Monday 18 September 2023

15 BENEFITS OF KEEPINGYOUR LIFE PRIVATE



1. The less you share, the less likely
people will be in your business.
2. You'll stop caring about people's
opinion about your life.
3. You won't have to seek validation
to do what feels right for you.
4. You'll attract peace into your life.
You'll experience less drama, toxic
energy and more time alone.
5. If everyone is your friend, you've a
problem. You can't trust anyone with
personal information.
6. The real flex is being private, staying
low-key and telling no one about your
life.
7. It'll be 10x easier to walk some paths
alone to achieve your personal goals.
8. Privacy teaches you independence
and how to connect with people on a
deeper level.
9. Everyone leaves. You'll learn how to
be alone and not feel lonely.
10. When you build in silence, people
won't know what to attack.
11. People don't care so much about you.
They only care on what you can offer.
12. People will want to know more about
you when you talk less of yourself.
13. You'll owe no one any explanation
about your personal life.
14. Not everyone is your friend, live a
private life to never attract bad
energy.
15. You'll learn when to be alone and
when to be with others. 

Credit Owners// Sir.Calvin Ochieng

BE CAREFUL... BE CAREFUL 🀷......


1🀷...Some people will only "love you" as much as they can use you. Their loyalty ends where the benefit stop.
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2πŸ’˜..--- You can listen to Promises, but to avoid Disappointment, Trust Actions, not Words.
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3πŸ’..--- Don't Judge People by What you See, bcoz you only see what they Choose to show you.
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4πŸ™†---- Never make Someone Your Everything, coz When your Everything is Gone, You have NOTHING!
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5πŸ’”--- Don't safe a Permanent Place in your Heart for Someone Who Only has Something Temporary in Mind for you.
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6🀫---  Jealousy is the Spice of any Relationship, When it is too much, Its a Poison..
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7πŸ™…----  The more time you spend with the Wrong Person, The Less time you have for the Right one.
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8⚡----  Don't compare your Chapter 1  to Someone else's Chapter 20

Saturday 16 September 2023

ADVICE TO ALL EMPLOYEES πŸ€


1. Build a home earlier. Be it rural home or urban home. Building a house at 50 is not an achievement. Let all your family have good time in your house, build more memories in your home. 
 
2. Go home. Don't stick at work all the year.  You are not the pillar of your department.  If you drop dead today, you will be replaced immediately and operations will continue.  Make your family a priority.

3. Don't chase promotions.  Master your skills and be excellent at what you do. If they want to promote you, that's fine if they don't,  stay positive to your personal.
development.

4. Avoid office or work gossip. Avoid things that tarnish your name or reputation. Don't join the bandwagon that backbites  your bosses and colleagues. Stay away from negative gatherings that have only people as their agenda.

5. Don't ever compete with your bosses.  You will burn your fingers.  Don't compete with your colleagues, you will fry your brain.

6. Ensure you have a side business.  Your salary will not sustain your needs in the long run.

7. Save some money. Let it be deducted automatically from your payslip. 

8. Borrow a loan to invest in a business or to change a situation not to buy luxury. Buy luxury from your profit.

9. Keep your life,marriage and family private. Let them stay away from your work. This is very important.  

10. Be loyal to yourself  and believe in your work. Hanging around your boss will alienate you from your colleagues and  your boss may finally dump you when he leaves. 

11. Retire early.  The best way to plan for your exit was when you received the employment letter. The other best time is today.  By 40 to 50 be out. 

12. Join work welfare and be an active member always. It will help you a lot when  any eventuality occurs.

13.Take leave days utilize them by developing yr future home or projects..usually what you do during yr leave days is a reflection of how you'll live after retirement..If it means you spend it all holding a remote control watching series on Zee world, expect nothing different after retirement.

14. Start a project whilst still serving or working. Let your project run whilst at work and if it doesn't do well, start another one till it's running viably. When your project is viably running then retire to manage your business. Most people or pensioners fail in life because they retire to start a project instead of retiring to run a project. 

15. Pension money is not for starting a project or buy a stand or build a house but it's money for your upkeep or to maintain yourself in good health. Pension money is not for paying school fees or marrying a young wife but to look after yourself.

16. Always remember, when you retire never be a case study for living a miserable life after retirement but be a role model for colleagues to think of retiring too. 

17. Don't retire just because you are finished or you are now a burden to the company and just wait for your day to die. Retire young or whilst energetic to enjoy waking up for a cup of coffee, enjoy the sun, receive money from your business, visit nice place that you missed and spend good time with family. Those who retire late, spend about 95% of their time at work than with their family and that's why they see it difficult to spend time with their family when they retire but end looking for another job till they die. If they don't get another job, they die early.

18. Retire at your house than at government accommodation so that when you retire you can easily fit into the society that raised you. It's not easy to adjust to live in a location after spending more years at company house or at government house.

19. Never let your employment benefits make you forget about your retirement. Employment benefits are just meant to make you relax, get finished whilst time is moving. Remember when you retire no one will call you boss if you don't have a viable business.

20. Don't hate to retire because one day you will retire either voluntarily or involuntarily. 

Hope this will help you look at life positively.

By Lombe mpabalwani 
Whatsapp on:+260974064501

Thursday 14 September 2023

IRONY OF LIFE.....

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1πŸ™†----- Life is Hard.... It's even Harder when you're Stupid

2πŸ’----- Some Guys should Pray that their daughters don't run into a Guy like them.

3πŸ™‹----- 90% of What's Stressing you Today will be irrelevant in a year. Don't Lose Sleep over Petty things. Get over it, Move on!

4😜---- Sometimes, You just can't  have what you want, but it doesn't mean that you can never have it. Everything takes Place at the right Time.

HER HEART ❤️.... HER WORLD..🌐



1🀦****   LOVE... makes a girl forget that there are 1,877,922,782 boys out there. 

2🀷****   Why wait for someone who isn't worthless waiting for when you could be chasing the one person who is? 

3πŸ™****   This is the problem with getting attached to someone. When they leave you, you just feel lost. 

4πŸ’‘*****   He isn't perfect. I'm not perfect. Our feelings and our lives aren't perfect. But we love each other and thats all that really matters. 

5🀷==    When you get Attracted to Someone you will Realize What is Love. When That Someone Starts Avoiding You, You will Realize What is Life.
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6πŸ™…****    Sometimes, People Learn to Lie at Some Point, because not Everyone Deserve to Know the Truth.
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7🌈¤¤¤    It's not Hard to Find Someone Who Tells you They Love you, It's Hard to Find Someone Who Actually mean it.

GETTING THE HEART TO HALT WHEN IS HURT ❤️



1🚢----One of the hardest things to do is watch the one person you've given your everything to, walk away like it's the easiest thing in the world. 

2🀦-----In order to move on, you must understand why you felt what you did and why you no longer need to feel it. 
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3🚢------It's not hard to find someone who tells you they love you, its hard to find someone who actually means it. 

4🀷-----While he has gained 20 girls in his life that say they love him, he lost the only one that actually meant it. 

5πŸ’---- Sometimes, you just have to Move On and realize What you gave them was more than They were Willing to Give you.

6😒---- Don't be so Dependent on Someone to a point where if they Leave, you would Lose yourself