7 FACTORS TO CONSIDER BEFORE YOU MARRY ANYONE

"Don't marry anyone just because you love the person, love is not enough reason to get married. There are other factors to consider."

The post gathered some reactions both on Facebook here and on WhatsApp, some people agreed with me that love is not enough, while others disagreed and then many others asked me about the other factors that need to be considered before you marry someone.

So what I intend to do in this article is to show you the other factors you need to consider before you agree to marry anyone.

My intention for making that post two days was to help people to make sure all coasts are cleared before they venture into marriage to avoid regrets.

There are many people that got married only because of love but are now regretting that decision. They were blinded by love but marriage performed a miracle on their eyes, now they can clearly see their mistakes.

HANDLING MY WOMAN

SOME TRUE SECRET ABOUT WOMEN.......

1- When a woman is angry, she doesn't mean over half of what she says... if possible always hug her to calm her down.

2- The most difficult time for a woman is when she is away from the man she truly loves. She can get distressed.

3- It takes time for a woman to trust a man, its hard to change her mind when she does, but if you mess-up, you might just forget it.

4- A woman is such a school you will never graduate from.

5- Your wedding certificate with her is not a "driving licence", its just a "Learners permit". Continue wooing her.

6- She can be very bitter now, and a very sweet angel later on, it all lies in your approach. Yes treat her right always.

7- A woman hardly forget things, she remembers hurts more, avoid making her hurt. Avoid negative words and affirm her always.

8- A woman can be highly secretive Most times when they prove hard to men, they go to their closet and cry to friends. Make your woman your best friend.

9- All women Love to be begged. Men often miss out on this. Yes please handle them like babies sometime its all they want.

10- All women have a unique character like salt, their presence might not be noticed but their absence makes all things tasteless.

11- if she loves you she can do everything you ask of her as far as it makes you happy, so never force her to love you.

12- If you don't take care of her, she will find someone who will. They are always there only that she chose you.

13- If a woman truely loves you, even to ask money from you she will be shy, but as a gentleman don't wait to be asked and most especially if she loves you she can never leave you to spend unnecessarily, that’s what makes them special.

If you have a good woman in your life, don't take her for granted. Love and cherish her Because

they are expensive jewelry.

PAIN OF A WOMAN-HUSBAND'S GAIN

DEAR HUSBAND!

The Scars And Stretch Marks On Your Wife's Stomach Symbolizes The Pain That Comes With Motherhood, Remember How Beautiful She Was When She Was Your Newly Wedded Wife. She Is Still The Same Woman You Fell In Love With. The Difference Now Is She Has Given Children, She Has Giving You Life, She Has Blessed You With A Family.

Don't Ignore Your Woman, Appreciate Every Stretch Marks And Scars That Comes With Motherhood. Don't Leave Your Woman Because Of Her Tummy Because That Was Where She Housed Your Son's And Daughters For Months. The Scars And Stretch Marks Represent Her Love For You, The Pain She Went Through In The Delivering Room Is A Proof Of Her Undying Love For You.

Dear Husband! Don't Make Her Go Through Any More Pains, Please Don't Hit Her, Don't Nag, Don't Insult Her Body. Appreciate Her And Show Her LOVE

HAVE A BLESSED SUNDAY

SOME BIG SECRETS IN MARRIAGE

SECRET 1

Everyone You Marry Has A Weakness. Only God Doesn't Have A Weakness. So If You Focus On Your Spouse's Weakness You Can't Get The Best Out Of His Strength!

SECRET 2

Everyone Has A Dark History. No One Is An Angel. When You Get Married Or You Want To Get Married Stop Digging Into Someone's Past. What Matters Most Is The Present Life Of Your Partner. Old Things Have Passed Away. Forgive And Forget. Focus On The Present And The Future!

SECRET 3

Every Marriage Has It's Own Challenges. Marriage Is Not A Bed Of Roses. Every Good Marriage Has Gone Through It's Own Test Of Blazing Fire. True Love Proves In Times Of Challenges. Fight For Your Marriage. Make Up Your Mind To Stay With Your Spouse In Times Of Need. Remember The Vow For Better For Worse. In Sickness And In Health Be There!

SECRET 4

Every Marriage Has Different Levels Of Success. Don't Compare Your Marriage With Any One Else. We Can Never Be Equal. Some Will Be Far, Some Behind. To Avoid Marriage Stresses, Be Patient, Work Hard And With Time Your Marriage Dreams Shall Come True!

SECRET 5

To Get Married Is Declaring War. When You Get Married You Must Declare War Against Enemies Of Marriage. Some Enemies Of Marriage Are: Ignorance, Prayerlessness, Unforgiveness, Third Party, Influence, Stinginess, Stubbornness, Lack Of Love, Rudeness, Disrespect, Cheating Be Ready To Fight To Maintain Your Marriage Zone!

SECRET 6

There Is No Perfect Marriage. There Is No Ready Made Marriage. Marriage Is Hard Work. Volunteer Yourself To Work Daily On It. Marriage Is Like A Car That Needs Proper Maintenance And Proper Service. If This Is Not Done It Will Break Down Somewhere Exposing The Owner To Danger Or Some Unhealthy Circumstances. Let Us Not Be Careless About Our Marriage!

SECRET 7

God Cannot Give You A Complete Person You Desire. He Gives You The Person In The Form Of Raw Materials In Order For You To Mould The Person That You Desire. This Can Only Be Achieved Through Prayer, Love And Patience!

SECRET 8

Getting Married Is Taking A Huge Risk. You Can Not Predict What Will Happen In The Future. Situation May Change So Leave Room For Adjustments. Husband Can Lose His Good Job Or You May Fail To Have Babies. All These Require You To Be Prayerful Otherwise You Might Divorce!

SECRET 9

Married Is Not A Contract. It Is Permanent. It Needs Total Commitment. Love Is The Glue That Stick The Couple Together. Divorce Start In The Mind And The Devil Feeds The Mind. Never Ever Entertain Thoughts Of Getting Divorce. Never Treaten Your Spouse With Divorce. Choose To Remain Married. God Hates Divorce!

SECRET 10

Every Marriage Has A Price To Pay. Marriage Is Like A Bank Account. It Is The Money That You Deposit That You Withdraw. If You Don't Deposit Love, Peace And Care Into Your Marriage, You Are Not A Candidate For A Blissful Home!

I WISH YOU A HAPPY MARRIAGE

Does God give wife?

Oftentimes, I hear people say that ever since Adam accused God for giving him Eve as a wife, God no longer gives people a wife or husband.

Most of the time, that statement or argument is based on the fact that we are free moral agents, that we are responsible for our choices and decisions.

People that make this statement are either speaking from a place of ignorance or they don't really understand the concept of a surrendered life.

To say that God doesn't choose a wife or husband again for people is totally wrong.

God is still very much in the business of matching making His children. In fact, He is even the Best Matchmaker!

As a free moral agent, you have the right to choose the kind of woman or man you want to marry.

God will not hold you accountable for that because you are exercising your right. He will not violate your will without your permission.

Many people have been choosing their spouses by themselves and Heaven hasn't fallen. Some of them made the right choice and are enjoying their marriage, some made a bad choice and are regretting now.

People that are in this category are people that are yet to surrender their will to God.

If you have totally surrendered your life and will to God, then you don't have a choice even when it comes to choosing a spouse.

God will be the One to choose a wife or a husband for you. This is why I said that, God still chooses spouse for His children

You have a will of your own as a free moral agent, God also has a will.

I have said this before, if you want God to choose a spouse for you, then you will have to drop your own will because two wills cannot exist.

You have to remove that idol in your heart. That brother or sister you are eyeing, you have to remove them from your heart and become neutral and then trust God to bring the best for you, that's only when God chooses for you.

READY MADE HUSBAND

A Lot Of Girls Complain That Guys Walk Away From Them Simply Because They Refused Giving Them Sex. Some Have Even Turned Into Sex Toys Just To Keep Their Man!

LET ME BE VERY OPEN HERE!!

Sex Might Not Be The Reason These Guys Walk Away. Remove Sex From A Relationship And See That Most Girls Don't Have Anything Else To Offer Their Man!

ASIDE SEX, WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO OFFER TO A MAN?

Can You Support Him Spiritually?

Can You Support Him Physically/

Financially?

How About Mentally?

All You Do Is Demand Money For Bags, Shoes, Expensive Phones, Expensive Clothes And Outings!

Making Him Spend Unnecessarily

What Are You Bringing To The Table? Have You Ever Sat Him Down And Helped Him Plan About His Future? Try To Be A Woman That A Man Will Always Regret Losing For The Rest Of His Life

Be The Woman That Your Man Can Never Afford To Lose To Another Man! Build Your Man To Your Taste And Stop Looking For A Ready Made Husband When You Are Not A Ready Made Wife!