Friday, 22 September 2023

What does it mean to live life with a smile?


Smiling is not just a physical gesture but also represents resilience and inner strength.
When we live life with a smile we see positivity, goodness and hope in life. So even though we are going through tough times, we do not lose our smile because we do not let those times destroy our strength.
Face every situation with a smile of hope and strength. There will be challenges and failures in life, but once you see hope and optimism in it, you will not only get through it, but get through it happily.
Dr Bhawna Gautam


"Appreciate people, they will give their very best."


Everyone likes to be appreciated because it makes people feel that their efforts are valued. Once a person feels valued, they tend to put more effort into everything they do.
Most relationships suffer due to a lack of appreciation. It is because most people don't acknowledge the efforts of their loved ones. Lack of appreciation not only discourages a person but is also very hurtful. When we do something for our loved ones, we do it from our hearts. It involves our deep emotions. When our efforts get neglected, it creates an emotional wound. We may still keep doing it, but a lack of appreciation diminishes our enthusiasm.
Try to make people feel valued. It only takes a few words or a little gesture to show them they are appreciated. Whether someone has put a little or big effort, whether it was a little or big help to you, it is the effort that matters and every effort must always be appreciated.
Dr Bhawna Gautam

Never treat anyone as an option. Options don’t last; priorities do.

 Never treat anyone as an option. Options don’t last; priorities do.

Keeping someone your priority means that the person is important. When someone is important, you try everything possible to make that relationship work.
Sometimes people treat certain people in their life as an option.
When you keep someone as an option, it means that their presence or absence doesn't make much difference, but the reason you are still holding on to them is you are afraid that if things don’t work out and you let them go, you may not have anyone to be with.
The truth is that a person can never be an option. If they are your option, you are not with them wholeheartedly. With such half-hearted feelings, you always see problems, imperfections and a reason to end that relationship, so even if you end up having that person in your life, such relationships don’t work.
In any relationship, be involved with your whole heart. If you are considering keeping someone as an option, it is better to let them go so they can be with somewhere they are valued.

Are you letting your flaws lower your self-confidence?

 


Self-confidence comes from accepting yourself and not letting yourself feel lesser than anyone else.

The reason why most people lack self-confidence is that they become excessively self-conscious of their imperfections. It makes them feel inferior to others and makes them believe that they are not capable or worthy. It truly doesn't matter who you are, how you look and where you have come from; end of the day, we are all humans with different abilities, strengths and weaknesses. No one is superior to another.

Aim to improve yourself, but don't let imperfections lower your self-confidence. The moment you accept everything about yourself, nothing about you will seem imperfect.

ELATIONSHIP CODE 👫

 

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1 💑--- RelationSHIP sinks when there are too many Passengers
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2-💆-- Igbo proverb says;- "Mete onye di nma enyi maka olulu" (Always enter into a Relationship with someone you are compatible with, it might lead to Marriage"
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3 💁-- Ladies; until a man has actually did something to make you dislike or not to Trust him, Don't make him pay for the troubles another man caused.
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4 🙆--Relationship fails because: One Love too much, and the other Love too many.
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5 🙋--- The only people you need in your Life are those that needs you in theirs.
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6🚶--- Do not lower your standards to "Keep" anyone, Make them meet you at your level, Self-Respect is Power.
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7 -💏- Find Love with your Heart, not with your eyes.
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For successful marriage

 Below are some important keys to work on each day to make your marriage successful.

1 Communicate clearly and often. ...
Tell your spouse that you're thankful for having him or her in your life. ...
2 Make time for you two as a couple. It keeps the lovers flame 🔥 alive
3 Create some personal time to leisure and some time to plan for the future
4 Understand that it's OK to disagree , but always find a place to agree
4 Build trust. ...
5 Learn to forgive