EFFECT OF ZERO AND ONE IN OUR RELATIONSHIP

```If numbers in *Mathematics* were given an opportunity to speak, i think some were going to accuse zero (0) and one (1).

But why accusing zero (0) and one (1)? Relax.... Any number that is multiplied by zero gives zero e.g. *25×0=0*. Zero will bring down numbers to nothing. There are some people in life who are like number zero. If you associate with them no matter how great your value is they will bring you down to zero.

How about one (1)?

Any number multiplied by one remains unchanged no matter how big it is e.g. *2500×1= 2500.* There are some people in life that are like one (1). No matter how they touch your life you remain the same. You don't grow, you don't improve, you remain at the same level.

So here is the twist. What kind of person are you and who do you associate with?.

May God separate us from everyone carrying the spirit of Zero (0) and One (1). May HE also help us grow and be greater than 1 so that when we touch the lives of others, we will add value.

*StaySafe* and *Stay blessed* and be a blessing to others. 

MENS' ATTITUDE TOWARDS PREGNANCY

Pregnancy is an exciting but emotional time for women.

Sometimes, it has many effect on a female's psyche.

It is a critical period for mothers.

You may find out you become upset and anxious more easily.

This is probably due to both hormonal and emotional changes that they are experiencing.

There are hormones responsible for those unpleasant display.

Husbands, be patient with your wives.

They can nag and go over-board.

Sometimes, accept her as she's , if you do not like something about her, let her know subtly, instead of criticizing her upfront, rather focus on the positive things that you likes in her.

Your presence will give her immense strenght.

Provide emotional support.

Husbands, when you're a leader, you automatically know how to take charge of the house.

There is a natural flow of things and ideas.

And a good leader knows the way, and shows the way but remember not to be bossy.

AFTER WEDDING

Before marriage, we all thought that once the knots are tied, this life go sweet die. Only you with your man/woman, enjoying, partying, shopping, doing somersaults anyhow, this, that, yen yen yen ... Ogidi

Most of us didn't consider the pressures that would come from home keeping, financial pressure on the family, stress from inlaws, friends, coping with the demands of our jobs while securing the home front, etc.

We didn't even think that a time would come when little discussions could result to very big quarrels, and you could actually keep malice with your partner, and say to hell with him/her.

We thought having sex everyday would just be fun since we've gotten the licence to be weird, we never imagined that we would one day be forming tayad in the oza room .

We thought everything would just go as planned and we will live happily ever after, never did we imagine the frustrations, the heartbreaks, the regrets, the hurtful words and actions that would one day come from our heartthrob intentionally or otherwise.

Most of us thought love texting is fun and would never cease, but here we are, sending list of things to buy, issues to be resolved, school fees, utility bills, etc

most times even forgetting to add love you at the end of the messages.

What about pillow talks, . We enjoyed lots of it during courtship, discussing the future, totoring each other, giglling throughout the night, and all... We thought marriage would bring out the PhD of that aspect... . Little did we know that sometimes we would sleep off on the couch even without having our night bath. Pillow talks haff advanced to kitchen/on-the-way-out talk

As you're coming out from one challenge, you're faced with another. It's like a loop, we keep going round and never getting to the end.

These things are overwhelming to a lot of people, you see wonderful sweet women becoming something else, the men most times start looking for outdoor activities, some, see themselves as stuck with each other and just continue to manage and hope for a better tomorrow, while the impatient ones seek ways and excuses to return to spinsterhood/bachelorhood.

It takes a lot to make this thing called marriage work. If you've not been there you won't understand any of those .

So the next time you see couples celebrating their marriage anniversary, rejoice with them, cos what they celebrate is beyond the beautiful appearances they put up and the fine pictures you see on social media.

Every marriage anniversary is worth celebrating, don't wait until you're 25years in marriage.

Kudos to all men and women who despite the many challenges are still keeping up with the love they saw and believed in, may God continue to strengthen your home and give you double success for every effort you make, Amen

If u can't forgive, please don't marry. Marriage is a Ministry of 'Offence'. So u must be a Permanent Secretary in Forgiveness Department with a PhD in Understanding

M.Sc in Loving and a B.Sc in Tolerance. Happy new week

"FORGIVENESS IS ABOUT US NOT ABOUT THEM"

My excellent friends, please, let us forgive one another because forgiving others is not about them but about us. Please, see the following benefits of forgiving others.

1. Forgiveness helps us to forget the past and live in the present and face the greater future.

2. Forgiveness helps us to experience joy and a better walk with God for a better tomorrow.

3. Forgiveness brings us back to good health and help us to grow higher and healthier spiritually.

4. Forgiveness opens us up to divine forgiveness.

5. Forgiveness makes us feel and think right and better.

6. Forgiveness warms the soul and makes us feel right.

7. Forgiveness frees us from destruction and harmful emotions.

8. Forgiveness opens our heart to unconditional love.

9. Forgiveness us to heal deep injuries done to us or to others.

Beloved, let us forgive one another. It is mandatory. It is not optional. Col 3: 13

MY PERIOD OF MASTURBATION

:**Do you masturbate?* Be sure to read this special message, believe me, you will be helped and your life will change for the better. THE BIGGEST DEMON ON EARTH. IF YOU MASTURBATE, YOU WILL BE POOR FOREVER UNLESS YOU ARE DELIVERED. So take your time to read this. Refuse to end this MONTH the same way. Believe me, you will never regret having read this, that will answer almost 78% of your questions? Please, whether you are a man or a woman, stop what you are doing and read this now. Each time you masturbate, you are giving sperm to the demonic realm. Masturbation is like having sex in dreams, every time you ejaculate under these conditions, you are pregnant with a demon. And as a woman, every time you masturbate, you have sex with a demon and sometimes get pregnant by a demon. Have you ever wondered how you see yourself with children or how you breastfeed a baby in your dreams when you don't have one in reality? Those who are married must have affection for their partner.It is the demon (s) you gave birth to. One Sunday during the One on One section, a very intelligent man came to me to complain that he had an accident in 2014 and lost his car; he almost lost his life but God saved him. Since 2014, he has been claiming money from the government as "accident compensation" but the money has not been returned to him. Whenever he goes to claim his money, he is told to come back the next day and that money represents over a million rand. While I was praying for him, God revealed to me that he had given all his fortune to the demons, he masturbates 4 to 5 times a day. When I asked him, he agreed and asked me to deliver him, I prayed for him and I told him that tonight you will have a dream, a woman will come to make love to you. If you manage to catch it and take the ring off it, this will be the end of your problems. 3 days later, he had a dream, his former classmate came to make love to him. He caught her, removed the ring from his finger. He immediately woke up and started thanking God. Around 1:40 p.m., the money that had been held for a long time was released. He is the God I know, the God of war, the God of miracles. Many of you would have been so wealthy by now but because of masturbation, your wealth, luck and happiness have been given to the demons. You may have been married before but your feelings are gone due to masturbation. Listen to me, the enemy invented sex toys, sex objects, to help masturbation, to steal, kill and destroy humanity completely. Do you know that sex toys are a devil's industry? Starting today, I want to help you understand that masturbation is a spirit - a demon. This spirit of the world of darkness does not come alone; it is accompanied by a spirit of lust. The spirit of lust includes the lust of the eyes, the lust of the flesh, etc. He's one of the spirits that takes people to pornography and all kinds of sexual immorality. (Pornography is a fuel for masturbation).It's never too late Distance is not a barrier, I pray that all those who will say "Amen" and share this post, the demon who eats your fortune, will divorce you forever, in the mighty name of Jesus. Your fortune will be returned to you in the name of Jesus. Leave no room for the devil to manipulate your life. To 2000 people proclaim now: "Out of my body", 3 times and share this post 2 times. By the power in the blood of Jesus, your demon of MASTURBATION comes out, in the name of Jesus! In 2 days you will have a dream that the demon that makes you masturbate will come out of your body. And all of your previously closed doors will open to help you. Please share this with 5 active group to save a soul from impending doom

RULES FOR COUPLES WHEN BEING MAD.

It is not a bad thing to be angry against each other. There are things that can make you or your wife angry. To be mad against your spouse is not bad, but your action can mar your relationship.

These should be your attitude when you are mad towards him or her:

1. Be mad at him or her, but don't insult each other. Anger is not a ticket to speak carelessly

2. Be mad at him or her, but tell each other why you are mad. Don't assume he or she know.

3. Be mad at him or her, but don't broadcast it to others. Cover him or her. Cover your nakedness.

4. Be mad at him or her, but don't forget the many good things about him or her. Be objective and fair.

5. Be mad at him or her, but also remember the many other times he or she have forgiven you

6. Be mad at him or her, but don't give each other silent treatment. Keep the communication lines open.

7. Be mad at him or her, but don't use it as an excuse to cheat on him or her

8. Be mad at him or her, but don't hurt each other to even the score. Love doesn't revenge

9. Be mad at him or her, but don't stay mad for long. Sort thing out quickly.

10. Be mad at him or her, but don't stop praying for each other. He or she still need your prayers.

11. Be mad at him or her, but don't threaten to quit what you have together. Ending it is not the solution

12. Be mad at him or her, but don't punish each other using sex. Keep intimacy special, don't weaponize it.

13. Be mad at him or her, but don't keep reminding each other of things you said you forgiven.

14. Be mad at him or her, but don't develop a bad attitude or view of yourself. Take responsibility for offending him or her, endeavour to make it work.

Please feel free to add yours. We are here to learn.

May richly bless, lead, guard, light your paths, conquer your laxitie and grant you patience needed in marriage