WHY MARRIAGE IS GOOD.

1. You get to have someone to come home to and share company with

2. You get to have someone with whom you can have as much sexual pleasure as you both want

3. You get to have someone to look after and who looks after you

4. You get to walk with someone who is your best friend long term, at a time when even friendships don't last

5. You get to build a future with someone who knows you as an adult. Our parents know who were as children, our spouse knows who we truly are as adults

6. You get to have someone to raise and guide the children with, collective effort

7. You get to have someone who won't give up on you just because of an argument

8. You get to have someone who has your best interest at heart and looks out for you, warns you, corrects and challenges you to be better

9. You get to have someone who shares in your success, your sorrows, your struggles, your good and bad days

10. You get to have a companion. You are not alone, no loneliness. Someone to laugh with and open up to without feeling you are a bother or you are talking too much

11. You get to have someone you are intertwined with to be your strength when you are weak

12. You get to have a prayer partner who prays fervently because whatever affects you affects him/her

13. You get to have a dependable helper you can count on

14. You get to have someone to share responsibilities and roles with at home, lessening the weight

15. You get to have someone to flirt with and be naughty with without judgement

16. You get to have someone who has spent so much time with you that they understand you and can represent you, cover you and get you even without saying a word

17. You get to have someone who worries about you when you are not OK, when an accident happens, when you are quiet or when you come home late

18. You get to have someone to pour your love to knowing that you are not wasting it because this is long term

19. You get to have someone who has given you authority to call on them, ask them for help or do things for you with no pay or demands; all because your spouse loves you and you do the same for your spouse

20. You get to have someone who will be a custodian of your secrets and memories for life instead of talking with person A, then person B, then person C... It is comforting to build with one

21. You get to have someone who teaches you things you never knew, only if you are willing to learn

22. You get to have someone to grow old with whose love has been tried and tested

23. You get to have someone who will continue with your vision and family in case you die

24. You get to have someone you loved and who loved you for life in your brief journey on earth

25. You get to have someone who helps you to fulfil purpose and you two coming together means you can do more

THE BENEFITS OF SEX WHEN YOU DO IT Right

FOR THE MARRIAGE COUPLES.

1. Gets you to start the day right. Morning glory has a way of kick starting your day with a smile on your face, warmth in your heart and pep in your step

2. Gets you to good sleep. Love making can knock you out so good. Sleep is sweet when you take each other there

3. Tightens the bond between you two, your love grows deeper with every pleasurable experience

4. Helps you to know your spouse better. When the Scriptures talk about sex, Scripture says "Abraham knew his wife". Love making makes you two let down your guard, you get to know each other deeper

5. Calms your emotions. When you're tense, angry or stressed, love making can give you great relief

6. Helps you two resolve fights. Frictions in marriage will be there, but after talking about it and coming to an understanding, seal it with some love making. Be careful though not to make love and ignore issues

7. Inspires you. Something happens to the brain after a sexual high. You can come up with solutions to save the world after climbing Mount Erotica

8. Makes both of you feel special when you exclusively give each other your bodies. His body is hers, her body is his

9. Inspires spiritual and emotional intimacy. With love making comes pillow talks and heart to heart conversations

10. Grows your family. Baby making through love making

11. Gives you a chance to be naughty. Unleash the flirty and cheeky you on your spouse

12. Gives you pleasure in your tough days. You can do with a good experience, life can be a pain

13. Heals you. Your body rejuvenates when your bodies collide in love

14. Celebrates your union as God intended. Love making is God's gift to your marriage, please your Maker

To enjoy all these benefits, stay faithful to each other. Sex was meant to make you two one in your marriage, not to be the source of pain when you abuse it.

BE YOUR SPEC'S SPEC!

Everyone has taste irrespective of who you are, where you come from, what you do or what you've been through.

There are specific things that tickle your fancy more than others.

You owe no one any apology for having those choices. It's your right.

When it comes to making choice of a partner, you still reserve the right to go after your choice (spec) but where many lose it, is failing to be a worthy compliment of what you admire or desire from the other party.

So I ask, are you your spec's spec?

You like highly hygienic women but you've worn one boxers for over a week now. Your house has not been swept for a month. Your Jean trousers have not smelled water for 3 months now. Thanks to brush, you just brush, fling it and off you go yet you are planning to bring someone's daughter to come and bear the torment of the smell that oozes out from everywhere. Yuck!

You like men with 6 packs, very athletic and smart yet your own stomach is like Innoson's latest version GP tank. No hanty! Be your spec's spec!

If you desire a rich man,as a woman, you have to build yourself in preparation to meeting such a man, by working hard, acquiring skills and above all, acquiring the right knowledge.

If you desire to marry a virtuous woman, build yourself as a virtuous man or you think a man doesn't deserve to have virtues simply because the Bible didn't dedicate a whole chapter for it?

Whatever you desire and want from your partner or people in general...be that first!!!

"When we are willing to be the change we imagine, we have already opened the gate for positive change in our Partners".

Don't expect too much from your partner when you have not built yourself up for a worthy compliment!

FUNNY REALITY OF LIFE .. BE GUIDED

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1 .. Before, when a Guy takes his Girlfriend home to meet his Parents, Na serious relationship. But now, all na parole. If you like, meet his Ancestors, Babe, you can still end up as ex-girlfriend. Plz be Guided .

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2 .. Your Boyfriend told you that you're the only Flower in his Garden, and you blushed? Which Garden has only one Flower? Be Guided

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3 .. If people can use "LOL" without even laughing, Surely, they can use "I Love You" without even loving you. Be Guided.

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4 .. So many Stupid people are using Smart Phones.. Don't allow illogical comments or post get in your nerves. Be guided.

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5 .. Love was never meant to be easy. Whether in finding it or keeping it. Mind you, Love alone is never enough. Be Guided.

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6.. .. Some People come into your Life as a Blessing, others as a lessons. Be Guided.

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.7. .. To Heal a Wound, you need to stop touching it..

RANDOM FEELINGS

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1----I think we all have that one somebody who we love just a little bit too fucking much

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2---- Shit gets so much easier in life when you learn to stop walking miles for Cuckoo that wouldn't cross a street for you. Try it!

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3-- --- Being married someday is going to be so cool. like you get to come home to your best friend every single day and just do life together.

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4 If you leave someone at least tell them why, because what’s more painful than being abandoned is knowing you aren’t worth an explanation.

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5 ----- When you're right, no one remembers. When you're wrong, no one forgets.

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6 ---- If you wait until you're ready, you'll be waiting the rest of your life.......And Don't wait for the perfect moment, take the moment and make it perfect.

FUNNY TRUTH

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1 -- Be Friends with People who help you plug phone when you are asleep..

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2 ----- Guys will gather and play Video games in a relaxed mood. The minute a cute girl walks into the room, the game becomes a World Cup Final.

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3 ----- They say so many People die bcoz of alcohol. Perhaps they never realized how many of them are born bcoz of it.

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4-- -- Once a girl decides you are her friend, you're no longer a dating option. You become this complete non-sexual entity like her brother or a lamp.