BE YOUR SPEC'S SPEC!

Everyone has taste irrespective of who you are, where you come from, what you do or what you've been through.

There are specific things that tickle your fancy more than others.

You owe no one any apology for having those choices. It's your right.

When it comes to making choice of a partner, you still reserve the right to go after your choice (spec) but where many lose it, is failing to be a worthy compliment of what you admire or desire from the other party.

So I ask, are you your spec's spec?

You like highly hygienic women but you've worn one boxers for over a week now. Your house has not been swept for a month. Your Jean trousers have not smelled water for 3 months now. Thanks to brush, you just brush, fling it and off you go yet you are planning to bring someone's daughter to come and bear the torment of the smell that oozes out from everywhere. Yuck!

You like men with 6 packs, very athletic and smart yet your own stomach is like Innoson's latest version GP tank. No hanty! Be your spec's spec!

If you desire a rich man,as a woman, you have to build yourself in preparation to meeting such a man, by working hard, acquiring skills and above all, acquiring the right knowledge.

If you desire to marry a virtuous woman, build yourself as a virtuous man or you think a man doesn't deserve to have virtues simply because the Bible didn't dedicate a whole chapter for it?

Whatever you desire and want from your partner or people in general...be that first!!!

"When we are willing to be the change we imagine, we have already opened the gate for positive change in our Partners".

Don't expect too much from your partner when you have not built yourself up for a worthy compliment!