Being Emotionally cold, dry or stiff to your partner or spouse to avoid expression of affection in Relationship is not being Spiritual. You're naive, ignorant & immature that need to grow up emotionally since there's no intention for sexual flirting.
As Partners' or Spouses, learn to laugh & read together, share jokes together, meditate in scriptures together, play outdoor games, cry together during emotional tough times, get angry at each other and settle differences together, talk & walk together are part of showing simple loving affection without flirting if Single.
These attitudes heals the mind from depression and helps to clarify many doubts & wrong assumptions in Love Relationship/Marriage. Squeezing faces, hostile, moody, unlively, being over-serious over everything & unnecessary quietness without sense of humor makes every Relationship time spent together to be boring, unexciting & dull leading to break-up or separation.
After all, not only you has life problems to solve that makes you look like zombie that scares happy people away with your hostility, we all have our hidden burdens yet smiling with radiant hope in God.
Stop being Emotionally rigid, hard to please, unnecessarily tough & difficult as being Spiritual yet married or desiring to be engaged, it's mere hypocrisy & self righteousness that yields nothing in Christ.*
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