When you hear things like "a man must cheat no matter what you do", my sister it is a scam. Until you understand and accept that men are not created like women, you will continue to join this bandwagon. Most men won't cheat if they have peace of mind and respect from their wives. Because of over familiarity and knowledge of his weakness, you disdain him but when he gets to the office a woman like you treat him like a king, when he goes to the restaurant the ladies there respect him, if he goes to the shopping mall they treat him the way you have never treated him before, the house help treat him like semi god and when he gets to gathering, he's seen as a man of honour by other ladies. But when he gets home, you disrespect him, nag him, insult him and make him feel less of what they made him felt about himself outside. Gradually he starts enjoying the company of those ladies, he stays a little bit with them than coming home. That's the time you start complaining he's coming home late. Even if those ladies didn't give him sex, he begins to see them better than he sees you and in no time he gets attracted to them, he starts giving their needs attention and unconsciously those ladies start to get indebted to him. At this stage, all he needs to sleep with them is just a word or an enclosed room. Because these ladies don't know his weakness like you know, they will treat him well so he can stay with them.
Madam, let me tell you the truth, it's not every man that wants to cheat. Cheating is capital intensive, but some of these side chicks know how to give value for money spent on them but you see it as your right and most times abuse it. Before you say I am encouraging men to cheat, let me ask you ma, is your husband happy at home? Do you appreciate his little efforts to make the family stay happy? Or you make him feel worthless and irresponsible because he is not able to do for you what your friend's husband did for her?
The same way you need love and attention, the same way he needs respect and sex. If you can not meet up with his desire for respect and sex be ready to open the door for side chicks.
I know many women will throw stones at me over this piece...........AIR YOUR VIEW... NO INSULT
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