My brother it's ok

Dear Brother.

Stop using poverty/traditional mentality to test, measure and standardize expectations from a would be Wife.

You may end up loosing a good Woman because of something that won't Matter much to you in a few years time.

My Wife must know how to pound yam (what of pounding machine?), and must know how to cook soup and stew with N500.

Your Wife should be Hardworking, that's important and non-negotiable (as should you) but "HARDWORKING" is measured beyond house chores.

Your wife should know how to manage, and be prudent, but prudence isn't only the ability to MANAGE POVERTY, but also the ability to MAKE and MANAGE WEALTH. Prov 31.

Don't be shortsighted as you seek a partner, do not use the criteria Esau used to chose porridge over birthright to chose a Wife,

Don't let your current problems, conditions and limitations blind you to the fact that where you are now is not where you will always be, you will grow, you will succeed, what is a priority to you now as a thousandnaire won't be tomorrow when you become a millionaire.

Marry a Woman with capacity to MOTIVATE, MATCH and REPLICATE your growth and success,

A Woman with Hunger and Drive for More.

A Woman who speaks the language of Greatness, not Mediocrity.

Don't measure humility only by a Woman's potential to stay under, also look for a Woman with potential and hunger for the top, MONEY MAKING abilities, not just BABY MAKING abilities.

Marry a Woman who will not only challenge and push you to greatness and success, but will herself also aspire for it, not a Woman that is very happy to manage your current condition and be pounding Yam and borning children for you till death do you part.

Selah.