7 REASONS WHY MEN WILL ALWAYS ASK YOU FOR SEX

7 REASONS WHY MEN WILL ALWAYS ASK YOU FOR SEX

(Its a bit long but Educative,take you time to read)

I want to change some ladies mindset today. (sorry I will be very raw with these).

You see, men are not dogs. Not all of them are mad. They are not all sex maniacs that once they see you, they descend on you and finish up before you could open your mouth and say no. Not all the men on the street wants to get into your pants.

I'm going to be real and down to earth with this article. The way some ladies complain that men are always asking them for sex really baffles me. Why sex, why not marriage proposal? Why do men always want to sleep with you? Why is it that every single guy who asks you out is always hitting you for sex? Why won't they marry you unless they have a taste of the forbidden fruit? What is the problem because this is a big problem! It is not something to be proud of, if all what men see about you is your body and nothing more. It is a cause for alarm!

let me take time to analyze it on a beat.

1. CHECK YOUR DRESSING

A female's body means nothing to her. You are used to seeing your breasts and every soft body part all your life. It doesn't mean a thing to you but to guys it means the universe!

Men are moved by sight. Wearing armless (exposing your shaved armpit and upper arm) can turn a man on talk less of the low neckline exposing the cleavage of your breasts. Tight trousers, tights (panty hose) which shows the shape of your buttock, mini and micromini skirts exposing your thigh all can make a man go wild! Better face reality now and mind the way you dress.

Some ladies say it doesn't matter. Men should be able to control themselves. They are entitled to what they wear. Then you should be able to control yourself when they start asking you for sex and not come here lamenting all men are dogs!

I saw a lady around a street sometime ago and I whistled. Jesus Christ! The gown (not really a gown, the top was sown together with the trouser, it was suppose to be a gown but the one down is a trouser) clung to her body like her second skin and right through the window of the car, I was literally, looking at the shape of her buttock! It was like she wore nothing! She thought she looked so beautiful but well, she looked so seductive! If she was going to visit  a male friend , it will take the power of the Most High God and the special anointing of the Holy Ghost for that guy not to sleep with her or asked her for sex.that is if a mad man didn't rape her before she gets to her destination! It was that baaad!!!

2. LEARN HOW TO SIT

Some ladies don't know how to sit. Especially the skirt wearing sisters. You sit in front of a guy and open your laps, what do you want him to see? A trance? Yeah, he saw alot of it! Always close your thigh when you are sitting whether in front of a guy or not. Not sitting very well can become a habit and follow you around. And you wonder why all the brothers in the church wants to sleep with you!

I was on a bike one day and saw a fully grown, mature lady sitting in front of her shop with her thigh thrown apart. She wore a short gown exactly like the lady in this picture and was sitting facing the express road! The whole world had a complete assess to her holy of holies, may the Lord have mercy! If men start asking her for sex, she will tell us she doesn't know why men are disturbing her.

3. YOU TOUCH MEN A LOT

Ladies who touch, hug and wrap themselves around guys are sexual magnets to sexually immature guys. Why are you always hugging and pecking, for what? Can't you talk without touching, holding and hugging someone? Some even sit on their "friend's" lap and say it doesn't matter. He is just a brother in Christ. He would soon be a lover in bed. Learn to control your emotions around the opposite sex. If you must hug, go look for your fellow lady to hug and peck and you still need to be careful. Lesbians are all over the places!

4. CALLING MEN PET NAMES

I hate it when women call me sweetheart- I'm not your sweetheart! I am sweetheart to only babe or my Wife. Some people just throw around the word babe" as if it is a second language! Why would you give all the guys in your life pet names? You say, "thanks honey," "okay sweetie", "see you dearie", "bye love", etc.,you are looking for serious trouble. Words like this turns a man on..

5. YOU SEDUCE MEN

Here, you deliberately wear provocative dresses with the intention to turn him on. You want to see whether you are sexually admirable to him and want to see how far he can respond to your seduction. You don't need that test at all. Men are turned on by women whether you seduce him or not. A woman's body is built to turn a man on.

6. YOU POST SEDUCTIVE PICTURES ON THE SOCIAL MEDIA 

When I see the way some ladies pose on facebook, I wonder what they are really looking for. Why pouting? Do you want him to kiss you? Why turn your buttick to the camera? Do you want him to see how big it is? Why focus on your chest? Do you want him to know you have firm breasts? What is the purpose of the pictures you are posting?

7. YOU EXPECT MEN TO ASK FOR SEX

Some ladies think because they are exceptionally beautiful, men will always ask for sex so it's not really their fault that they sleep around.That is a big lie from the pit of hell!

One of My mentor is an exceptionally beautiful woman with large hips. You can easily pick her out from a crowd because of her hips. She uses no makeup and jewelry yet she has a stunning face that makes any man look twice yet she married as a virgin. In fact, ...

You need to work on your mind. Thinking all men will die for you because you have a hot body is crap! Not all men lose their senses when they see a woman with seductive body. All irresponsible, immature, abusers and users do get attracted to her anyway. Mature, godly men don't get their brain twisted on sporting that type of woman.

Remember: Alright, here are the seven (7) possible reasons men may be sleeping with you or always asking you for sex each time I come across one.

I know you are sick and tired of being used and dumped. If you really desire to get married and marry right, I mean you want to attract a godly man and gloriously settle down to a beautiful marriage, you will need to work on your mindset and change your attitude towards men.Watch what you wear, how you sit, where you go and the way you behave around men. A virtous lady dresses well to cover her body and comports herself maturely around men. You will be addressed the way you dress. If they are always asking you for sex. Check what is wrong and fix it. I repeat check what is wrong and fix it...God bless us all

Men how is the volume 😂

# Remember Love is Natural ❣️ 

Class dismissed

5 MAJOR REASONS MANY HUSBANDS ARE NOT HAPPY WITH THEIR WIVES.

5 MAJOR REASONS MANY HUSBANDS ARE NOT HAPPY WITH THEIR WIVES.

 1. She wastes resources. She spends more than they earn and even go into debt.

 2. She is dirty. Doesn't bathe on time and doesn't bathe before going to bed. She smells, appears unkempt at home and makes no effort to look good, comely and attractive..

 3. She denies him sex when she doesn't feel like and he is burning with hot coals of sexual fire!

 4. She doesn't support financially. She sees his money as THEIR money but her own money as HER own money. 

 5. She doesn't serve him food on time and starve him unnecessarily for days on end!

 

Dear wives, guilty of any or all the aforementioned, please repent for the kingdom of heaven is at hand!

Fear God and pity your husband! 

Don't turn a sweet soul into an angry, malice keeping, revengeful and bitter husband!

Kindly bathe regularly, smell sweet, manage family finance, support your husband where necessary, enjoy love making and serve delicious meals at the right time!

Send me a thank you offering after reading this. I just saved one or two marriages. *Winks.*

I love you and your hubby.

May your home be blessed!

Cheers!

© Seun Oladele, 2023.

7 COMMANDMENTS FOR WIVES

7 COMMANDMENTS FOR WIVES

1. Don't compete with your husband: God placed you in his life as a supporter and help not colleagues.

2. Don't starve him sex: Sex still remains a key factor in winning your man to yourself always.

3. Don't compare him with his friends: Don't make him feel less among his friends.

4. Don't do things without his consent: Seek his approval and opinion always.

5. Don't ever insult him: Insulting your husband is the clearest proof of your foolishness.

6. Don't deny him food: After sex food remains the next exigency for men.

7. Don't leave the home and children unkempt: Neatness, tidiness and cleanliness are essentials to a man. Neatness can win you award from your husband.

With love from Papa Zion...

© Impact Breed, 2019

THINGS YOU SHOULD BE DOING IN COURTSHIP

THINGS YOU SHOULD BE DOING IN COURTSHIP

 1. Ask them why the are marrying you and set out to work on that purpose as soon as possible. The primary purpose of getting married is to fulfil your vision, others are secondary. Find out what their vision is and begin working on it together. Couples who succeed fast in marriage are those who take their future seriously since courtship. What is your vision?

 2. Pray together about your future, home, ministry, vision, career, business, etc. Use the power of two to demolish any devil that may want to tamper with your destiny! "For one will chase a thousand. Two will chase ten thousand."

 3. Ask each other serious questions about their past so you can know where they are coming from, why they act the way they do and how to help them become better.

 4. Get to know their friends and family especially family members. Study them, find out about their customs, traditions, beliefs and see how you can fit in, wisely reject what does not favour your Christian beliefs and start developing your own core beliefs together.

 5. Study your partner. Read WHY YOU ACT THE WAY YOU DO by Tim Lahaye to understand their temperament. THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES by Gary Chapman to understand their love languages and start speaking them from courtship forward.

 6. Talk about what your home will look like.

 7. Thoroughly discuss finance. How to make money, increase money, multiply mony and manage money. Discuss kingdom investments: tithe, offering, sacrificial offerings, seed sowing and other ways of growing money like investments, etc and start working towards financial freedom as early as possible.

 8. Study their weaknesses. Develop the character to relate well with them and develop conflict resolution skills.

 9. Go out together often and watch how they relate with people, things, circumstances and situations.

10. Study each other and be sure your personality agrees.

FACTS ABOUT WOMEN.

FACTS ABOUT WOMEN.

A woman will block you, delete your number and tell you never to call her again and still expect you to call her. Don't ask me how, it's only women can explain it better 💯

In the midst of argument with her, don't bother exchanging words with her because it's not her that's speaking instead listen to her and let her continue vomiting. And when she's cool, embrace her and let her know how much you love her ❤️🥰

Listen bro, a woman that truly love you will block you on Whatsp, Facebook and still use her friends Facebook account to see how you are holding up. 🤦

They may breath fire in front of you and break down in tears in a Conner 🤔 their hearts are softer than a new born babys feet's🤦 HONESTLY

Until you realized and understand that most women speak in opposite meanings whenever they are mad and angry at you, then you will forever fall in same trap of counting your Ex's.🙄

A woman that truly love you will have a fight with you sleep in the same bed with you and gave space for 10 people's in the middle and still be turning slowly to check if you turned your back at her or face her.

What am trying to say... Don't act upon angry women's words. Most of the times, that gender don't really mean what they say.

May God give our men more understanding 

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JESUS IS EVER PRESENT WITH US

⏰Solemnity of the Ascension of the Lord - Year B (09 May 2024)

📖Acts 1:1-11; Ps 47:2-3, 6-7, 8-9 (R.v.6); Eph 1:17-23; Mark 16:15-20

🎤JESUS IS EVER PRESENT WITH US

May the grace of Lord Jesus Christ, the love of God and the communion of the Holy Spirit be with you always.

Since the time Jesus began his earthly life, a lot of miracles, signs, and wonders accompanied his actions. Now, he is prepared to return back to the Father from who he had come. His impending departure was very disheartening to his disciples. Hence, he decided to explain to them the meaning of his departure.

He has ascended into heaven (Acts 1:9-11), yet he is ever present to them, as he is to us. We believe so because he said so (Matt 28:20), and no lie is ever found in his mouth since he the truth par excellence (John 14:6). In essence, his ascension only means a change in the form of his existence. Now, he is no longer going to be bound by geographical boundaries, nor contained by time nor opposed by the Jews.

Do you remember what he earlier told his disciples about his hour? He had said, The hour has come for the Son of man to be glorified (John 12:20). The truth that we celebrate today is that God has glorified him and raised him above all dominions on the earth (Eph 1:17-23).

By his incarnation, he brought the Divine into humanity, and by his ascension, he takes our body with him into heaven and reunites humanity with the divinity. He has gone to prepare a place for us so that we may also be where he is (cf. John 14:2-3). Those who belong to him will follow him.

We are privileged to be part of those he has chosen as his very own. But that comes with great responsibility. He charges us, "Go into all the world and preach the Gospel to the whole creation" (Mark 16:15). 

The content of that Gospel is found in Luke 4:18-19, where Jesus informed us that he has come to liberate us from every form of bondage. Remember that he goes on working among us (cf. John 5:17) even as he has ascended. So, he is still available to liberate you from your own confusions and life challenges. Are you going to let him work on you?

Moreover, he wants us to join him in liberating others who are having different kinds of challenges. This demands faithfulness on our part. To help achieve that great responsibility of remaining faithful to his call, he promised us the Holy Spirit (Acts 1:8). 

May this Holy Spirit fall afresh upon us and renew in us, the zeal of remaining faithful witnesses of Christ in the world. Amen.

Have a beautiful celebration in the company of the ascended Christ. Amen. Peace be with you.

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