Thursday, 2 December 2021

THINGS MEN HATE ABOUT WOMEN


A woman who refuses to groom and stay attractive but she does not want him to notice other women.
A woman who brings her sisters and nieces to stay in their house. Worse, she stays up all night chatting and laughing hysterically with them but she can’t stay with him to watch his favorite match.
A woman who manipulates him sexually and then gossips how their marriage is sexless. Worse, she broadcasts among their family friends how their marriage is dry and boring.
A woman who wants her mother to be assisted but not the man’s mother. She talks with her mother on phone all-day long then accuses him of being mama’s boy for calling his mother once a week.
A woman who compares him with other men especially in regard to financial achievements. He wonders why she can’t go and live with that other high-achieving man.
A woman who never gives him some breathing space once a week to be with the boys even after investing all his week-days with her, and doing homework and playing with the kids.
A woman who will not share her income with the family yet she goes to work every day but complains how the man spends money with his relatives.
A woman who prays loudly in the bed-room very early in the morning and goes to church daily but she has no time to fix dinner for her husband.

VALUE YOUR OWN DIAMOND!!!!!


She'll be there picking fights with guys asking for her phone number everyday, because she has you. While you'll be on the other side asking every girl you meet for her phone number.
-- bro, that is not FAIR !
The same way you get cold and lonely at night longing for the warmth of a woman, is the same way she gets cold and lonely at night longing for the warmth of a man..
But the difference is that she'll be there fighting temptation and ignoring all the calls and pings
from so many guys calling to ask for a minute
of her time. While you are on the other side searching through your phone book for numbers of side chicks you can invite over for the night. -- bro, that is WICKEDNESS!
She stays true to you, depending on what she has, never asking you for anything, because she wants you to build yourself up with the little you have. While you're on the other side spending that little you have on gift presents and lavish dates with women who are not even up to her worth.
-- bro, that is ILLITERACY!
She keeps the communication going, she wants to talk to you with every chance she gets, and with the little call credit she has, because she misses you.
While you're on the other side spending all you have trying to keep communication with women who are not even giving you any attention. -- bro, that is STUPIDITY!
Truth is,
Most times we are busy chasing STONES when we already have all the DIAMONDS we could ever need and sometimes, the people we are busy chasing can not measure up to the standard of what we already have. How long shall we continue in being daft?
Listen!
Don't leave a delicious meal for a fancy junk food by the corner. There's nothing greener on the other side bro, it's only greener where you water it. So start acting right, and channel all that you have, all that you can be, to that one woman who has possibly channeled her everything to you!

Don't allow your relatives between you and your spouse

Don't allow your friends or family to get between you and your spouse. Don't associate with anyone who hates and disrespect your spouse. Make them clearly understand that you and your spouse are one. Anyone who truly cares about you will honour your choice of spouse and will treat your spouse with dignity and respect.anyone who comes to you to gossip about your spouse is sowing seeds of division in your marriage and should be stopped immediately. Shield your marriage, protect your spouse's position, image and reputation at all cost.Stand up in defense for each other. What God has joined together let no one separate.

WHAT'S GOOD ABOUT BEING MARRIED?WHAT'S BAD ABOUT BEING MARRIED.SINGLE?


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What's good about being married? It can give you a sense of belonging, a feeling of security and stability, an ongoing
involvement with a sense of continuity, a home base, a feeling of closeness and intimacy, and a feeling that the future is more certain.
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What's bad about being married?
It can bring less control over your time, a need to account to other people, a tendency to lose your identity and get wrapped up in
roles, pressure to conform, boredom with routine, and a sense of obligation loaded
with shoulds and oughts.
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What's good about being single?
It can give you a sense of excitement and adventure, control over your own time, more freedom to grow as an independent person, a right to privacy, a sense of your own individuality, and the ability to make your own decisions without compromising or being accountable to others.
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What's bad about being single?
It can bring a feeling of being detached and alienated, a feeling of loneliness, more anxiety and risk, fewer supports, a limitation
in what you can do alone, and less certainty about the future.
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Since being married and being single both have some positive aspects as well as some
drawbacks, this puts us in a dilemma all our lives. We usually go through life doing a balancing act between trying to satisfy our
need for commitment and our need for freedom. Whenever we get too far out of balance, we feel a need for whatever is missing.

Wednesday, 1 December 2021

BE HIS HEALER!


By Kuukua Davis
1. Sometimes he may not need s...ex from you at night.
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2. He may not be hungry to eat what you have spent hours cooking.
3. He may not come home with gifts for you nor the children as he usually does.
4. He may not wear his usual smiles on his face as he walks into the house.
DONT NAG him dear sister. Rather MOTHER him.
Be the shoulder he can cry on till he smiles again.
Be the STRONG and MATURE woman he can show his vulnerablity to WITHOUT DISPISING him.
The lion grow weak at times.
The supper man looses his balance at times.
Men also have emotions, most of them bottle up so much to play the role of a HERO just to please you.
Learn to give your husband the healing he needs.
If you don't he may get it from somewhere else ( Addictions or another woman ) or die before his time.

CLASSIFIED FACT OF LOVE


1 ***** Difference between mind and heart? Your mind will tell you the smart thing and your heart will tell you what you are going to do anyway.
2 ***** If you really care about someone, you'll make an effort to make things work out instead of leaving them unhappy and confused.
3 ***** Love is like playing the piano. First you must learn to play by the rules, then you must forget the rules and play from your heart.
4 ***** What if finding the love of your life meant changing the life that you love?
5 ***** Why do we love the people that ignore us, and ignore the people that love us?
6 **** The only people you need in your live are those that need you in theirs.