showing concern on marriage

Please before you start showing concern on marriage show concern on my dreams. Just as I do to myself I advice every young guy here to be careful who you tell your dreams. If you tell your dream to a small mind he will or she will kill it. To every young girl here I urge you to take sometime and study your guy. Before you throw away the engagement find out his dreams. What kind of family do he want to have. Has he gotten enough money to fond that? Let me tell you something. Women have a biological clock frame like the age she wants to marry and the age she want to stop having pregnancy and stuff's like that but men has Financial clock like how much he has in his bank account. The investment he has. How much can he provide for his wife, is he ready to have and provide for a baby. Please give your man some space to catch up because until a man is able to determine who he is, where he is which determines how much he makes he is incomplete as a man. The best you can do for him is to step in and help him up the ladder 🪜 of his dreams. Take Note of this; check how responsible your guy is, check how much he sticks to his words and the effort he put in pursuit of his dreams. From this two factors you can figure out his kind of man and know if he will dump you when he arrives. Be very conscious of lies as grow. The worst foundation any relationship can haves is lies. Infact confidence in an unfaithful man or woman in time of trouble is like a foot out of joint. Be guided on whom to chose