*THE TRUTH ABOUT SEX*

There is something both the aged and the infant do not know anything about.

The church also has closed her eyes on this particular issue. Nobody wants to talk about it but it is very real.

In case you are not aware my brethren, I want to tell you that: SEXUAL IMMORALITY is the last bullet the kingdom of darkness has thrown against the church of God, and the church is wounded very sore that there seems to be no cure or remedy.

I want to make it so clear and not in jargons or vocabularies that, you cannot count the number of people who go to church and proclaim the name of God, that are still living in immorality. They may either be suffering from *lust, masturbation, pornography, adultery, incest, homosexual, lesbianism, sodomy, bestiality and many more* which time will fail me to mention.

Hardly will you come across a young lady who has not been misused by 'so called boyfriends'. And every guy is now dating because of sex.

God is watching all those that are having sex with people they haven't married.

It's a headache for God seeing his own created people perishing in a sin called sexual immorality. How many young men today in the church can you count and point fingers at that fornication has not pulled down?

A pastor slept with his junior pastor's wife, impregnated her, and used the name of God to defend himself that it was God who instructed him to do so.

Sex that is supposed to be between husband and wife only, is now between father and daughter in the church, do I need to tell you there is fire on the mountain?

If sex that is only legalized between a man and his wife, is now between a guy and his girlfriend or between a man and his fiancee, do you need angels to come and sound the warning against sexual immorality?

If sex that is a sacred thing in marriage has become a desecrated thing in dating, what else do you want before you prepare the way of the Lord?

PASTOR, WHY ARE YOU QUIET?!

Cry aloud, spare not. And tell the house

*20 SECRETS LADIES ADMIRE BUT MOST GUYS DON'T KNOW*

1- *Call her like twice daily*

2- *Don't wait until she ask you for money,give out freely.*

3 *Don't tell her she's boring*

4 - *Kiss her on her fore head*

5- *Whenever she tells you she's missing you, and you are not around, try your best to see her that day or do video call*.

6- *Play with her like your sister*

7- *whenever she tells u,baby am sorry, try and forgive/forget*.

8- *Have special time with her and tell her how beautiful she is*.

9- *Don't make her cry*.

10- *If she cry, kiss her tears and tell her she's beautiful*.

11- *Introduce her to your friends* .

12- *Don't promise her heaven and earth wen u don't have it*.

13- *Hold her on her waist while walking together to make her feel protected*.

14. *Tell her how special she is* .

15- *Don't engage her with a ring if u are not sure to marry her,cus women do normally get hurt.. and they can cry nonsense*

16- *She's your baby , handle her with care*.

17- *Text her in the morning and tell her u miss her.*

18. *Don't lay your hands on her.*

19. *Correct her privately wen she's wrong in the public.*

20. *Don't buy her the world with everything but buy her your attention*.

HOW YOU PUSH YOUR HUSBAND INTO THE ARMS OF ANOTHER WOMAN

When you hear things like "a man must cheat no matter what you do", my sister it is a scam. Until you understand and accept that men are not created like women, you will continue to join this bandwagon. Most men won't cheat if they have peace of mind and respect from their wives. Because of over familiarity and knowledge of his weakness, you disdain him but when he gets to the office a woman like you treat him like a king, when he goes to the restaurant the ladies there respect him, if he goes to the shopping mall they treat him the way you have never treated him before, the house help treat him like semi god and when he gets to gathering, he's seen as a man of honour by other ladies. But when he gets home, you disrespect him, nag him, insult him and make him feel less of what they made him felt about himself outside. Gradually he starts enjoying the company of those ladies, he stays a little bit with them than coming home. That's the time you start complaining he's coming home late. Even if those ladies didn't give him sex, he begins to see them better than he sees you and in no time he gets attracted to them, he starts giving their needs attention and unconsciously those ladies start to get indebted to him. At this stage, all he needs to sleep with them is just a word or an enclosed room. Because these ladies don't know his weakness like you know, they will treat him well so he can stay with them.

Madam, let me tell you the truth, it's not every man that wants to cheat. Cheating is capital intensive, but some of these side chicks know how to give value for money spent on them but you see it as your right and most times abuse it. Before you say I am encouraging men to cheat, let me ask you ma, is your husband happy at home? Do you appreciate his little efforts to make the family stay happy? Or you make him feel worthless and irresponsible because he is not able to do for you what your friend's husband did for her?

The same way you need love and attention, the same way he needs respect and sex. If you can not meet up with his desire for respect and sex be ready to open the door for side chicks.

I know many women will throw stones at me over this piece...........AIR YOUR VIEW... NO INSULT

SOMETIMES WE LET GO

.1 ---- Sometimes, you need to Let Go, bcoz you will Never Find the Right Person if you are still with the Wrong one

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2 ----- Sometimes, Some People think You will be around Forever regardless of what they do, and that's where they mess up

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3 ---- Sometimes, We need to be Hurt in order to Grow. We must lose in order to Gain. Sometimes, Life's Lessons are learned through Pain

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4 ----- Sometimes, We can't ask Why. Sometimes, We will never Know Why. Sometimes, We just need to Move Forward and Stop Regretting the Past

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5 ---- Sometimes, Life Gives You The Test Before You've had Time To Learn the Lesson

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6 ---- Sometimes, We just don't Appreciate Those People Who Really Care for us until They Leave Us or Until We Lose Them.

CHARACTER or PRETENCE

"I have done everything" mentality.

Many couples often claim that they are doing or have done "everything" necessary for their spouses to love them, or change from their bad conducts, yet, they wouldn't change. Are they actually getting it right or they think they are doing "everything" correctly? The human mind is complex.

HAVING THE INTENTION TO DO anything is different from doing it, and IT IS NOT ENOUGH TO DO SOMETHING, IT MUST BE DONE WELL, yet to our minds, we are doing it. There are a few people only who can judge themselves appropriately. It takes a matured mind to take a proper self assessment.

THEREFORE, when we have the excellent intentions to do "everything" necessary for our marriages to work excellently, let what we do become our lifestyle instead of being a mere wishful thinking or an ad-hoc conduct, a temporary behaviour, a pretence or a "test".

WHEN it becomes our habit, we will be doing the "everything" without feeling burdened or noticing it ourselves but it is being observed by others who will then appreciate our character and not just our behaviour.

IF A PERSON OF BAD CHARACTER pretends with a good behaviour, many people will still see the pretence in such a behaviour and refuse to acknowledge it as true. Pretending to be what we are not may stay for long but will surely expire unless we work hard to turn the pretence into our character.

IT MEANS WE NEED TO make sure we are real in our behaviour, learn to improve our conducts and review our character. One of the many good ways of achieving this is to choose wisely those we associate with, whether individuals or groups; acquire self-discipline or find a mentor.

SOME CHARACTERS ARE INFECTIOUS;

HARMLESS" THINGS PEOPLE DO THAT LEAD TO ILLICIT SEX

"HARMLESS" THINGS PEOPLE DO THAT LEAD TO ILLICIT SEX 1.Calling everyone dear, dearie, dearest, sweet, sweetie, and all those "harmless" pet names. 2. Calling and allowing the opposite sex to call you sexy, curvy, angel, idol, etc. 3. Pouting your mouth and posting the picture on the social media (You give more focus to the lips). 4. Turning your bum to the camera and posting the picture on the social media. Same for ladies who focus more on the chest region. 5. Hugging, touching and embracing every Tom, Dick and Harry. 6. Allowing the opposite sex give you sexy compliments and secretly or publicly enjoying the compliment e.g. "I like your figure", "You've got kissable lips," "Your moustache makes you look so sexy," "Your height is tripping. I like guys who are muscular and six feet tall." 7. You allowed your EX back into your life. 8. You allow the opposite friend to visit you anyday, anytime. 9. You visit the opposite sex friend anyday, any time. 10. You "flirt" harmlessly with the opposite sex. 11. As a married man/woman, you chat with the opposite sex far into the night. 12. You give "harmless" pecks and kisses. 13. Your dates are always done in lonely places. 14. You counsel and pray with the opposite sex in a lonely or dark room. 15. You end up having emotional and physical sexual affair and lose yourself respect for life! These things look harmless but have very serious implications. Jesus says "Flee all appearances of evil"! No, you don't wait until that guy/lady ask for sex before you run! You run at the beginning! Say NO to things that are not proper, say NO to words that turn you on, say NO to people that makes you feel "hot!" Avoid situations and environments that encourage sin. Keep your chastity. Keep your testimony. God bless you. Cheers!