Why should strong people never be taken for granted?

 

Being strong means being determined and strong-willed: you try to deal with your life situations and events with courage and strength without expressing your difficulties to everyone around you.

Strong people keep their problems and suffering to themselves, so they usually have to deal with more hardship because they don’t get the required attention. No one sees their pain, even if they are deeply hurt. But they often need to open up and share their emotions.

If you are such a person, make sure you open your heart to those who can understand and if you know such a person, listen to them. In the end, we are all humans, just with different capabilities. We may cultivate our strength to overcome, but when we get wounded, it does hurt.

How does gratitude help us to feel happy?

 

Being grateful means that we appreciate what we have in life. It gives us a sense of inner well-being, and we feel joyful.

One of the reasons for unhappiness in many people’s lives is a lack of appreciation for what they have. They get so focused on achieving a particular goal in life that they can only feel happy once they achieve it.

Appreciate your life, feel proud of your accomplishments, feel thankful for your relationships and be glad for every moment. To feel happy, you don’t need to achieve everything you want but appreciate what you have in life.

“Believe.It will take you

 

closer to your dreams”.

A dream might appear far away from you, but when you believe, getting closer to it seems possible.

At times we want to achieve something, but every time we make an effort, we always doubt the outcome. When the mind is doubtful, it reduces its willingness to try and explore and limits its ability so it accepts defeat easily, but when the mind believes, it perseveres until it accomplishes.

Believe in your dreams, think it is possible and trust you can get there. No matter how hard it seems and how rough the path is, you will still make it.

LIVING AS CHRIST WOULD DO IN A CHRISTIAN HOME

⏰Tuesday of the Thirtieth Week of Ordinary Time 2 (25 Oct. 2022)

📖Eph 5:21-33; Ps 128:1-2, 3, 4-5 (R.v.1a); Luke 13:18-21

🎤LIVING AS CHRIST WOULD DO IN A CHRISTIAN HOME

Beloved friend, in order to appreciate what St. Paul did in Eph 5:21-33 better, we need to understand the context under which he was writing. At that time, the institution of marriage was under great abuse and threat - men were divorcing their wives at will so that they can marry another, maybe better and younger, and the young girls were now refusing to go into marriage since they are treated as objects that can be used and dumped.

All those abuses can be linked to a wrong foundation upon which marriage is built in their head. Hence, in that chapter where he had begun a call to an imitation of God, St. Paul noted that marriage should also be lived in imitation of Christ, who proved his love for the Church by laying down his life (see 1 John 3:16) for the sanctification and redemption of the Church (Eph 5:25-27).

So, it is a call to mutual pure and sacrificial love devoid of any deceit. It is also an awakening call to us in our world today where marital love have been sacrificed on the altar of multiple selfish interests like having children and quest for material possessions. We need to get back to original intention for which marriage was Instituted in the first place - companionship (cf. Gen 2:18-24).

We must not pretend to think that marriage is a very simple life to embrace anyway. There are times when all efforts to make it work appear to be futile. However, the presence of God, who Instituted it can usher in the desired miracle (see John 2:1-11).

Moreover, through the twin-parables of the Mustard Seed and the Yeast (cf. Luke 13:18-21), Jesus encourages us to embrace the spirit of patience and perseverance as nothing good comes easy.

The mustard seed is a very tiny seed that has the potentiality of being a very big shrub, but it needs the faith and patience of the planter to actualize that potentiality.

Are you facing a hard time in your family at this moment? Do you have faith that God can turn things around for you? Are you patient enough to wait for him?

Remember that those who wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength always (cf. Isa 40:31) and they are like Mount Zion that cannot be shaken but stands forever (Ps 125:1).

As we place all our hope in God, may he save us from all situations that try to harm us, especially in our family lives, through Christ our Lord. Amen. 

Have a great day ahead. It is well with you. 

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DEADLY SINS to be defeated

1)Defeating pride, Prov 16:18-19

2)Defeating Anger, Matt5:21-26

3)Defeating lust Matt 5:27-30

Sexual sins are many lesbianism, bestiality, pomography, home sexuality,  phone sex, sex testing and all ungodly sexual practice .If you have ever had any abortion , shed innocent blood or sacrificed innocent blood for money 

Please repent now

you even allowed your daughter to be messed up because of millions that will be giving to her during her marriage 

Please repent and flee away from sin

MEN MEN MEN

Men,

1. You learn a lot by being silent. Silence is full of answers. The solution to a lot of your problems will only be found when you learn to sit alone in silence without distraction or stimulation.

2. No relationship is worth damaging your mental health. Your mental health should always be your number one priority.

3. Normalize not telling everybody everything. They don't need to know every detail.

4. No success until you accept the pain of discipline.

5. Dating someone that believes in you is so important.

6. Delete everything in your mind that is not moving you forward. All negativity, including any self-doubt or negative self-talk, fear, worries, negative thoughts.

7. Be real, not perfect.

8. Never ever lose yourself again for anyone.

9. You can literally come back from anything. It’s all about your mindset.

10. don’t trust people’s words, trust their actions.

11. Risk is far better than regret. Choose risk over regret every time.

12. Learn to accept the truth, no matter how bad it hurts you.

13. Be a private person. Live peacefully.

14. Don’t let nobody play with you twice.

15. Comfort zone kills your potential.

16. Control your emotions. Learn to react less. Have an objective view.

17. Choose people that choose you.

18. At your lowest, you realize a lot. Life’s best lessons are learnt through pain.

19. Accept the situation and move on.

20. Once you feel avoided by someone, NEVER disturb them again.

21. No regrets, just do better next time. 

22. Don’t trust people. People can change.

23.  Do it alone. Do it broke. Do it tired. Do it scared. Just do it. Keep going. Keep fighting. There might be obstacles but never quit.

24. Fall in love with souls, not faces or ass.

25. Expectations can mentally destroy you.

26. Have this mindset, “I can and I will.”

27. Not invited = Don‘t go. Not told = Don‘t ask.

28. People who want to see you win, will help you win. Remember that.

29. The more time you spend in nature, the less negative thoughts you have.

30. No matter what the situation never let your emotion overpower your intelligence.

31. If you want to grow as a man, become more ruthless and decisive.

32. Men that masturbate lack purpose.

33. The strong will encourage you to be strong. The weak will drag you down to their level. Choose your friends wisely.

34. You cannot control the actions of others, and trying to is futile. The only person you can control on this planet is you.

35. If your life sucks, the absolute WORST thing you could do is join a community of men who have the same problem as you and no solutions.

36. Spend less time reading forums and watching tutorials. Spend more time trying and failing. Experience is the most effective teacher.

37. Life is not easy. Good things cannot come out of thin air.

38. A boy becomes a man when he develops a set of principles he is willing to take to the grave with him.

39. We all die in the end, do you really think it matters what people think of you? Nobody cares about your story until you win, so win.