EMOTIONS VERSUS COMMONSENSE.... ...

1 💭.. Falling in love and being in a Relationship are two different thing. 

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2 💭..  Females like it when you're overprotective,  NOT Possessive.  There's a thin line➖ 〰 between the two. 

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3 💭..  True love it's not Love at first sight, it's feeling the same at every sight. 

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4 💭...  It's not hard to find someone who tells you they Love you, it's hard😢 finding someone who actually mean it. 

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5 💭..  Falling for the wrong person doesn't makes you stoopid👎.  At times, the Wrong person says🗣 the right thing from the beginning of the relationship. It's hard not to fall when that person pretend to be everything you wanted. 

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6 💭.. A Real man only lies to his woman when he want to surprise her

*WHY A MAN FINDS IT DIFFICULT TO FORGIVE A WOMAN WHO CHEATED ON HIM*

Forgiving a cheating woman is an argument that has been raised for many years and different people have come up with different reasons why they feel most men don't really want to forgive their woman when they cheat on them. 

It is very rare for a man to forgive a woman who cheated on him but you can find a good number of women who have forgiven their man after he cheated on them.

_Why do most men find it difficult to forgive a woman who cheated on them:_

*MEN ARE GENERALLY POSSESSIVE*

Men are naturally possessive, protective and extremely jealous of anything that belongs to them, men hate to share especially when it comes to something they love. So, when a woman cheats on them, the woman loses his possessiveness, without which he wouldn't want to have anything to do with her anymore. 

*UNFORGIVENESS*

Most men don't have forgiving spirits, especially men in Africa, immediately a woman cheats on them forgiveness is far from their scripture. They immediately close up their mind and soul towards her. 

*SOCIETAL AND UPBRINGING*

In most part of the world women are seen as inferior, the society teaches men to understand that they are superior and that a woman is their property and if she cheats she has lost her rights in the family. So, men are raised with such mentality that even if he is willing to forgive her the society would see him as a weak man for doing so.

*MEN CAN'T TAKE OFF THE PICTURE OF ANOTHER MAN SLEEPING WITH THEIR WOMAN OFF THEIR HEAD*

A man is naturally moved by what he sees, If man catches his woman cheating on him, it's very difficult to get the memory out of his head, he would always vitualize the incident anytime he is with the woman, this would make him angry all the time, so most men feel like it's the best to let the woman go.

*THE AVAILABILITY OF OTHER WOMEN*

The consciousness that there are thousands of women out there for him to pick up is another reason .

EMOTIONAL ACCESSIBILITY..

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1🤷__ They say you  should never give up, but the truth is, you should give up on things or people that aren't worth it. 

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2🚶__ Sometimes, you just have to move on and realize what you gave them was more than they were willing to give you. 

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3.🤦__ Sometimes, People play hard to get to make sure that person's feelings are real. 

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4..🙋__ When you say Goodbye it doesn't end there. Feelings remain, memories linger. When it's True Love, no one really ends it completely. 

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5..💁__ Psychologically, one of the most painful Goodbye is when you know that next time you meet, the "Hello" won't be the same. 

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6..🙎__ Life is super frustrating when you always respond to what people say about you. 

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7..🧖__ Just because you care about someone, doesn't mean you'll do everything to make them happy. Don't make them take you for granted. 

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__ The funny irony of life at times, the things he will never remember are things she will never forget. 

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__ Never close your lips 💋 to those whom you have Opened your Heart ♥ to.

Business war

Dr Strive Masiyiwa had taught us to always watch business wars and learn from them 

Have you heard of Threads?  It is an app that was launched by Meta Business on Wednesday to break into the monopoly of Twitter.

Threads App functions mostly like Twitter expect some few features on Twitter that are yet to be integrated into it. 

Twitter lawyers have sued Meta too for invading their trade secrets. According to Twitter CEO, Elon Musk, he called the birth of threads Cheating.

Twitter is on hot seat now for the head to head competition that will come by Meta threads. 

How will Twitter manage this business threat by threads is what you (as entrepreneurs or business owners) need to learn from

Strategies threads will use to wrestle with Twitter is what you (as entrepreneurs or business owners ) need to observe and learn from.

I have opened an account on thread too, you can look for me and follow too (Engr YUNUSA Aliyu)

There are other business wars and head to head happening around the world. Stay updated and learn from them. That’s another way you can learn to develop your own competitive advantage.

#LetsGrowTogether #businessmindset #financialintelligence

Solemnity of the Nativity of St. John the Baptist

On the Solemnity of the Nativity of St. John the Baptist, Kaitlin Simone Davis said "yes" to serve Christ, her bridegroom and his Church as a consecrated virgin! Bishop Deshotel celebrated the Rite of Consecration of Virgins at the Cathedral of St. John the Evangelist. 

Kaitlin graduated from Mandeville High School and obtained a Bachelor's Degree in Athletic Training from the University of Louisiana at Lafayette, and is in the process of earning her Master's in Theology from the Augustine Institute. Kaitlin is the daughter of John and Faye Davis. She currently works as the Coordinator of Formation & Evangelization Outreach at St. Bernard Catholic Church in Breaux Bridge.

Three consecrated virgins are now serving in the diocese; Kaitlin Daivs, Alicia Pousson and Emily Byers.

In the Catholic Church, a consecrated virgin is a woman who has been consecrated by the church to a life of perpetual virginity in the service of God. Consecrated virgins spend their time in works of penance and mercy, apostolic activity, and prayer according  to their state of life and spiritual gifts. If you would like more information on vocations in the Diocese of Lafayette, please visit Lafayette Vocations https://www.lafayettevocations.com/

Congratulations Kaitlin!

SIX (6) WAYS MEN CAN ESCAPE POVERTY.

1. Get the right woman - Forget the slay queens and women with looks but zero brains. Get a woman who will not only support your vision but will also push you to achieve more. A woman who will inspire you to work hard and not a woman who just makes you hard. He who finds a real woman finds a good thing and obtains favour and power to create wealth.

2. Stop Taking Cheap Drinks - I have no problem with having drinks during social interaction and networking. However, when you drink cheap drinks or drink in cheap places, you hang out with cheap people who have cheap ideas and a cheap future. Big business opportunities are found in places where the drinks are expensive. In fact, in places where they sell cheap drinks, the only people you will find there are people who will be asking you for money. They even clap when you come knowing 'big buyer' has come.

3. Stop being Lazy - "Man ooh Man, why art thou Lazy?" You are too lazy for your own good. You sleep the whole day and blame the government for your poverty. "A Little Sleep, a Little Slumber, poverty shall overtake you like a political cadre in overalls". A lot of men are just lazy when it comes to making money. They have enough energy to give a woman five orgasms, but have no energy to start one organization, that's why it is so easy for men to manufacture children than it is to make even pegs for putting children's clothes on the line..

4. Know Productive Things - If you keep too much junk in your head, you get a junk life. I know a lot of men who are so sharp when you are talking about girls, about soccer and about street politics, Who is Rich who is not,Who has a good house but you can't bring a topic about investment, innovation and business, they start looking at their phone, yawning or saying bye.. Useless things, videos and memes go viral fast than constructive things.. A man must know how to do at least one productive thing (have one skill) even without having gone to college.

5. Get Connected to Big Men Who are better than you - A lot of men are failing because they are not mentored. They don't have anyone to whom they can sit down and listen, with obedience. In the old days, old men would sit young men down and show them how to hunt and kill animals... and no man was considered a man enough until he has personally killed an animal... now these men of nowadays are not mentored and can't even kill a bird. There are men out there who have made it in life, find a way to get mentored by big men who are making waves and impacting people in our community.

6. Work - Stop Spending your whole day just praying and fasting yet you know that both Quran and Bible tells you that God will bless the work of your hands. Yes yes The blessing finds you on your way doing something,Stop using Prayer as an excuse not to work. Work hard.

It’s an error for your pockets to be empty and your brain to be empty too.