Most times when a marriage is in trouble, people tend to see their marriage as a mistake rather than seeing the mistakes they are making in their marriage.
At this point they regret marrying their wife or husband.
They begin to think of a new partner.
They will begin to imagine marrying their ex or fantasizing a marrriage without issues.
Some will even divorce or remarry & later wish they had remained with their first spouse, as they find greater trouble in the new spouse.
This is because the first marriage was not a mistake & the mistake has not been discovered yet.
So, even if you remarry as many times as you like, you will still experience problems in marrriage until you discover the mistakes you are making in your marrriage & correct them.
I'm bold to say thi, ...divorce or separation is neither an option nor a solution to consider when you are having problems with your marrriage.
Come, let's reason together...
• When your car has a flat tyre, you do not abandon it, but change the tyre & move on.
Isn't awesome?
• When you have a headache, no matter how excruciating, we do not cut off the head but take care of the headache.
Isn't great?
• When a bulb blows out in the room, we do not change the room or the house, we replace the bulb & light up the room.
Isn't that wonderful?
• When we have challenges at work, we do not refuse to go to work, we go there to solve the problems.
Isn't that marvelous?
Therefore, when marriage has an issue, we don't have to try to change the spouse instead change the attitude that is creating the problem.
Most times when we see some couples enjoying their marriages & enjoying each other to the fullest, we admire & cherish them, but the opposite is seen in our own marriage.
The reason is that some people have worked on their marriage by paying the necessary price & that is why they are enjoying the fruits of their labour.
It is said, “the way you make your bed is the way you will lay on it”.
Your marriage is as good or as sweet as you make it.
Some couples, because of the negative things they are seeing in their marriage, accuse each other of being responsible. They point accusing fingers at each other for being responsible.
Some will even say many bad things about their spouse, even calling him or her names; some think that marrying that man or that woman was a mistake.
It is not so, your marriage was not a mistake, but you are the mistake.
√ Your habit is the mistake.
√ Your character is the mistake.
√ Your manner is the mistake.
√ Your lack of understanding is the mistake.
√ Your anger, unforgiveness, laziness, lack of love, lack of affection, lack of attention, impatience, bitterness, selfishness, ignorance, stinginess, not being considerate, infidelity, animosities, lovelessness & to mention but a few are the mistakes.
Talking about bitterness.
Some still dream of a marriage with their ex.
They're seeing their spouse as a stumbling block.
Come-on Sir/Ma...!
Wake up to the smell of coffee.
Be contented with your spouse.
Your behavior, habit & character is your mistake.
Get up now & build your marriage.
Your marriage is not a mistake.
Divorce or separation are never options.
My heartfelt prayer for you as we await the coming of the LORD, JEHOVAH will bless your marriage & make it the centre of kingom activities on earth.
Thanks for reading.
Have a wonderful day.
GOD bless...
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