SOME BIG SECRETS IN MARRIAGE

SECRET 1

Everyone You Marry Has A Weakness. Only God Doesn't Have A Weakness. So If You Focus On Your Spouse's Weakness You Can't Get The Best Out Of His Strength!

SECRET 2

Everyone Has A Dark History. No One Is An Angel. When You Get Married Or You Want To Get Married Stop Digging Into Someone's Past. What Matters Most Is The Present Life Of Your Partner. Old Things Have Passed Away. Forgive And Forget. Focus On The Present And The Future!

SECRET 3

Every Marriage Has It's Own Challenges. Marriage Is Not A Bed Of Roses. Every Good Marriage Has Gone Through It's Own Test Of Blazing Fire. True Love Proves In Times Of Challenges. Fight For Your Marriage. Make Up Your Mind To Stay With Your Spouse In Times Of Need. Remember The Vow For Better For Worse. In Sickness And In Health Be There!

SECRET 4

Every Marriage Has Different Levels Of Success. Don't Compare Your Marriage With Any One Else. We Can Never Be Equal. Some Will Be Far, Some Behind. To Avoid Marriage Stresses, Be Patient, Work Hard And With Time Your Marriage Dreams Shall Come True!

SECRET 5

To Get Married Is Declaring War. When You Get Married You Must Declare War Against Enemies Of Marriage. Some Enemies Of Marriage Are: Ignorance, Prayerlessness, Unforgiveness, Third Party, Influence, Stinginess, Stubbornness, Lack Of Love, Rudeness, Disrespect, Cheating Be Ready To Fight To Maintain Your Marriage Zone!

SECRET 6

There Is No Perfect Marriage. There Is No Ready Made Marriage. Marriage Is Hard Work. Volunteer Yourself To Work Daily On It. Marriage Is Like A Car That Needs Proper Maintenance And Proper Service. If This Is Not Done It Will Break Down Somewhere Exposing The Owner To Danger Or Some Unhealthy Circumstances. Let Us Not Be Careless About Our Marriage!

SECRET 7

God Cannot Give You A Complete Person You Desire. He Gives You The Person In The Form Of Raw Materials In Order For You To Mould The Person That You Desire. This Can Only Be Achieved Through Prayer, Love And Patience!

SECRET 8

Getting Married Is Taking A Huge Risk. You Can Not Predict What Will Happen In The Future. Situation May Change So Leave Room For Adjustments. Husband Can Lose His Good Job Or You May Fail To Have Babies. All These Require You To Be Prayerful Otherwise You Might Divorce!

SECRET 9

Married Is Not A Contract. It Is Permanent. It Needs Total Commitment. Love Is The Glue That Stick The Couple Together. Divorce Start In The Mind And The Devil Feeds The Mind. Never Ever Entertain Thoughts Of Getting Divorce. Never Treaten Your Spouse With Divorce. Choose To Remain Married. God Hates Divorce!

SECRET 10

Every Marriage Has A Price To Pay. Marriage Is Like A Bank Account. It Is The Money That You Deposit That You Withdraw. If You Don't Deposit Love, Peace And Care Into Your Marriage, You Are Not A Candidate For A Blissful Home!

I WISH YOU A HAPPY MARRIAGE

Does God give wife?

Oftentimes, I hear people say that ever since Adam accused God for giving him Eve as a wife, God no longer gives people a wife or husband.

Most of the time, that statement or argument is based on the fact that we are free moral agents, that we are responsible for our choices and decisions.

People that make this statement are either speaking from a place of ignorance or they don't really understand the concept of a surrendered life.

To say that God doesn't choose a wife or husband again for people is totally wrong.

God is still very much in the business of matching making His children. In fact, He is even the Best Matchmaker!

As a free moral agent, you have the right to choose the kind of woman or man you want to marry.

God will not hold you accountable for that because you are exercising your right. He will not violate your will without your permission.

Many people have been choosing their spouses by themselves and Heaven hasn't fallen. Some of them made the right choice and are enjoying their marriage, some made a bad choice and are regretting now.

People that are in this category are people that are yet to surrender their will to God.

If you have totally surrendered your life and will to God, then you don't have a choice even when it comes to choosing a spouse.

God will be the One to choose a wife or a husband for you. This is why I said that, God still chooses spouse for His children

You have a will of your own as a free moral agent, God also has a will.

I have said this before, if you want God to choose a spouse for you, then you will have to drop your own will because two wills cannot exist.

You have to remove that idol in your heart. That brother or sister you are eyeing, you have to remove them from your heart and become neutral and then trust God to bring the best for you, that's only when God chooses for you.

READY MADE HUSBAND

A Lot Of Girls Complain That Guys Walk Away From Them Simply Because They Refused Giving Them Sex. Some Have Even Turned Into Sex Toys Just To Keep Their Man!

LET ME BE VERY OPEN HERE!!

Sex Might Not Be The Reason These Guys Walk Away. Remove Sex From A Relationship And See That Most Girls Don't Have Anything Else To Offer Their Man!

ASIDE SEX, WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO OFFER TO A MAN?

Can You Support Him Spiritually?

Can You Support Him Physically/

Financially?

How About Mentally?

All You Do Is Demand Money For Bags, Shoes, Expensive Phones, Expensive Clothes And Outings!

Making Him Spend Unnecessarily

What Are You Bringing To The Table? Have You Ever Sat Him Down And Helped Him Plan About His Future? Try To Be A Woman That A Man Will Always Regret Losing For The Rest Of His Life

Be The Woman That Your Man Can Never Afford To Lose To Another Man! Build Your Man To Your Taste And Stop Looking For A Ready Made Husband When You Are Not A Ready Made Wife!

PRAYER FOR SOULS IN HELL FIRE,

Purgatory and Hell-WHY WE MUST NOT PRAY FOR SOULS IN HELL FIRE
GOD has many attributes like omni science, omni potents ......He has the power to raise one from the suffering of the fire of purgatory.

Those Purified (1030-1032)

Those who die in God's grace but are not yet perfectly purified are guaranteed eternal salvation. They undergo purification after death to gain the holiness needed to enter heaven.

This "Purgatory" (Councils of Florence and Trent) is totally different from the punishment of the damned. It is a cleansing fire. "The person will be saved, but only through fire" (1 Cor 3:15). "As for certain lesser faults, there is a purifying fire" (Pope St. Gregory the Great).

The Church has always prayed for the dead and offered Mass for them. Judas Maccabees "made atonement for the dead that they might be freed from their sins" (1 Macc 12:46). "Let us not hesitate to help those who have died and to offer our prayers for them" (St. John Chrysostom).

Hell - Final Separation from God (1033)

We are united to God only if we freely choose to love him. We cannot love God if we sin gravely against him, our neighbor or ourselves. "He who does not love, remains in death" (1 Jn 3:14). Jesus warns us that we could be separated from him if we fail to help the poor in their serious needs (Mt 25:31-46). To die in unrepented mortal sin separates us from God forever by our own free choice. This self-exclusion from God's presence is called "hell."

Jesus' Teaching (1034)

Jesus spoke of hell. "It is better to lose one of your members than to have your whole body thrown into Gehenna" (Mt 5:29). "Be afraid of the one who can destroy both body and soul in Gehenna" (Mt 10:28). Jesus will send his angels who "will gather all evil doers and throw them into the furnace of fire" (Mt 13:41-42). Jesus will say to some, "Depart from me, you cursed, into the eternal fire" (Mt 25:41).

The Church Teaching (1035-1036)

The Church teaches that hell exists and that those who die in mortal sin will suffer "eternal fire." This means a definitive separation from God (who alone is man's happiness).

These teachings on hell call man to use his freedom in view of his eternity. "Enter by the narrow gate; for the gate is wide and the way is easy, that leads to destruction." This call is urgent because "those who find it are few" (Mt 7:13-14). "Since we do not know the day nor the hour we should watch constantly" (Second Vatican Council).

No One Predestined to Hell (1037)

God predestines no one to hell (Council of Trent). Damnation comes about only by a persistence in mortal sin until death. God wants "all to come to repentance" (2 Pet 3:9). The Church prays "save us from final damnation and count us among those you have chosen" (Roman Canon).

We are to save our brothers who did not make it to heaven by praying for them and other mortification,all these are because they cannot bail themselves from the kingdom of purgatory,

But let us try and ask ourselves about our dear brothers who are in hell fire either because of their poor education back ground on their faith about God,thinking they are doing the right thing,saying IF THEY HAD KNOWN

GOD being the most potential liberator and the merciful one,WHY ARE PEOPLE/CONGREGATION BE ADVISED NOT TO PRAY FOR SOULS IN THE HELL FIRE

MEN DO NOT WANT ONLY SEX

When you look at how aggressive men are towards sex you may think that what a man needs from a woman is sex. Of course, if he has not married you yet or he does not really intend to marry you what he will need from you is nothing above your body.

But if he really intends to marry you or if you guys are already married sex is never what he needs from you - maybe let me say it better; "WHAT A MAN NEEDS MOST FROM A WOMAN IS NOT SEX."

Many young girls think because they are sexually active and experience they will easily be married and have their husbands loving them.

And when a man approaches for marriage they think the greatest asset they have to show the man is sex.

Others also think once they are giving out their bodies it means they are giving out the best for which reason they will be chosen above all.

There is this young girl who is very beautiful and sexually active. Due to that she thought sex is all that matters to a man. Ironically, she struggled for long before finally getting married.

Her sexual dexterity could not win her the heart of a man until out of the blue and reason beyond imagination a very handsome good man married her.

The wedding was grand and her tears were now gone. Unfortunately only a year after the wedding the marriage fell on rocks. Within five years three different men came her way but none could stay.

The problem was simple. She thought sex was all that matters so she would never submit. But submission is what men need, not sex.

It is time for our young ladies to know that when a man is ready to marry he will not look out for a woman who will satisfy his sex drive but a God fearing woman, a woman who will submit herself to him.

Excuse my language, "every woman has vagina but not every woman has God fearing and humility." So when you are a God fearing and humble woman, you are an expensive jewelry. And a man of integrity and God fearing will fear to lose you.

The holy Bible say, "wife, submit to your husband." husband love your wife as your own body, any man who does not love his wife, honour, nourishes and cherished her, is against the word of God. Remember, your wife is not a slave, If you hate your wife, you are doing evil to yourself. REPENT.

EPHESIANS 5: 21 to 33. 1PETER 3: 5 to 7.

The reason is that a man's true love goes out only for a woman who is submissive. Your beauty cannot make another woman ugly but your humility can let him love you above all other women.

Sadly, many young ladies in our days call submission as "control." And you will hear them saying in tiny romantic voices, "As for me I don't want any man to control me oh."

If you don't want to submit don't think of marriage because no man in his right sense will offer his love to a woman whose heart is higher than his height, no matter how short he may be.

When a woman bows her knee before a man, the man will automatically bow his heart before her love. And love her sincerely.

There are, of course, recalcitrant men who will not value women of humility but I tell you that every true man does not need sex, but God fearing and submission.

It is God fearing and submission that truly makes you a good and romantic wife.

So be the QUEEN you want to be but when it comes to dealing with your husband, play the role of a humble maid.

Don't forget that it is the spirit of humility that has caused many maids to hijack their mistresses' husbands. Be your man's queen .

I wish you all the best as you submit in your relationship and marriage. May God bless you with good marriage, my dear friends...

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PERPETUAL LOVE OF A MAN TOWARDS HER MAN

Do You Want Your Man To Love You, Respect You And Stay Faithful To You Alone? I Have A Love Portion You Can Give Him. The Ingredients Of The Love Portion Include:

1) Always Look Beautiful And Attractive.

2) Be Diligent And Always Make Sure The House Is Tidy.

3) Cook Delicious Meals For Him At All Times And Always Include His Favorite Food.

4) Always Pray For Him.

5) Be Humble And Submissive.

6) Avoid Quarreling With Him And If There Is Any Form Of Quarrel. Always Settle It Before The Next Day.

7) You Must Be Able To ENDURE. A Woman That Cannot Endure Will Never Last In A Man's House.

Love His Family Members Like Your Own Family.

9) Always Contribute To The Development Of The Home. Don't Have The Mentality That It's The Man That Must Buy Everything. He Will Respect You For This.

NOTE THAT: Even If You Use The Most Powerful Charm On A Man And Your Character Is On A Zero, His Eyes Will Surely Be Opened One Day!