Thursday, 4 April 2024

DIRIMENT IMPEDIMENT TO MARRIAGE IN THE CHURCH: CHAPTER 1


A diriment impediment renders a person unqualified to contract marriage validly. Diriment originates from Latin, dirimere to hinder, to stop, or to eliminate.

Public and Occult Impediments:
An impediment is public if there are witnesses who are aware of the facts and are ready to testify to it or there are documents to prove its existence.  Hence, if an impediment is not public it will be occult.

IMPEDIMENTS IN THE CHURCH:

1. AGE:
Though generally acceptable age in most countries is 18; according to cannon law 1083: a man before he has completed his sixteenth year of age and a woman before she has completed her fourteen year of age cannot enter into a valid marriage, these ages are subject to law governing a particular diocese or even a particular state

2. PHYSICAL IMPOTENCE:
To constitute an impediment, impotence must be antecedent (before) marriage and perpetual (permanent/lasting forever).
Antecedent and perpetual impotence to have intercour** whether on the part of the man or the woman, whether absolute or relative nullifies the marriage

The impediment of impotence consists in the inability of a man or a woman to complete normally a sexu** intercour**. 

The counterpart of impotence is potency, which is the capacity to perform an act for the generation of offspring. Potency consists of erection of the peni*, penetration of vagin*, and ejaculation. For the woman, she has to possess the vagin* and the capacity to receive peni*.

3. PREVIOUS MARRIAGE:
A person bound by the bond of a prior marriage, even if it was not consummated, cannot validly contract another marriage/invalidly attempt marriage

4. DISPARITY OF RELIGION:
A marriage between two persons, one of whom has been baptized in the Catholic Church or received into it and the other of whom is not baptized is invalid. An impediment exists here because it touches the ability of the Catholic party to practice the faith with devotion and to raise the children according to Catholic doctrines.

5. SACRED ORDERS:
Impediment flows from the law of celibacy and holds for bishops, priests, and deacons.

6. PUBLIC PERPETUAL VOW:
Persons who have taken a public perpetual vow of chastity in a religious institute invalidly attempts marriage

7. ABDUCTION:
No marriage can exist between a man and a woman who has been abducted or at least detained with a view of contraction marriage with her unless the woman choose marriage of her own accord after she has been separated from the captor and established in a safe and free place.

The essential elements that lead to impediments are: the person abducted must be a woman, the abduction is done against the will of the person, and the motive is for marriage

Chapter 2 will be out 24hrs from today

Fada Emeka

๐ŸŽคBEARING TRUE WITNESS TO GOD...

⏰Thursday Within the Octave of Easter (04 April 2024)

๐Ÿ“–Acts 3:1-10; Ps 105:1-2, 3-4, 6-7, 8-9 (R.v.3b); Luke 24:13-35

๐ŸŽคBEARING TRUE WITNESS TO GOD...

"To God be glory forever and ever" (Gal 1:5).

After the healing of the lame man at the Beautiful Gate (Acts 3:1ff), the apostles must have become instant VIPs, but that did not get into their heads. They still remembered that it was through the name of Jesus that they were able to do it and informed the people so (cf. Acts 3:12ff). 

How many times do we remember to channel back the glory sincerely to God after we have prayed for people and they got their healing? Or even assisted people in charity; do we remember that every good and perfect gift we have comes from God (James 1:17)?

The greatest gift that we have however is the gift of faith, and this too we must hand on in the name of Jesus as witnesses to all things that were said about him and all that he did and all that happened about him (cf. Luke 24:48).

As we go on doing so, we are sure that Jesus would be handy enough to encourage us and clarify our doubts (see Luke 24:35-48). 

May God assist us to remember always that He is our source, and when we cut off from him, we can do nothing (John 15:5). Amen.

Have a beautiful day in union with God. Peace be with you.

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Mr Allen Onyema strategy


Air Piece to own well over 60 Air planes, worth well over N20 Trillion 

One of the questions asked Mr Allen Onyema of Air Peace was if he had considered what made other Nigeria Airline flying this new London route fail.

He said something about the National countries and their aviation frustrating you through you "Wet Lease" company and how they were asked to partner for Wet Lease and he refused. He wanted Air Peace to own legitimately the rights to enter.

In my last post, I mentioned him saying they were buying 33 more planes and some people tried to knock it off saying the planes are not owned but are on lease.

Initially, he had mentioned he bought 3 Boeing 777.

I decided to extract the following statements he made for clarity

"The other foreign companies lease their planes, wet lease and dry lease.

Give it to Nigerian Air lines, we own our planes

I own over thirty something planes and I have about 33 orders made and paid for on the line coming and at the end of the day, Air Peace will be owning over 60 air crafts....." - Mr Allen Onyema.

My followers ,now that we have eliminated the area of lease, can we now agree that some people really have money?

If you want to take the side of Other People's Money "OPM", you will have to be a courageous business beast to take over N13 Trillion from people with the hope to pay at an interest rate within a period of time.
Unu siba this Man "Congratulations ๐ŸŽ‰❤️๐ŸŒน๐Ÿ’ฏ""""
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Nathaniel Bassey, has petitioned



NEWS: Gospel minister, Nathaniel Bassey, has petitioned the Inspector General of Police, Kayode Egbetokun, to investigate and prosecute four persons whom he accused of criminal defamation and cyberstalking.

The singer submitted the petition to the IGP on April 1, 2024, through his lawyers, Peter Abraham, Uche Matthew, Gbenga Agunloye, and Anthony Abia.

Last week, four social media users alleged that Bassey fathered the son of a fellow popular gospel singer, an allegation that went viral on X.

The lawyers, therefore, urged the police authorities to urgently treat the petition against the four social media users, identified in the petition as Okoronkwo Ejike, Kingsley Ibeh, Terrence Ekot and Dj Spoiltkid.

“Our client is a gospel music minister whose songs and ministrations have impacted the lives of so many from different walks of life across the globe,” the petition partly read.

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5 QUALITIES TO LOOK OUT FOR IN A POTENTIAL PARTNER


We all have ideas, specs and ideals about the kind of person we will like to marry. There's nothing wrong with that. 


I myself there was a point in my life that I wrote down about twelve qualities I want to see in my Rose ๐ŸŒน. 


I have heard some guys say they will like to marry a woman that is a virgin, beautiful, fair, heavily endowed front and back, submissive, hardworking, well mannered etc.


I have also heard some ladies say that they will like to marry a man that's God fearing, rich, caring, handsome etc.


Whatever may be the specs, I believe there are some qualities that are basic and fundamental and these are the things you should look out for first in your potential partner. These qualities are like foundation you should build any other thing on.


They are listed below...


 1. Godliness

When I say godliness, I don't mean a lady not wearing jewelry, makeup, fixing attachments, wearing trouser, rubbing powder or a guy not wearing Jean trouser or keeping beards, I mean is the person a child of God? Is he or she truly born again and a committed member of a fellowship?


The Bible says godliness is profitable in all things. When one is godly, he can't cheat on you, lie and deceive you. The person will draw you closer to your Maker. 


 2. Love

Don't make a mistake of marrying someone you don't love or someone who doesn't love you too. When there's love a lot of things are obtainable and you can find some of them in Corinthians 13:4~8.


When you marry someone that doesn't love you, the person will be tired of you, you won't be valued and appreciated, you will be taken for granted. There's nothing you do that will seem right. Don't make this mistake.


 3. Direction

Does the person knows what he wants to do with his life? Does he have a direction for his life? What is he pursuing presently? What is his or her vision, ambition and purpose in life?


Don't marry a confused person or someone that doesn't know where he's going in life, you will end up no where and you will be frustrated in life.


 4.  Character

Character is one of the critical things that makes or mars a marriage. If he's rich or beautiful without a good character, he's nothing. Beauty is vain and riches are fleeting. 


What is the person's character like? Manipulative? Deceptive? Womanizer? Manizer? Alcoholic? Fraudulent? Etc. Check the person's character. If you marry someone with bad character, you will regret.


 5. Hardworking

You see, in this life, man must wack. I cannot come and go and kill myself by myself. I must flex o. Don't marry someone that's lazy, hunger go finish your life. Love doesn't pay bills, school fees, take you on vacation, pay house rent nor does it put food on the table, na money dey do am. Money is a major stakeholder in marriage. However, don't marry that doesn't love shey you get? 


Guys, don't marry a lady that all she knows how to do is to fix nails, eyelashes, wear latest fashions, use latest gadgets as a result of jumping from one guy to another one and carry about makeup kits but doesn't know how to make money. Marry a supportive woman. 


Ladies, don't marry a lazy man, see you see hunger, anger and frustration. You go dey see double. Don't marry a guy that knows how to complain about virtually everything, how there's no job anywhere yet people are getting jobs daily. Don't marry a guy sleeps in a gambling houses, casino, niajabet, nairabet, baba ijebu etc., he will gamble with your life.


Do you see a man that's hardworking, diligent, he will be great in life. Marry a hustling guy. 


Let me stop here, all things being equal, with these 5 basic and fundamental qualities, godliness, love, direction, character, hardworking, in a potential partner, you are go to go.


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Wednesday, 3 April 2024

LADY, CHERISH THIS KIND OF MAN:


1. Cherish the man who loves his mum. He has been brought up well

2. Cherish the man who loves to read, and not just for exams. He is wise and deep

3. Cherish the man who is funny. You will never be bored

4. Cherish the man who treats strangers and the less privileged with dignity. He has a kind heart

5. Cherish the man who listens. You will be understood

6. Cherish the man whose idea of fun is constructive, not endless drinking and clubbing. He is mature

7. Cherish the man who is a family man ready for responsibility and clear about what he wants with you. Your time will not be wasted 

8. Cherish the man who respects his father no matter how his dad is. He has learned true manhood

9. Cherish the man who doesn't insult his ex or your ex even if the break up was messy. He is someone who enters into love for the right reasons

10. Cherish the man who needs you. He will hold on to you

11. Cherish the man who lets you love him, who lets you see the nakedness of his weaknesses and strengths. He trusts you 

12. Cherish the man who accepts correction and changes his ways if he offends you. He will make himself better to love you

13. Cherish the man who prays for you. He knows you are a gift from God

14. Cherish the man who treats other women with respect. He will show you even more respect

15. Cherish the man who loves the children you and also is a father figure to those not his. That man will have an honourable legacy 

16. Cherish the man with a vision. He will challenge and build you, he knows where he is going

17. Cherish the man who has a good set of friends.You can tell the character of a man by the friends he keeps

18. Cherish the man who values intimacy above sex. He will be faithful to you

19. Cherish the man who is interested in your dreams. He cares about your future

20. Cherish the man who respects your decisions and doesn't rush you. He sees you as a life partner, not someone to dominate