Wednesday, 10 January 2024

You can't force someone to respect you,

 You can't force someone to respect you, but you CAN refuse to be disrespected.

So when you're with someone and they are disrespecting you, in a calm, powerful way, speak up, if that's not possible or is not in your best interest, simply walk away.
Remember this is not retreating and being a coward, it's actually being brave, loving, respecting yourself completely, and taking really good care of yourself. Calm is your superpower. It is not being a door mat.

Think of how much energy it takes to lie

 Think of how much energy it takes to lie, and then keep track of what you said, so you don't get caught.

Most people learn after a few big lies that it's so much easier and better to just tell the truth.
But how many people tell, what they consider, small "white lies" that don't really hurt anyone?
Don't be fooled thinking that small lies are harmless.
They are just as powerful as the big ones. They actually erode your self worth, take your vital energy, and cause a ripple effect in your life that causes you suffering without you understanding where it's coming from.
Your life will thrive if you are honest, and living unapologetically who you are. This is where the magic happens.
(Stop expecting honesty from people who lie to themselves.-Anthony Carter II)

How does gratitude help us feel enough in life?

 How does gratitude help us feel enough in life?

Showing gratitude means that we are appreciative and grateful for what we have. The more we notice what we have, the more we feel adequate.
Most people feel inadequate because they are not content with what they have; they look at what others have and what they don't, and they want to accumulate more and more. In doing so, they overlook what they already have and remain unhappy even though they have a lot.
Appreciate everything you have in life. If your survival needs are met, your body is healthy, your mind is at peace, and your relationships are going well, you already have a lot in life. You can aim to make more progress, but until you learn to be grateful, you'll never feel like you have enough.
Dr Bhawna Gautam

Thursday, 4 January 2024

BEST TIME TO MAKE LOVE TO YOUR SPOUSE

 BEST TIME TO MAKE LOVE TO YOUR SPOUSE

Yes, you should make love anytime you both want to but here are strategic times you don't want to miss and means the whole world to your spouse. Make your spouse feel super special during this period, enjoy love making like never before and help them overcome sexual temptation out there and stick to you -their honey pot, sweet sugar pie and paradise zone forever *winks*.
1. Before they travel.
2. After they return from travelling.
3. Second to fourth days before and after menstruation for those with regular period and wants love making without the drama of pregnancy, condom, pills or injection.
4. Ovulation period for those seeking babies.
5. All through 9 months pregnancy day in, day out as your power can carry. (Don't vomit on uncle during the first trimester sha).
6. When they are not happy.
7. When they feel so lonely or depressed.
8. On a cold rainy night.
9. Early harmattan morning.
10. During celebration e.g new job, business breakthrough, promotion, award of contract, etc.
11. When you are looking super sexy and he can't take his eyes off you.
12. When you are super charming and she is prowling all over you.
13. After settling your "quarrel".
Alright, there you go baby, go rock your lover's bed. Here you go uncle, start doing some press up and weight lifts, you need some energy to do your job during this period, laughs.
Seriously, there is no time limit or barrier to anytime you want to make love to your spouse.
Follow your schedule, rhythm passion, time table or whatever.
Don't neglect those special moments either, love making during those periods are more meaningful, deep and affectionate but each family differs. Just do what works for you.
I want you to experience uninterrupted bliss, joy and peace in every way you can in your marriage.
Keep the ball rolling!
Singles, this is STRICTLY FOR THE MARRIED, don't practice!

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Sunday, 24 December 2023

ADVICE TO ALL EMPLOYEES :


1. Build a home earlier. Be it rural home or urban home. Building a house at 50 is not an achievement. Don't get used to government houses. This comfort is so dangerous. Let all your family have good time in your house.
 
2. Go home. Don't stick at work all the year.  You are not the pillar of your department.  If you drop dead today, you will be replaced immediately and operations will continue.  Make your family a priority.

3. Don't chase promotions.  Master your skills and be excellent at what you do. If they want to promote you, that's fine if they don't,  stay positive to your personal.
development.

4. Avoid office or work gossip. Avoid things that tarnish your name or reputation. Don't join the bandwagon that backbites  your bosses and colleagues. Stay away from negative gatherings that have only people as their agenda.

5. Don't ever compete with your bosses.  You will burn your fingers.  Don't compete with your colleagues, you will fry your brain.

6. Ensure you have a side business.  Your salary will not sustain your needs in the long run.

7. Save some money. Let it be deducted automatically from your payslip. 

8. Borrow a loan to invest in a business or to change a situation not to buy luxury. Buy luxury from your profit.

9. Keep your life,marriage and family private. Let them stay away from your work. This is very important.  

10. Be loyal to yourself  and believe in your work. Hanging around your boss will alienate you from your colleagues and  your boss may finally dump you when he leaves. 

11. Retire early.  The best way to plan for your exit was when you received the employment letter. The other best time is today.  By 40 to 50 be out. 

12. Join work welfare and be an active member always. It will help you a lot when  any eventuality occurs.

13.Take leave days utilize them by developing yr future home or projects..usually what you do during yr leave days is a reflection of how you'll live after retirement..If it means you spend it all holding a remote control watching series on Zee world, expect nothing different after retirement.

14. Start a project whilst still serving or working. Let your project run whilst at work and if it doesn't do well, start another one till it's running viably. When your project is viably running then retire to manage your business. Most people or pensioners fail in life because they retire to start a project instead of retiring to run a project. 

15. Pension money is not for starting a project or buy a stand or build a house but it's money for your upkeep or to maintain yourself in good health. Pension money is not for paying school fees or marrying a young wife but to look after yourself.

16. Always remember, when you retire never be a case study for living a miserable life after retirement but be a role model for colleagues to think of retiring too. 

17. Don't retire just because you are finished or you are now a burden to the company and just wait for your day to die. Retire young or whilst energetic to enjoy waking up for a cup of coffee, enjoy the sun, receive money from your business, visit nice place that you missed and spend good time with family. Those who retire late, spend about 95% of their time at work than with their family and that's why they see it difficult to spend time with their family when they retire but end looking for another job till they die. If they don't get another job, they die early.

18. Retire at your house than at government accommodation so that when you retire you can easily fit into the society that raised you. It's not easy to adjust to live in a location after spending more years at company house or at government house.

19. Never let your employment benefits make you forget about your retirement. Employment benefits are just meant to make you relax, get finished whilst time is moving. Remember when you retire no one will call you boss if you don't have a viable business.

20. Don't hate to retire because one day you will retire either voluntarily or involuntarily. 

Hope this will help you look at life positively
John Liney