REASONS WHY PEOPLE EXPERIENCE DELAYED MARRIAGE

It's good to marry early, the Bible is full of scriptures referring to "the wife of thy youth", "the children of thy youth".

Marrying early (EARLY here simply meaning marrying in thy Youth age) in Life is advantageous over Marrying Late,

Even at that, it may not be our fault that we end up marrying later than we envisaged, sometimes it's beyond our control, but not in all cases,

sometimes we are the ones who by our own actions prolong our single hood.

So I've complied Ten reasons why this is so.

1) YOU DECIDED NOT TO GET MARRIED.

I decided to start with this one because there are People who have decided not to get Married for personal decisions, and you don't force Marriage on everyone.

So if you've taken this decision, you'd definitely be single at 40 and beyond that as well.

Have Fun

2) VILLAGE PEOPLE

Except you don't believe in the supernatural, my brethren, things are happening.

It's the reason I feel for People who are not Prayerful,

some persons feel that there's no need to pray when it comes to Marriage, after all Jeffrey that was a chronic womanizer back then in school got married early and has 3 kids already, forgetting that we all come from different families and face different backgrounds and battles.

(3) BEING TOO CHOOSY

Some ladies are too choosy and that's their problem, all the Men God has sent their way, they have had issues with each one,

What do they now want?

He must be Tall, Dark and Handsome, romantic, have six packs, drive a Mercedes Benz, be able to spend N500k in one sitting,

Naira loaded and tongue speaking godly yahoo boy.

Where will you see that combination in one Man?

When as a bachelor, you say the lady must have the combined body of Mercy Johnson, Ini Edo and Genevieve, must be smart like chimamanda, must be....

No wonder you are still single at 42.

Any one that God shows them, they don't want

Jane? she talks too much,

What of Ruth? she's too quiet

What of Oziegbe? she's too local

What of Esther, she's too black,

And you are now 39, we hail you Sir,

Grand Bachelor of the Order of the Niger (GBON)

Keep searching for the Perfect Spouse.

(4) YOUR CULTURE

The younger one can not marry before the elder one and elder one is kuku having problems getting a partner

The Man must be ready to buy 500 tuber of yams, 3 sewing machines, 30 bags of rice, one suzuki motorcycle,...................

....... List goes on

It was that list that drove Segun, Paul, John away,