Are you creating beautiful memories with your loved ones?

 

Relationships may go through ups and downs, but in the end, how we make each other feel is how we remember the time spent with each other.

Most relationships suffer because people are either not fully present in their relationships or do not understand the simple needs of their loved ones. The simplest need of anyone in a relationship is care, understanding and support without which people feel alone.

Be there for your loved one so that not only is that moment beautiful, but every moment they think about it becomes beautiful.

Experience unpleasant situations

 

We all have experienced unpleasant situations in our lives. Sometimes these unpleasant situations or people occupy our minds so much that thinking about them also makes our present unpleasant.

There is no doubt emotional pain lasts longer, but it won’t heal unless you stop thinking about it and stop imagining how things might have been if it didn’t happen the way it did. To let go, you must accept that you had no control over that situation or person. Things happen, and there is always a reason.

Never live in your past; only learn from it. You can't erase unwanted memories, but you can create more beautiful ones to allow the old ones to fade away.

Simple and transparent

 

Being simple is about being transparent in your thoughts and actions. You neither judge anyone nor hold anything against them. You do everything with good intention and purity of heart.

Sometimes we meet people and feel so comfortable and at ease with them. Being with them, life seems so positive and vibrant. This is because when the intentions are clear, we connect with their soul and connecting with soul is always uplifting.

Be simple. It is effortless. All you have to do is be your true self.

For most of us, our relationships are the source of joy and even pain.

 

For most of us, our relationships are the source of joy and even pain.

If you are in a state of mind where you easily get affected by others, you need to make changes in yourself so that you are able to deal with your emotions without breaking apart. Try to find a way how you can avoid things that bother you, may be an argument or a conflicting situation, develop patience, work on your own anger and above all learn to let go.

As long as any relationship is not causing physical or mental harm, if you want to keep that relationship, it is best to address the problems before it tears you apart.

Is your life controlled by other people's opinion?

 

People will always have opinion. You can always consider someone’s opinion but if you let them control your life, you lose your freedom.

Most of people make decisions of their life depending upon what others will think of them. When we do anything just to please or prove others, we do not it with joy. Even after giving up our happiness, some disapprove of us. So neither we live fully nor we make everyone happy.

Live your life guided by your thoughtful self. Listen and learn from others but don't make decisions because you will be judged by others. Think what's right for you and what makes you happy. It is your life, don't let others stop you from living the life you want.

Why should you never feel disappointed with yourself?

 

Having strong self-esteem is essential to overcome any challenge in life. When the mind becomes doubtful about its abilities, it easily loses hope and gives up on itself.

Sometimes, when we are unable to achieve what we want, we feel incapable. If people around us are unsupportive and bring up our weaknesses, it can further create self-doubt in us; we may feel unworthy and just end up giving up on ourselves.

Believe you can do it, accept your weakness but look into ways to improve yourself. As long as you have your own support and you work on making yourself better, you can make anything possible.