Wednesday 8 September 2021

I married you not to play with you

They got married after a beautiful love story, and after two weeks of their marriage, the husband woke up to go to work.
First, he went to the bathroom to wash his face, and in the mirror there, he saw his face full of drawings of different colours.
The wife was young, childish, with an innocent heart. She scribbled on his face when he was still sleeping, and she did so with a great love, that they would laugh about it in the morning.
The husband washed his face while upset, and went to the kitchen to drink the coffee which he usually does every morning. But he did not find the coffee, and became more upset, and went to her.
The wife smiled because she thought he would laugh at her, and say something romantic as he used to do before. But he slapped her until she fell down, and yelled at her saying:
“I didn't marry you to play with you, I am a man and not a young child... I married you to start a family to have children, to be a man in the eyes of everyone.
Do you want to live a love story of the films and those novels that you used to read? You have to wake up, know it that those stories do not make a home, provide food, nor raise children.
Today, I will invite my friends for lunch, I want everything to be ready when I come back. Do you understand?”
The husband said that and went out, and with that, saw himself as the master of the house. He left her broken, crying so hard that she could not breathe well.
The wife was very sick and when she cried she almost broke out. Then she hurriedly went to prepare lunch, but tears did not leave her cheeks.
The husband went and told his friend what had happened while laughing: “They thought that marriage is all love and romance. This is how women should be treated, my friend, otherwise she will never learn responsibility. She will not be a good mother. She must know that marriage is not as she sees or reads about it. These are just stories to gain profits. They need to learn that marriage is not a game or a novel...”
But fortunately his friend was not like him, he did not let him finish his conversation, he cut him saying: “What kind of a man are you? Why are you so harsh on your wife? Is this how a good husband is supposed to be?
The Messenger of God (May God's Blessings and Peace be upon him) said: “Be gentle with ladies, they are like glasses. You have to deal with them gently and be soft on them, and do not break their hearts no matter what.”
Blessings and Peace of God be upon him said: “This world is temporary joys, and the best temporary joy of this world is a righteous wife.”
Beware what you mentioned a little while ago about cooking and raising the children. It is not compulsory for her, but being nice to her will make her love you more, and be passionate on you, and she will do all these without you even telling her. You should know that she is not your housemaid.
Go back to your senses my friend, and repent to God. Go back to your wife and honour her and do not make her sad again...
The husband felt sad and regretted what he did. He then decided to call her to tell her that he had cancelled the lunch invitation of his friends, and to prepare lunch for them alone.
The phone rang but there was no answer. He went back to the house quickly and rang the doorbell but no one answered.
And he forgot his keys in the morning, because he came out while upset. Suddenly, his phone rang, and it was his in-law (his wife's brother).
His wife had called his brother when she felt she was not well, to take her to the hospital.
His wife's brother said to him: “Brother, we are in the hospital.”
His voice was full of sadness, which made the husband's heart almost to stop from fear, and the idea that something bad had happened to his wife.
He stopped a cab/Taxi and went immediately to the hospital, and found all her family there. There was sadness on their faces.
He thought that they would be angry at him, but it seems they didn't know what had happened.
He greeted them and waited for the doctor.
After several hours the doctor came out to them with his head down and said: “With great sadness and sorrow, May God Have Mercy on her, the weakness of her heart came to us late.”
Everyone cried bitterly, especially the husband, who regretted and blamed himself for being the cause of his wife's death.
His mother-inlaw washed the wife's corpse and her remains/body was buried the same day.
In the evening that day, the husband returned home after taking the keys from the brother of his deceased wife.
When he entered the house, he found that the table in the parlour was covered. He quickly removed the cover and found that there were all kinds of best delicious dishes...
He also saw a white paper hanging on the door of the refrigerator, which was written: “My love, I am sorry because I wanted you to betray the customs and traditions of your community.
“I am sorry because I wanted you to get out of this stone heart of a man, and to hear from you some romantic words, and hug me and tell me that you love me.
“Please, forgive me because of my childish act and mind. I just wanted you to treat me like a child. I hope your friends will like the food, and I promise that I will never make you sad/upset again. I promise you. I love you so much!”
He then looked at the table and threw the food everywhere, and sat down crying, crying and saying: “What did I do to you my love? I killed you with my cruelty, please forgive me!”
These days, we dishonor a man who loves and spoils his wife. We have forgotten that, you are considered a great man if you have mercy on your wife, and it is also a Command of God.
For God says: “....and of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates, that you may find tranquillity in them. He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed, in that are signs for a people who give thought”
Remember your wife is from yourself,
# woman So when she is happy, you will live a happy life. Also know that building a happy home requires, Patience, Honesty and Love...
Have a pleasant & wonderful marriage

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