Wednesday 8 December 2021

Right To cheat?

THIS WRITE UP IS NOT TO ENCOURAGE CHEATING ON MEN BUT YOU LEARN FROM IT..
Read This Carefully let learn everyday is not about sex.
A man can cheat on his woman and still love her but a woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him. I say this because while men do not have sex with emotions, women can't have sex without attaching emotions to it. This is the reason men simply need a place to have sex while women need a reason to have sex.
Most women who take their husbands to court for divorce are those that cheat on their men. A non cheating woman would most likely never take her husband to court for divorce, unless the man exceedingly abuses her physically and emotionally to the point of killing her.
Men don't equate sex with love. A man can have sex with another woman but still doesn't love her. That's why women who fell in love with married men find it difficult to find happiness in those relationships as they are just being used by those married men. But once a married woman starts sleeping with you, she can even narrates some hidden secretes concerning her husband and she will even tell you why she hates him (her husband). She can even accept poison from you to eliminate her husband.
For men, sex and love are two different things. But for women, sex and love are one and the same things. For men, sex comes first before love (infatuation), but for women love comes first before sex (true love). Therefore, once your woman starts having sex with another man/men, her love shifts from you to that man and she can even start giving that man the best food and love than she gives you.
The fact that your man is cheating on you doesn't mean he has stopped loving you. But I can't say the same for women. Once a woman starts cheating on you, she has fallen for someone else and you people will never live the same again. And she can even kill her husband once she starts cheating on him.
If your wife starts cheating, you should be a lucky man not to die in less than 10 years. It has been found that 95% of women who cheat wish their husbands dead. That is the main reason why it is dangerous for a man to continue staying with a wife who cheats on him. That is why is now encouraged everywhere in the world including in the Bible, for a man to divorce his wife only once she starts cheating on him. Cheating women are more deadly to husbands than ordinarily criminals or weapons. There are many cheating women in the world who invite criminals to break into her house at night only to come and eliminate her man and police officers plus relatives can't detect this as the same woman tend to moan more than any person at the funeral so as to attract sympathy and hide her evil acts.
That's why psychologists discourage women,more than men, from cheating.
Women can't handle the emotional conflict that comes with cheating.
That's the reason an observant and intelligent man will notice that his wife has started cheating on him once he starts doing it because most women tend to lose respect to their husbands and try to avoid sex with them in most times.
Cheating Women will even be giving excuses for not wanting to have sex with their husbands. Study has revealed that nearly 90% of women who cheat find it hard to have enjoyable sex with their husbands, again an intelligent man will detect this once his wife's behavior with regard to sex start changing. But a dull man can never detect this and always tolerate fake excuses from his cheating wife until he is completely eliminated.
Study has shown that every relationship begins to flounder once a woman starts cheating. There are many men who cheat on their partners but still show them true love. But it is very hard to find a relationship in which a woman is cheating and things still remain the same.
I repeat, nearly 100% of cheating women wish their husbands quick death or divorce to have unlimited sex freedom while nearly 100% of cheating men can't wish their wives quick death or divorce. That is why most men cant allow their wives to be physically or verbally abused by their girlfriends. Men will always stand for their wives.
A man would cheat but still love and respect his wife, but the opposite is true with cheating women.
Once your wife starts sleeping with other men/man, just know that your death is near.

HEALTH IS WEALTH5 THINGS EVERY WOMAN SHOULD DO AFTER SEX TO KEEP THE VAGINA CLEAN AND HEALTHY

FOR MARRIED ONLY.....

When it comes to the passion play, we all know what we need to do. The teases, the foreplay, using protection, feeling safe all of this is something we are confident about.
After a night of passion, maybe all you really want to do is cuddle up to your partner. But there are a number of important things you should do after passionate play. If you’re wondering what you should do after bedroom play for your health and safety, here is the list of the most important ones.
1. Drink Water
Passionate play is definitely an exercise and you need to keep yourself hydrated post the act! Water is amazing for your body to help hydrate after all the sweating. This also allows you to have more water content to pee and remove whatever bacteria or infections that could be blocking your urinary tract.
2. Pee immediately after intercourse
Even if nature doesn’t call after sex, women who suffer from regular UTIs should use the bathroom, recommends Alyssa Dweck, M.D., an ob-gyn from Westchester, N.Y., and author of The Complete A to Z for Your V. “When you have intercourse, bacteria from the rectuml which is in very close proximity to the urethra and the vaginacan get close to the urethra and can cause an infection, especially in women who are prone to UTIs,” says Dweck.
3. Avoid hot water bath
After a night of passion, it’s good to take a shower, but don’t fill up the tub with water. Infections can enter the body through the vaginal openings that are widened by the use of hot water. To maintain good health, stay away from this.
4. Avoid soap
This may not sound well with you, but the fact remains. Your vagina won’t benefit from using soaps and shower gels. In order to avoid irritating and drying your vagina, you should only use water, as your vagina has its own self-cleaning system. This has a long-term influence on many people.
5. Always let yourself dry off after you take a shower
After taking a shower, always allow yourself to dry off before putting on your clothes. Make sure your private regions are dry and warm before putting on your underwear, since extra moisture and warmth is a breeding ground for infections. This is a common blunder made by women, so stay clear of it.
If you’re wondering what to do after bedroom play, it’s wise to get in the habit of taking these precautionary steps. Remember, it’s all for the sake of your long-term health and your partner’s.

“I HAD SEX WITH MY MOTHER TO SAVE MY MARRIAGE”


– Man Boldly Reveals And Causes Massive Reactions
In this world the little we can do to help one another is to show love and advice anyone we see or hear going through difficult situations and need an advice to move on in life.
A gentleman shares his sad story on social media and asked for people’s advice.
According to this gentleman, his mother always showered praises on him and kept telling him how handsome he was. He said, this continued for a very long time that sometimes, his father complained about that due to how the mother sometimes touched him. One day his mother told him because of how handsome he looked, she would not allow any women to have sex with him first before her. She said it like a joke so he also had no problem with that.
One night while his father was away on a business trip, his mother came into his room in her pants, he was shocked to see his mother in a pant. According to the gentleman, his mother threatened not to allow him marry any one if he did not have sex with him.
Well, he took it as a threat but did not know what came over him to have sex with his own mother. This continued for a long time but he refused to tell the father. Some year’s later, he told his mother he wanted to get married and she responded okay.
The morning before his wedding day, his mother told him to meet her at a hotel, when he went there his mother told him to have his last s3x with her else she will destroy the wedding. Well, he couldn’t refuse because he wanted to save his marriage, so he had s3x with his mother on his wedding day.
According to him, this is still continuing even after he got married, he meets her up to have s3x. Now, he is confuse whether to continue doing that with the mother to save his marriage or tell the wife about that
WONDER SHALL NEVER END

THE NAKED TRUTH ABOUT LIFE TO EVERY SIDE CHICKS


1. He drops you off and drives back to his wife and kids.
2. He throws away used Condoms as he goes home.
3. He buys sweets to clean your fragrance no matter how expensive it can be.
4. He forgives himself for cheating as he is driving to the mother of his Children.
4 He first takes shower to remove your unwanted sweats.
5. He then convinces him self that he can't leave his Wife and Children because of you.
6. He hugs her and ask his children about education.
7. He eats food cooked by his wife not two pieces of KFC he bought for you.
8. After eating he relax on the couch, and they both go to the bedroom.
9. They discuss about the future while she is lying on his chest.
10. Then they make love (Not sex which he had with you).
11. He doesn't take bath after it because he is used to that Aroma of his Wife.
12. She continues lying on his chest while discussing their investment, policies and planning their Anniversary.
13. And you are alone struggling with sex because he just did a fast.
14. He gave you k1000 and your Mother is boasting that she has a discplined daughter not knowing that you are slowly turning to the resting zone of a bored Husband of some one.
My sister it is not too late, know your values and have goals that Man will never take you anywhere. Find your own Man and God will surely bless you.
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Dominic Etok
You make point there
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Moddy Mwaka Chewe Phiri
Perfectly said, more volume
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Ogechi Joy
But is it most they will have
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Faridah Nakayiza
Huhuhihihi kerp consoling urselves. I ll be fine
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Roseline Obiorah
Tell them ooooio if only they will hear
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Bawuah Solomon
i like it
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Judith Ekene
Beautiful
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Habibat Lawal
That means those side chicks are not worthy to be a wife or husband material,as for me,I will never be a side chick to anyone but remain wife material as already being
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Patrick Effaodu
Side chicks sre helpless waiting invain for their rightful suitors n none is forthcoming . Men no longer marry on time bcos they do not want to go into marriage unprepared. Also side chicks prefer what glitters n so turns down proposals of a still struggling suitor that wishes to start marriage at any cost. So these are the dilemmas of the side chick !

Tuesday 7 December 2021

FROM THE TABLE OF THE ERUDITE*NEVER EVER FORGET THESE LESSONS OF LIFE*


*1. Always remember that you can grow without destroying others.*
*2. Always remember that your dreams can be fulfilled without sabotaging others.*
*3. Always remember that nobody must go down for you to rise.*
*4. Always remember that nobody must be shamed or embarrassed for your smile to be sustained.*
*5. Always remember that while others are rising, you can also rise.*
*6. Always remember that finding satisfaction in the pain of others will never bring you true happiness.*
*7. Always remember that what you wish others is a prayer for yourself.*
*8. Become the good fire that genuinely lights up others, not one that ruins the joy, goodwill, and expectation of others.*
*9. Never take delight in causing pain or sponsoring the tears of another.*
*10. Never ever use your position in authority to punish others for fear that your position would be taken from you. You never know tomorrow. Life is uncertain.* *Also,never use the position you occupy today to frustrate others, for you never can tell what the future holds tomorrow.*
*11. Allow the true FEAR OF GOD to guide your days, STRENGTHEN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS and SET YOUR COURSE.*
*This is the path to true peace, lasting influence and meaningful living!*
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This is a lesson for all....
He who has ears let him hear,

HOW TO DECIDE WHETHER TO MARRY A MAN WITH CHILDREN.


Falling in love with someone can be more complicated as we age and change relationships, bringing our past lives in tow.
When a relationship has to take account of someone else's children as well, it can be a difficilt decision for you to make and should not be one that is taken lightly.
Coping with someone else's, especially when you are not raising children, can be an abrupt and disruptive change in life.
Be conscious that the road ahead will not be smooth running but you have taken time to do the ground work and you are fully aware of what might be ahead, it should be a journey filled with love, dedication and the determination from both you and your spouse to be, that is going to work.
First, understand that you will never replace their mother, so do not try second, understand that the children are probably still grieving.
Give them while still being a step-parent.
Continue making them needs and putting them to sleep if they want to cry, let them listen to them.
Some of them may throw temper, remember, everyone grives differently.
Try to understand that, the child/children will not agree for a while to him replacing his/her mom but try to explain that you are there to help them both.