamed.

Prepare for a life time of bliss with your spouse. Marry your best friend, it makes marriage so exciting, blissful, peaceful, rapturous and sweet. You will not miss it in marriage in Jesus name. God bless you. Cheers!

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ANGER MANAGEMENT IN MARRIAGE

When you or your spouse are angry, learn to keep quiet or walk away. Refrain from talking lest you say something hard to take back.

*Even as you walk away, keep the communication open. Don't turn off your phone or run away with no way to reach you.

*Never hurt your spouse because you feel hurt by your spouse. Revenge leads to more mess, hurt and deterioration. Be the bigger and wiser person.

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