BOTH MEN AND WOMEN NEED THE SAME THING FROM EACH OTHER

1. Both of them need respect. Yes gentlemen,  respect is not for the man alone 

2. Both of them need great sex. Yes gentlemen, sex is not all about your pleasure alone. Your wife too has sexual needs 

3. Both of them need security. Yes ladies, as the man plays his part to make you secure, marrying you and affirming you; he needs you to affirm him too.  He needs to know that you are on his side, don't seem unsure 

4. Both of them need appreciation. Yes ladies, as you desire your man to recognise and compliment what you do, big and small; he too feels good when you appreciate all that he does instead of treating him with an attitude of "Well that is what you are meant to do as a man"

5. Both of them need love. Many men try and act macho and say they don't need love, what they want is respect but actually they are scared of losing the love of their woman.  Truth is, a woman can show a man respect because of his title as a man but despise him in her heart, but a woman cannot love a man and not respect him

6. Both of them need to be understood. There is nothing that hurts as being judged or wrongfully accused or concluded upon by the one you are with 

7. Both of them need faithfulness. Gentlemen, you wouldn't want your wife to cheat on you or to take in another man as her second or third husband so why do the same to her? Ladies, you wouldn't want your man emotionally getting involved with another woman so why are you doing it with another man? 

8. Both of them need to be told "I love you" Both the man and the woman starts to notice when "I love you" is no longer said, they silently begin to doubt if they are still loved. Love must not only be done, it must also be said 

9. Both of them need to be checked up on. Ladies, it is unfair for you to always seat pretty waiting for the man to call, text or ask how you are, he needs that care too.  Be there for him. Show effort as he does the same. Many men are silently hurting and feeling alone yet they are in a relationship/married

10. Both of them don't want to be abused. No one, man or woman wants to feel physically or emotionally threatened. Do not hit, slap, throw things at, insult, mock or mimic your partner. Don't make your partner feel unsafe

11. Both of them want to be apologized to. Gentlemen, swallow your pride and ego and say sorry when she feels you have wronged her. Don't cover it up or justify it because you would lose your cool if she was to hurt you and show no remorse. Ladies, stop acting like it is always the man at fault and you are always right

12. Both of them want a partner who cares about their dreams. There is nothing that hurts as spending all your life with someone who doesn't care about what you care about. Gentlemen, find out your woman's personal vision and support her. Ladies, don't make your man feel like you want him to stop all he is passionate about just to make you happy 

13. Both of them need companionship. Forever is a very long time to spend with someone you can't have a good conversation with. Don't make your partner struggle to talk to you 

14. Both of them need trust. The relationship/marriage will go no where if you two are not trustworthy and don't trust each other 

It has never been a gender thing. Love is not a place to only think about yourself but a place to be selfless, to treat your partner how you want your partner to treat you. What you are doing to your partner you are actually doing to yourself 

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HOW TO KEEP YOUR MARRIAGE BED WARM

1. Kiss and make out with your spouse often

2. Go to bed at the same time as much as possible, not one finding the other asleep

3. Stay faithful to your spouse

4. Have pillow talks. Intimate conversations before sleeping

5. Don't argue. Always ask yourself "Are you speaking to your spouse with a smile?"

6. Put away the phone in bed. No Facebook, WhatsApp, news or business when it's intimate time

7. Praise each other's body, character and achievements in bed

8. Sleep naked if you can. If it's too cold, wear something attractive

9. Play love songs or worship music in the bedroom to set the mood for warmth

10. Make love as often as you can. Sweat

11. Take time to pray. Take turns. Today it's his turn, tomorrow hers

12. Cuddle up. Stroke each other's skin

13. Get playful and naughty. Spank, tease, gently pinch, flirt, dance, rub your butt on him, poke her butt with your penis

14. Share the same blanket/duvet

15. Sleep holding each other. Cuddling. His hand between her breasts

16. Brush your teeth. Fresh breath makes closeness easier

17. Dim the lights

18. Talk with breaks of kisses. Whisper

19. Wish each other a good night

20. Greet each other with a good morning kiss

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WHY MEN ARE CALLED "GROOM”, AND THE WOMAN “THE BRIDE” ON WEDDING DAY?.

Why is the newly wedded man called GROOM and the woman called BRIDE? A friend of mine got tired of his WIFE just about six months after wedding.

He complained bitterly to me about her and told me that he has concluded to break up with her; he went on to say that he was sure that he made a mistake. I did not respond immediately because I knew I must tell him that right thing, so I went home. And that is what birth this message.

Many MEN have broken up with their WIVES because they end up not being the WIVES that they have dreamt of. But they have forgotten that on their wedding day was when the man was commissioned for the new task.

Nobody calls the woman WIFE on her wedding day but BRIDE, because it is the man that will GROOM his BRIDE to become the WIFE. That is why the man is called ‘BRIDEGROOM or GROOM’ and the word grooming has to do with PATIENTLY NURTURING, TEACHING, TENDING and HELPING someone to become what he or she should be.

It is therefore believed that a MAN that takes a WOMAN to the ALTAR of MARRIAGE is mature enough to patiently GROOM his BRIDE to become the WIFE. The man is not supposed to just expect the BRIDE to automatically become the WIFE, she must be GROOMED. 

It is clear that many of our men have unnecessary expectations when they were getting married, they want some magic to happen to their wives, they want the wives to become what they have had in mind about who they want their wives to be; not considering the fact that the woman does not know what is on your mind except you teach her.

MEN  expectations are often too unrealistic, because they do not remember that change takes TIME and they can only expect something from someone that knows what they want.

So before you think of breaking up, have you GROOMED her? Have you given her TIME to understand you? Hope you realize that a turtle will never become a hawk? GOD often brings People that are opposites of each other together in MARRIAGE so that they can HELP EACH OTHER in their place of weaknesses. If your WIFE is weak where you are weak, then where will you get the strength that is needed? THE PROBLEM WITH MANY OF US IS THAT WE DO NOT ACCEPT PEOPLE BEFORE ATTEMPTING TO CHANGE THEM.*

Of course,  wives are not from husbands backgrounds, so it will take TIME for them to adjust. Stop trying to change her, ACCEPT her, LOVE her, TEACH her and be PATIENT with her; that is what GROOMING is all about. She is going to be your WIFE but she is your BRIDE now, so GROOM her. Stop complaining about her, she may be a TURTLE 🐢 and you a HAWK, she cannot fly so be PATIENT with her. I DO not believe that your MARRIAGE cannot work, be PATIENT and allow GOD to HELP you.

MAY ALMIGHTY GOD CONTINUE TO BE WITH US, GUIDE AND PROTECT US IN ALL OUR MARRIAGE AFFAIRS AMEN 🙏 !!!

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DEAR YOUNG GUYS AT THE AGE OF 25 TO 30

Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made.

Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow with them. 

Grow with your kids and succeed with

your wife. You will never finish making money or achieving your plans. 

You might still not succeed at your target year. So start your life early, with consistency you will grow.

My father said this to me: _When i was 25, i was talking about making billions before i marry.

Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of my life very early, But my fear was, can i really take care of her? But right now She's married with Four grown up children. 

The guy that married her was still schooling then, but had the courage. They worked hard and succeeded together. I failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry early, don't wait.

Don't make our mistakes, I see

my childhood friends play with their kids.. 

Most of them are not doing as well as me.. But they are happier with their families..

Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your

happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With

a well planned life they are happier.

Trust me it

isn't money, What is our problem? 

Build mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still we don't have those things we dreamt of, and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_

Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at that age? Their grand father.

Please young men, take my advice seriously.

Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many fault in has many good qualities if you look well.

Don't think you will get every thing before you

settle down. God can change your life in a blink, with a good and Focus

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DIFFERENT TYPES OF SEX IN MARRIAGE!

1. RECONCILIATION SEX:- Sex is a most potent weapon for diluting and difusing misunderstanding in Marriage. If you don't use SEX to settle some stubborn crisis, then you are missing out and not maximising it. In addition when you both settle a misunderstanding, the person at fault could initiate sex as a way to make up to the other who was on the receiving side of the conflict.

2. HEALING SEX:- There are some sicknesses and diseases that are cured by good Sex I mean very good Sex. Healing sex is gentle, it is full of grace and elegance. You don't rush it. Mbanu. You do it softly and it hits the bull's eye. Please Husbands, don't throw your weight on her if it's for healing, let the bed carry your weight 100%.

3. PUNISHMENT SEX:- When I counsel couples, are times I hear spouses say "Since he did that, I decided to punish him by depriving him of sex", or "since she refused me, I decided not to touch her again". That is as senseless as saying "since my child failed a Test, I punished him by withdrew him from school". It's foolishness. The wise thing to do is to give your spouse more sex as punishment rather than depriving him or her. When your husband or wife misbehaves, correct them using sex. That is the best punishment. Not slapping or fighting or public disgrace. Punishment sex is very hot. 

4. MEMORABLE SEX:- This is a very special kind of sex that you organise and plan for. Every couple must be doing this once in a while. Honeymoons should be organised at least once is a quarter (once in 3 months). If you have means, do it once a month. You book a hotel for say 3-7 days and retreat to help build your marriage. A kind of Intimacy Retreat. You mustn't go to hotel if you can't afford it. Just send the kids somewhere and make it memorable. Light Candles around and on the blue or green bulb. Use good perfume and the Angels will bear you witness.

5. QUICK SURPRISED SEX:- This is a sex that married couples should do often to build their love life. One "Quickie" is stronger than 100 Love Charms from India or Kitui. A Quickie is that very fast sex that a couple does in ODD places or in ODD position. Usually one spouse surprises the other with it. You don't take formal permission quickies. You just start it just like that. MARRIAGES WITHOUT QUICKIES HAVE QUICK PROBLEMS AND BREAK QUICK. Spouses who don't believe in surprise sex are analogue and expired. Quickies can be done in the car. Drive her to a corner and pretend as if the car didn't start. It can take place on kitchen sink or at the balcony or inside swimming pool or in garden.

6. EXERCISE SEX:- This type should happen frequently especially in the mornings. God did it that the male organ wakes up in the morning erect to greet it's Owner - the Wife. So as much as humanly possible, let every wife answer the morning greeting. God's mercies are New Every Morning. Great is His Faithfulness. Mercy and Faithfulness are co-joined twins.

7. ENCOURAGEMENT SEX:- You use this type of Sex to encourage your Spouse to do something or Not to do something. There are times he wants to do something that you think is not the best of decision, just come in the most seductive way and delay him. When he is exhausted after you have drilled him, speak softly and he will say "I didn't know that was what you were saying before, now I understand you".

8. REWARD SEX:- This is the type that you reward your spouse for achieving something unique or for exceeding expectations. Reward Sex is not just one round but extended over a period of time. Reward Sex is an open check to do whatever he or she loves. It's extra ordinary.

9. PROCREATION SEX:- This is sex you do purely for pregnancy. When you need child, the best style is the one that gives the husband maximum penetration. Support your wife with pillow is you aren't a longman. But you must make sure it is as wet as wetness can be. Sperm needs wetness to swim inside the womb. When he releases he must remain inside there for a few minutes. Don't pull fast.

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18 TRUTHS ABOUT THE WIFE'S CLITORIS

1. The clitoris is a God-created organ, created only for sexual pleasure. Don't be shy about it

2. Alot of men ignore the clitoris not knowing how powerful a woman's clitoris is

3. The clitoris is more sexually sensitive than the vagina. Ignoring it is missing out on a lot 

4. The husband's tongue and the wife's clitoris make a perfect match 

5. The husband's tongue is suitable because it is naturally lubricated and can bend and do acrobatics on her throbbing clitoris. The lubrication is good because the clitoris is senstive 

6. The fingers of the husband can also be used to rub and please the clitoris as he kisses her 

7. The husband can also rub his hardened penis on her clitoris for pleasure 

8. Playing with the clitoris is good foreplay, it makes your wife sufficiently wet to receive your hardened commando 

9. Dear wives, do not be self conscious about your clitoris. Spread your legs and let your husband see you in all your glory to play with that sweet centre of yours. A rigid and closed up wife will not enjoy love making. Confidence and freedom is attractive to your husband 

10. Dear husbands, give clit jobs as much as you request for blow jobs

11. Pleasing your spouse sexually and creatively is not ungodly as long as both of you are comfortable and enjoy it

12. Most loving husbands get turned on by sexually pleasing their spouse. If your husband loves licking you and rubbing your clitoris, don't refuse him 

13. A lot of wives wish their husbands licked them more and for longer. If your wife likes it, give it to her generously 

14. For your husband to enjoy licking you, maintain good hygiene and shave often

15. For your wife to enjoy being licked by you, maintain good hygiene, especially oral hygiene 

16. Most women climax more through clit jobs than penetration 

17. Dear husbands, if after pumping and penetration you ejaculate but your wife is yet to reach her climax, consider licking or rubbing her clit till she screams your name as she reaches orgasm 

18. Love making in marriage doesn't have to be boring

© Akello Oliech and Dayan Masinde