CHEATING FACTS 👩‍❤️‍👨

1 🤦****  They don't cheat with you because you're better, they cheated with you because you're okay playing second .

2 💔****  Break-ups aren't always meant for make up's, some relationships end so you can wake up. 

3 *💘***  Everybody deserves second chances, but not for the same mistakes . 

4🚶****  Most people cheat because they're too focused on what they're missing instead of appreciating what they have . 

5 💥***   Cheating is not a mistake, its a choice, if u had time to cheat, u had time to know u where wrong. 

6 🥰***   If you were happy before you met someone, you can be happy after they're gone. 

7 👩‍❤️‍👨***  It's not hard to find someone who will say they love u, it's hard finding someone who actually means it . 

8 💞***  Being in love doesn't mean you have to be together and being together doesn't mean you're really in love.

ROMANCE 102 ,💓

1 🤷.You become mature in a Relationships when you become the Solution although you didn't cause the Problem.

2 💝-----   Don’t save a permanent place in your heart for someone who only has something temporary in mind for you.

3 💔----    Sometimes it's just not meant to be, no matter how hard you try. 

4 🤷-------    I DO care.. but I act like i don't.. because i know I shouldn't.

5 💝----     Love is not what you say.  Love is what you do. · 

6 💘-----    I'm a he that needs a she, you're a her that needs a him. So together, why can't we make a we? 

🚶🙋-------   I'll never let you go, so never let me go. I will be your journey and you will be my road.

Ten tips for newly weds for retaining fire in your marriage.

1. Pray together always, a family that prays together sticks to each other. Pray for each other , bear each other's burdens, your best friend is the one who shares in your joys and your pains.

2. Prioritize each other, always treat each other as top priority, position one.

3. Protect each other always at all costs, identify threats to your marriage and deal with them speedily together, both internal threats and external  threats.

4. Play together, play with each other. There is power in playing, playing causes bonding, it enhances teamwork and bonding. Playing minimizes boredom.

5. Have plenty of time to talk, to discuss, to teach each other, to learn from each other. There is power in words. Talking is not arguments, talking is not quarreling talking is not shouting at each other. Choose your words, use special words, words of wisdom, polite words, gentle words, loving words, words of inspiration, words of encouragement, sweet words, words of good counsel and advice, words are powerful, use them to build and not to destroy each other. Do not allow unholy silence, talk and talk life to each other.  

6. Plenty of pleasure together. It's a long journey, have zero tolerance  for boredom. Within your income picnic together, party together, holiday together, dine together, plenty of  outings together, laugh together. Remember marriage as God intended it was  meant to be enjoyed not a lifetime inconvenience pain and loneliness. Have maximum fun. Have zero tolerance for a boring marital journey. 

7. Planning together and always doing things together, including the budget. Attending events together, going to church together, shopping together, bathing together, singing together, ministering together, walking together, jogging together. Unity is powerful. If God blesses you with children parent them together. Team work and team spirit in marriage is key. 

8. Pulling together without  hurting and pushing each other, be each other's keeper and helper. Have zero tolerance for pride, selfishness, violence and dishonesty. Celebrate each other, commend each other, you chose each other out of over eight  billion people, pull together peacefully, add value to each other's life. Be a good shoulder to lean on. 

9. Uphold sexual purity and  exclusivity, no room for infidelity, adultery and unholy secret unions. There is power in sexual purity and moral uprightness. Keep your marital vows no room for cheating and side chicks. 

10. Finally brethren do not get tired of learning. We all need to learn and equip ourselves for challenges ahead. Read good books on marriage, attend marriage seminars and workshops, go for counseling, learn learn learn every day. Above all learn from each other. 

Daily learning leads to daily growth. 

God bless you, may there be peace, harmony joy and plenty of laughter in your marriage. Amen.

Attorney Chuchuchu Nchunga Nchunga.

15 BENEFITS OF KEEPINGYOUR LIFE PRIVATE

1. The less you share, the less likely

people will be in your business.

2. You'll stop caring about people's

opinion about your life.

3. You won't have to seek validation

to do what feels right for you.

4. You'll attract peace into your life.

You'll experience less drama, toxic

energy and more time alone.

5. If everyone is your friend, you've a

problem. You can't trust anyone with

personal information.

6. The real flex is being private, staying

low-key and telling no one about your

life.

7. It'll be 10x easier to walk some paths

alone to achieve your personal goals.

8. Privacy teaches you independence

and how to connect with people on a

deeper level.

9. Everyone leaves. You'll learn how to

be alone and not feel lonely.

10. When you build in silence, people

won't know what to attack.

11. People don't care so much about you.

They only care on what you can offer.

12. People will want to know more about

you when you talk less of yourself.

13. You'll owe no one any explanation

about your personal life.

14. Not everyone is your friend, live a

private life to never attract bad

energy.

15. You'll learn when to be alone and

when to be with others. 

Credit Owners// Sir.Calvin Ochieng

BE CAREFUL... BE CAREFUL 🤷......

1🤷...Some people will only "love you" as much as they can use you. Their loyalty ends where the benefit stop.

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2💘..--- You can listen to Promises, but to avoid Disappointment, Trust Actions, not Words.

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3💁..--- Don't Judge People by What you See, bcoz you only see what they Choose to show you.

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4🙆---- Never make Someone Your Everything, coz When your Everything is Gone, You have NOTHING!

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5💔--- Don't safe a Permanent Place in your Heart for Someone Who Only has Something Temporary in Mind for you.

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6🤫---  Jealousy is the Spice of any Relationship, When it is too much, Its a Poison..

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7🙅----  The more time you spend with the Wrong Person, The Less time you have for the Right one.

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8⚡----  Don't compare your Chapter 1  to Someone else's Chapter 20

ADVICE TO ALL EMPLOYEES 🍀

1. Build a home earlier. Be it rural home or urban home. Building a house at 50 is not an achievement. Let all your family have good time in your house, build more memories in your home. 

 

2. Go home. Don't stick at work all the year.  You are not the pillar of your department.  If you drop dead today, you will be replaced immediately and operations will continue.  Make your family a priority.

3. Don't chase promotions.  Master your skills and be excellent at what you do. If they want to promote you, that's fine if they don't,  stay positive to your personal.

development.

4. Avoid office or work gossip. Avoid things that tarnish your name or reputation. Don't join the bandwagon that backbites  your bosses and colleagues. Stay away from negative gatherings that have only people as their agenda.

5. Don't ever compete with your bosses.  You will burn your fingers.  Don't compete with your colleagues, you will fry your brain.

6. Ensure you have a side business.  Your salary will not sustain your needs in the long run.

7. Save some money. Let it be deducted automatically from your payslip. 

8. Borrow a loan to invest in a business or to change a situation not to buy luxury. Buy luxury from your profit.

9. Keep your life,marriage and family private. Let them stay away from your work. This is very important.  

10. Be loyal to yourself  and believe in your work. Hanging around your boss will alienate you from your colleagues and  your boss may finally dump you when he leaves. 

11. Retire early.  The best way to plan for your exit was when you received the employment letter. The other best time is today.  By 40 to 50 be out. 

12. Join work welfare and be an active member always. It will help you a lot when  any eventuality occurs.

13.Take leave days utilize them by developing yr future home or projects..usually what you do during yr leave days is a reflection of how you'll live after retirement..If it means you spend it all holding a remote control watching series on Zee world, expect nothing different after retirement.

14. Start a project whilst still serving or working. Let your project run whilst at work and if it doesn't do well, start another one till it's running viably. When your project is viably running then retire to manage your business. Most people or pensioners fail in life because they retire to start a project instead of retiring to run a project. 

15. Pension money is not for starting a project or buy a stand or build a house but it's money for your upkeep or to maintain yourself in good health. Pension money is not for paying school fees or marrying a young wife but to look after yourself.

16. Always remember, when you retire never be a case study for living a miserable life after retirement but be a role model for colleagues to think of retiring too. 

17. Don't retire just because you are finished or you are now a burden to the company and just wait for your day to die. Retire young or whilst energetic to enjoy waking up for a cup of coffee, enjoy the sun, receive money from your business, visit nice place that you missed and spend good time with family. Those who retire late, spend about 95% of their time at work than with their family and that's why they see it difficult to spend time with their family when they retire but end looking for another job till they die. If they don't get another job, they die early.

18. Retire at your house than at government accommodation so that when you retire you can easily fit into the society that raised you. It's not easy to adjust to live in a location after spending more years at company house or at government house.

19. Never let your employment benefits make you forget about your retirement. Employment benefits are just meant to make you relax, get finished whilst time is moving. Remember when you retire no one will call you boss if you don't have a viable business.

20. Don't hate to retire because one day you will retire either voluntarily or involuntarily. 

Hope this will help you look at life positively.

By Lombe mpabalwani 

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