CANT TAKE A WOMAN FOR GRANTED 👩

if she is giving you too much attention. Just consider yourself lucky because maybe she loves you so much that she doesn’t want anyone else to take her place in your life.

If she cries for you don’t think she is weak but consider yourself lucky that she thinks you are worth her precious tears.

If she is jealous of the other women around you, don’t think she is insecure but she doesn’t want to see anyone else to be in your arms.

If a woman says sorry to you even though it was not her fault, don’t think she fears of losing you but she considers her relationship worth another chance and she doesn’t want anyone else to have your heart.

STRONG CHARM FOR HUSBAND AND HE WILL CONTINUE TO LOVE YOU TILL ETERNITY

1. CORRECT HIM

Men, love it when the woman tells him when he wrongs. The problem is many women don't know how to correct. Correct him with love, "Honey, don't you think it would have been better if..."; don't scold him like he is a little boy. Approach and tone is key. Don't attack

2. CHALLENGE HIM

Do greater things on your own, inspire him, expose him to greatness, make progress in your life that he feels he needs to pull up his socks. Don't just sit lazy. A man wants a woman who is hungry for her own personal growth. Challenging him doesn't mean looking down on him or asking why can't he be like other men?

3. NEED HIM

Men love feeling needed. Lovingly ask him for help, ask him for advice, "My love, what do you think I should do?". Involve him in your life and when he does help, thank him

4. PRAY FOR HIM

No matter the level of a man's spirituality, prayer is respected and considered sacred. Pray for him, let him hear you pray for him

5. PRAISE HIM

The kind of compliments men love are, "You are such a good man", "You make a great dad", "Your mind is incredible", "You have a sexy body", "I love how you touch me", "My honey, I am proud of you". Praise him in private and in public. Don't be that woman who is quick to point out his flaws but rarely highlighs what he does right

6. SEXUALLY MAKE ADVANCES

Many women think sex is to be left to the man, so they wait for the man to make advances. They become passive and shy during sex. Lady, your husband will love it sometimes if you are sexually aggressive, ask for his body, reach for his penis. Show him that you know he belongs to you. Make sex an adventure

7. SHOW INTEREST IN HIM

Ask him how his day is, his dreams, if he is OK. Most women want the man to show interest but they don't show interest back

8. TRUST HIM, DON'T MICROMANAGE HIM

Don't be overly posssessive, demanding him to spend every second with you. Snooping his phone and doubting him when you find nothing, being suspicious of him, chocking his social life, . Be mature, if you push him away, he will keep things friom you then things will get ugly. Most men keep things from their women, not because they are doing something wrong but because their women read too much into everything and pick up fights. This is dangerous. You are his Queen, wear your crown with confidence

9. COMPLAIN LESS

So many women don't even know they complain, they think they are simply expressing their right to speak and get things done properly. But men dislike a complaining woman, if he doesn't do things as you like, if he is not at your level; don't attack and nag. Just simply request him to do things a better way, but as you do so, appreciate the much he has done so far

10. GIVE HIM PEACE

This is what we all want when with a person. Peace. Peace at home. No fights, no frustrations, no stress. If your man is spending less time with you, perhaps you're not giving him peace. Men avoid complicated and draining environments. Lady, you complaining every day to him that he doesn't spend much time with you makes things worse. You think you are putting your point across but he feels pushed away. Attract him to you by giving him peace. Some men stay out there, not looking for a woman, but looking for peace

11. LOOK GOOD

Dress up, look sexy. Don't look good only when you are outside the home, look good also when it's just you two

12. TREAT HIM

Cater to him, cook for him, buy him gifts, treat him like a king, straighten his tie. These simple things mean alot to him, even if not every day, often

13. HAVE GOOD CONVERSATIONS

Men get attracted to good converations. They want laughter, depth, intelligent conversations. They want to be listened to, to be wowed by a woman's mind. A woman who talks lovey dovey stuff but also about business, investments, social issues, a great vision; that woman is a keeper

14. EAT WITH HIM

Men love a good meal. Make it a habit to eat with him. Food brings people together

15. BE ADMIRABLE

Succeed in your personal life, do great things outside your marriage. Shine as a woman. Make him proud to say "That is my wife". Even the Proverbs 31 husband calls his wife "Blessed"

16. BE FRIENDLY TO HIS FRIENDS

Don't fight his friends. Find out who his friends are, get to have laughs and talks with them. Support his social life, be good to his family and siblings. If you have an issue with one of them, bring it to his attention without starting a war. Allow to also know your friends. When you both do this, it makes both of you secure

17. MAKE AN EFFORT TO UNDERSTAND WHAT HE LIKES

Find out what he likes and spend time with him once in a while doing that thing. If he loves rugby, watch matches with him sometimes; if he wins an award, go cheer him as he receives it; be his fan

Easy to find faults

It is easy for you to see FAULTS in your Wife, and see that Lady at the office as PERFECT

You live with your wife, you wake up beside her everyday, you see her without makeup, you see her when she's tired, when she's in need of a bath, you see her without her wig and mascara.

You don't live with that lady you are now lusting after and wishing was your wife, you don't wake up beside her.

You see her when she's already applied make up, you see her only when she's had a bath, with her wig, brazilian weavon and mascara.

Your wife lives with you, it's easy to see why you feel like you need a breath of fresh air, you know her every flaws, her weaknesses, you see her CONTENT daily, while all you see about that lady is her CONTAINER

Your wife cannot PRETEND for you, she has no reason to, that lady has no reason to be REAL to you, she will only be COURTEOUS and KIND to you, but don't let that fool you.

That lady you are comparing with your wife has her own imperfections and flaws, she has attitude issues too, she gets angry too, but you won't see all this about her.

Don't begin to wish you were married to that younger lady, she's what? 22? 25?

Your wife is 35? 40+?

She's been to the labor room, her vagina can't be the same as before, maybe she's had a CS or two, let's not forget all the worship sessions and night vigils you conducted down there, shouting "give it to me, I paid for it"?,

Those stretch marks you detest are her scars from the pregnancies that made you a father.

You are complaining, your wife's breasts have sagged, but who pressed them? Was it us? Was it not you?

You are now eyeing a young lady that her chest Is firm, you forget that if she were subjected to the same conditions your wife has been through in your hands every night in the bedroom for 10 years, she'd look like your wife?

Respect that Woman who has stood by your side.

She has struggled with you,

She has taken in and given you kids,

She has loved you, emotionally and sexually,

She has hustled with you.

She's the wife of your YOUTH.

Love her with all her flaws

Love her through the changes you see.

Love those stretch marks.

Kiss that not so flat tommy

She's the wife of your YOUTH.

Malachi 2:15 "Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth."

HOW TO BE ALWAYS HAPPY IN LIFE. READ THIS AWESOME LIFE TIPS.

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1. Always remember that there is nobody on this earth that does not have problems. You are not the only one that has problems.

2. Challenges is part of life. It is only a dead man that has no challenges.

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3. There is no problem that has no solution. There are solutions to the pains you are passing through.

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4. The way you picture yourself in your mind can affect your happiness. Picture yourself as a valuable and beautiful person. Avoid low self esteem and inferiority complex.

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5. Do not mind about what people say about you.Some people are sadists. They can just say somethings just to make you feel sad.

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6. Make friends with reasonable people who make you happy. Do not make friends with people who make jest of you or laugh at you over your challenges.

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7. At your leisure time, keep yourself busy with your favorite hobbies like sports, games, watching movies, surfing the internet, playing computer games, etc.

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8. Do not allow anyone to intimidate you with money and material things. A poor man today can become rich tomorrow. Change is constant.

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9. No matter what you are passing through today,do not give up. As long as there is life, there is hope.

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10. Be very prayerful. Pray without ceasing. Prayer is a catalyst that can speed up your blessings to come to you on time.

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11. Be courageous to go for what you want. Life is all about risk. If you don't take a risk, you will not get the desires of your heart.

HAVE A NICE LIFE!!

General Overview of Justice, Development and Peace Commission (JDPC), Diocese of Issele-Uku

 

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The Justice Development and Peace/Caritas is a social arm of the Catholic Church, founded and inaugurated in January 1967 by Pope Paul VI as the pontifical council for justice and peace. It is a social arm of the church saddled with the responsibility of promoting justice, peace and integral development in the society while liberating people from oppression, as the motto of the organization goes – “hope for the hopeless”.

In line with that general mandate, the Justice, Development and Peace Commission of Issele-Uku Diocese is charged with ensuring justice and peace in our society, especially among the less privileged and vulnerable ones. We are the developmental agency of the Church in partnership and cooperation with relevant Non-Government Organization (NGOs), Community-Based Organizations (CBOs), Community Development Associations (CDAs), other Civil Society Organizations (CSOs), Individuals, and Government Agencies. We are registered in 2005 with the Corporate Affairs Commission (CAC) with the registration number: CAC/IT/NO 19551 and presently in the process of getting registered with Ministry of Women Affairs, Community and Social Development as a non-profit and non-governmental organization. Beyond the assistance we render to the less privileged, we also run prison apostolate through which we render spiritual and counseling services to the inmates as well as provide free legal services to some of them who are not able to afford a lawyer and stand up for those who are unjustly detained. Through our office also, the Church reaches out to the masses with many informative, humanitarian and developmental activities for the benefit of the society in line with the life and teachings of Christ.  

 

OUR VISION

Having a society that guarantees people of freedom, hope and worthwhile living.

 

OUR MISSION

To build a society of socially responsible citizenry, where human rights, equality and fair play are the principles of life, and mutual respect and order is the conduct of human development.

 

OUR CORE VALUES

Ø  Integrity

Ø  Transparency

Ø  Accountability

Ø  Human Dignity

 

AIMS AND OBJECTIVES

The aims and objective of the Commission are:

(1)               To promote Human Right as enshrined in Charters of Human Rights and the Nigeria Constitution.

(2)               To Co-operate with people of other faith and persuasions on issues of common social concern and uplift human conditions without discrimination or segregation.

(3)               To bear witness to the liberating Gospel of Jesus through continued prophetic action for the promotion of Justice, Development, Peace and Charitable works in the Society.

(4)               To form animated groups to participate in their own development for peaceful Co-existence.

(5)               To Co-operate with international agencies, government CSO’s and NGO’s for integral development.

(6)               To empower women and bring about gender balance.

(7)          To provide legal aid for the less privileged and awaiting trial inmates and also to engage in public interest litigation.

(8)               To empower youth and reduce unemployment.

(9)               To provide Micro-credit facility for the poor populate. Especially women in rural areas.

(10)           To resolve conflicts peacefully among parties in disagreement.

Can you help JDPC Issele-uku put a smile on the face of this woman.

For more information;

Call 08063754834 or 08165666594

Email: jdpcisseleuku@gmail.com

Rev. Fr. JohnBosco Ezeonwumelu

(Director)